Match.com (Volume 6)
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slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
I can tell from what she's written and how she's written it that she's just your stereotypical immature attention-seeking kid. Been with the bloke for 13 years?
Was he dating her when she was still a single digit age then? eta: is the "19-32" his ages or hers? I read it as his.
slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
How someone can scrawl a quite long paragraph and have nothing good whatsoever in there.... that's impressive. I'd feel sorry for her in a way until i started seeing her specifying requirements. You'd be lucky to get a fat bald Steven to put up with your sOne of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
te bh.Paddy_N_Murphy said:
You do right.
Bin that FWB. Not healthy (mentally or physically)
Delete her as much as possible and definitely out of the phone.
What he said, 100%.Bin that FWB. Not healthy (mentally or physically)
Delete her as much as possible and definitely out of the phone.
It sounds rather like you were being used for the wining and dining (ie, wallet) part that Ex-Husband can't be bothered with spending his money on.
There are far more straightforward people out there, even among those that only want a free dinner.
edit - When your paths do cross, be polite, but nothing else. You've taken a position, falling back from that now will do nothing other than show you have "welcome" printed on your back.
Edited by shtu on Tuesday 30th October 19:42
shtu said:
What he said, 100%.
It sounds rather like you were being used for the wining and dining (ie, wallet) part that Ex-Husband can't be bothered with spending his money on.
There are far more straightforward people out there, even among those that only want a free dinner.
edit - When your paths do cross, be polite, but nothing else. You've taken a position, falling back from that now will do nothing other than show you have "welcome" printed on your back.
Be aware that if you bin her it may send her the other way where she decides suddenly she wants you! It sounds rather like you were being used for the wining and dining (ie, wallet) part that Ex-Husband can't be bothered with spending his money on.
There are far more straightforward people out there, even among those that only want a free dinner.
edit - When your paths do cross, be polite, but nothing else. You've taken a position, falling back from that now will do nothing other than show you have "welcome" printed on your back.
Edited by shtu on Tuesday 30th October 19:42
slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
I was just about to PM you a message until I read the last line.One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
Stay away from the mind fk ones.
Its really unhealthy and bad for your mental health - I met someone new at the start of this year and currently never been happier. Before that I had a ridiculous on and off relationship with someone who was incredibly bad for me, lied all the time and was very dramatic. I only realised now I am happy how unhappy I had been.
One thing I will say when single is that don't be bothered about being rejected. I messaged loads of different girls. Eventually you click with one if you try it with enough and the one you will end up going out with will be much better than a lot of the ones who ignored you. Then they see you happy and like to message you and it feels good to ignore them
When I put nice pics of me and my gf on instagram or stories the amount of girls who have messaged me is so weird always want what they can't have.
k ones.Its really unhealthy and bad for your mental health - I met someone new at the start of this year and currently never been happier. Before that I had a ridiculous on and off relationship with someone who was incredibly bad for me, lied all the time and was very dramatic. I only realised now I am happy how unhappy I had been.
One thing I will say when single is that don't be bothered about being rejected. I messaged loads of different girls. Eventually you click with one if you try it with enough and the one you will end up going out with will be much better than a lot of the ones who ignored you. Then they see you happy and like to message you and it feels good to ignore them
When I put nice pics of me and my gf on instagram or stories the amount of girls who have messaged me is so weird always want what they can't have.slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
So the question is Mr E.... When are you meeting her?? One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
I feel absolutely awful for wondering if she drove him to it...One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
shtu said:
Paddy_N_Murphy said:
You do right.
Bin that FWB. Not healthy (mentally or physically)
Delete her as much as possible and definitely out of the phone.
What he said, 100%.Bin that FWB. Not healthy (mentally or physically)
Delete her as much as possible and definitely out of the phone.
It sounds rather like you were being used for the wining and dining (ie, wallet) part that Ex-Husband can't be bothered with spending his money on.
There are far more straightforward people out there, even among those that only want a free dinner.
edit - When your paths do cross, be polite, but nothing else. You've taken a position, falling back from that now will do nothing other than show you have "welcome" printed on your back.
Edited by shtu on Tuesday 30th October 19:42
t test).There's three totally separate parts to our relationship - to start with were/are really good friends (way before anything else started), then there's the physical 'with benefit's side of things, and then there's been a few times where she seems to have wanted to get more serious and then backed off after a couple of weeks with no further explanation.
dai1983 said:
Be aware that if you bin her it may send her the other way where she decides suddenly she wants you!
