Match.com (Volume 6)

[Lemming Train]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Righto. Really good date, far hotter than her pictures indicated. Great chemistry between us, couldn’t have invented someone who was more my type if I’d had that computer from Weird Science.

Meal, drinks, cosy bar with lots of physical contact drinks, some seriously good kissing, more drinks and finally a very long slightly handsy kiss goodnight. Message when she got home, thanks for tonight will do it again soon.

This morning sorry you’re not the sort of Alpha male wker I’m usually attracted to. As I said never had a date go well to be bombed so bluntly. But she was at least honest with me. I’m going to get more baskets to keep my eggs in.

WTF! She didn't actually say that though, did she?

[Salmonofdoubt]

Lemming Train said:

WTF! She didn't actually say that though, did she?

Yup. Most bonkers thing any woman has ever said to me.

[Plate spinner]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Lemming Train said:

WTF! She didn't actually say that though, did she?

Yup. Most bonkers thing any woman has ever said to me.

Whilst shocking, in a way it’s good she showed her ‘bonkers’ and duplicitous side so early!

I’d consider it a bulletproof dodged. Onwards!

[johnwilliams77]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Yup. Most bonkers thing any woman has ever said to me.

Proof that women like men who shop in Waitrose.

[Toyoda]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Yup. Most bonkers thing any woman has ever said to me.

So despite calling you a Beta, did she say she'd lost interest? Maybe she meant that despite not being her usual type she was still interested? I'm guessing not though. Stories like this all add weight to going all in on date 1, as there may not be a date 2. Bet you wish you'd taken her home now!

[Saleen836]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Righto. Really good date, far hotter than her pictures indicated. Great chemistry between us, couldn’t have invented someone who was more my type if I’d had that computer from Weird Science.

Meal, drinks, cosy bar with lots of physical contact drinks, some seriously good kissing, more drinks and finally a very long slightly handsy kiss goodnight. Message when she got home, thanks for tonight will do it again soon.

This morning sorry you’re not the sort of Alpha male wker I’m usually attracted to. As I said never had a date go well to be bombed so bluntly. But she was at least honest with me. I’m going to get more baskets to keep my eggs in.

I'm going to guess she didn't open her purse during the date to contribute?
Lucky escape IMO, sounds like a serial dater who knowshow to play to get a free meal/night out. Of course if she did contribute then it was just bad luck that she doesn't want to break her routine of only dating the wrong type.

[Blown2CV]

if she used the precise words "You are not the alpha male wker I am usually attracted to" then could that not mean, i am attracted to you even though you are not my usual type?

[hyphen]

Toyoda said:

... Bet you wish you'd taken her home now!

OP - you said you were practically all over each other, so why didn't you end up spending the night?

[PAUL500]

Had a few dates like that, they want to break the mould, but in the cold light of day they head back to what they know, cannot help themselves.

Enjoy it for what it was, take it on the chin and move on is the best thing to do.

[interstellar]

Blown2CV said:

if she used the precise words "You are not the alpha male wker I am usually attracted to" then could that not mean, i am attracted to you even though you are not my usual type?

I read it the same, I took is as a compliment.

[Dromedary66]

He said she used the word "sorry" i.e that's the end of that.

[interstellar]

Dromedary66 said:

He said she used the word "sorry" i.e that's the end of that.

Good spot, that’s the end of that then.

[Salmonofdoubt]

It was a the end of that kind of thing. There was definte physical attraction but she’s apparently got a very specific type of man in mind. Oh and she did contribute so it wasn’t at all like she was after a free night out. But I do now regret not taking her home, but at the end of the evening there was a second date on the cards.

No great loss, I had a fun Friday night with a woman I found hot. I’d rather have done that and bombed than never asked her out and been left wondering what if. It’s the first time I’ve spoken to someone and been on a date within a couple of days. It’s the way forward because it makes any rejection far easier to take and leaves little time for either of you to consider it being more than a date.

[Monkeylegend]

johnwilliams77 said:

Salmonofdoubt said:

Yup. Most bonkers thing any woman has ever said to me.

Proof that women like middle class men who shop in Waitrose.

EFA.

[Taaaaang]

Salmonofdoubt said:

Monkeylegend said:

interstellar said:

Salmonofdoubt said:

Last night's date was fab. But has utterly baffled me. I'm still not quite sure how to digest it.

Spill the beans matey!!

Sounds like he did, the coffee beans.

Righto. Really good date, far hotter than her pictures indicated. Great chemistry between us, couldn’t have invented someone who was more my type if I’d had that computer from Weird Science.

Meal, drinks, cosy bar with lots of physical contact drinks, some seriously good kissing, more drinks and finally a very long slightly handsy kiss goodnight. Message when she got home, thanks for tonight will do it again soon.

This morning sorry you’re not the sort of Alpha male wker I’m usually attracted to. As I said never had a date go well to be bombed so bluntly. But she was at least honest with me. I’m going to get more baskets to keep my eggs in.

She wanted to fk.

You let her go home; she thinks you're a pussy for letting her do so.

Simple as that really.

Nothing good rarely ever comes from getting hot and heavy with a girl on a first date and not seeing it through to the bedroom. If there's a genuine reason you can't spend the night, let the tension build...don't ruin it with teenage makeout sessions.

[hyphen]

+1 to the below. Sounded she wanted a one nighter.

[johnwilliams77]

Write back
“Your loss love”

[NoVetec]

Send her a dick pic with a wedged wallet hanging over it.

You'll be both alpha and beta.

[Shnozz]

Taaaaang said:

Salmonofdoubt said:

Monkeylegend said:

interstellar said:

Salmonofdoubt said:

Last night's date was fab. But has utterly baffled me. I'm still not quite sure how to digest it.

Spill the beans matey!!

Sounds like he did, the coffee beans.

Righto. Really good date, far hotter than her pictures indicated. Great chemistry between us, couldn’t have invented someone who was more my type if I’d had that computer from Weird Science.

Meal, drinks, cosy bar with lots of physical contact drinks, some seriously good kissing, more drinks and finally a very long slightly handsy kiss goodnight. Message when she got home, thanks for tonight will do it again soon.

This morning sorry you’re not the sort of Alpha male wker I’m usually attracted to. As I said never had a date go well to be bombed so bluntly. But she was at least honest with me. I’m going