I've considered that, and I've given her the cold treatment a few times, doesn't seem to make much difference to her. I sometimes tell her when I'm out socialising with other women (friends, and another ex fwb), but that doesn't seem to make her jealous either.Anyway, I joined Meetup yesterday, mainly to work on my social skills with new people than hoping to pull. Thought I'd best jump straight else I'd never get round to it and went to my first meet last night (pub quiz). Turned out ok, women out numbered the men, but they were all considerably older than me. No bother, made for a low pressure introduction to something new.
mjb1 said:
I've considered that, and I've given her the cold treatment a few times, doesn't seem to make much difference to her. I sometimes tell her when I'm out socialising with other women (friends, and another ex fwb), but that doesn't seem to make her jealous either.
Anyway, I joined Meetup yesterday, mainly to work on my social skills with new people than hoping to pull. Thought I'd best jump straight else I'd never get round to it and went to my first meet last night (pub quiz). Turned out ok, women out numbered the men, but they were all considerably older than me. No bother, made for a low pressure introduction to something new.
Well done mate, good move. As an aside though, the only person who should be testing your sAnyway, I joined Meetup yesterday, mainly to work on my social skills with new people than hoping to pull. Thought I'd best jump straight else I'd never get round to it and went to my first meet last night (pub quiz). Turned out ok, women out numbered the men, but they were all considerably older than me. No bother, made for a low pressure introduction to something new.
t is your doc mjb1 said:
I've considered that, and I've given her the cold treatment a few times, doesn't seem to make much difference to her. I sometimes tell her when I'm out socialising with other women (friends, and another ex fwb), but that doesn't seem to make her jealous either.
I think you're bringing a banana to a gun-fight. It sounds like she's simply a lot better at this game than you are. That's no bad thing, it sounds like you're probably a nicer person than she is.
mjb1 said:
Anyway, I joined Meetup yesterday, mainly to work on my social skills with new people than hoping to pull. Thought I'd best jump straight else I'd never get round to it and went to my first meet last night (pub quiz). Turned out ok, women out numbered the men, but they were all considerably older than me. No bother, made for a low pressure introduction to something new.
Good move. Good luck. EL11SEG said:
slipstream 1985 said:
My husband died feb 2017 and I miss the affection cuddles and company. I live alone with my cat. (Who i class as my daughter) hurt her and ill tear ya to pieces. I was with him from 19-32 and since he died I've hid away in the house. I'd have to be drunk first few times prob cause I'm so shy and not used to all this. I love pet rats sadly all mine are dead and cat with rats prob not a good mix tho she was friends with the older rats. So I have a rat car reg lol rat tattoos and im a bit fiery and grumpy sometimes short tempered angry.(a bit more chill nowadays) I'd like no bald guys or beards. I do have a type but I guess it depends how we click or whatever. It's been a long time since I did this lol and all my pics are wrong way round oml. Oh and also I'm afraid no steves or stevens that was hubby's name and that would be weird tho when ive completed my sugar skull and rat tattoo by adding his name it won't be so weird hehehe my dark humour. Oh I loves music all kinds well not that weird screeching stuff. I feels music in ma bones. Loves waking up wiggle dancing to ma music. Did I mention I was a bit nuts and dont really act ma age hehehe. Also im lookin gor someone i can regularly buy weed from ta
One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
So the question is Mr E.... When are you meeting her?? One of pofs finest in my area. Sad for her but so much crazyness
slipstream 1985 said:
I knew you were monitoring this thread and wondered when you'd comment on my post. lol. tbh the cat is the biggest dealbreaker in all of that.
Hey I'm offended!! Actually I have been putting no effort into looking for a man as I was too busy. It's quiet now so on the hunt for hubby no # 2 P.S..... I don't have cats
EL11SEG said:
slipstream 1985 said:
I knew you were monitoring this thread and wondered when you'd comment on my post. lol. tbh the cat is the biggest dealbreaker in all of that.
Hey I'm offended!! Actually I have been putting no effort into looking for a man as I was too busy. It's quiet now so on the hunt for hubby no # 2 P.S..... I don't have cats
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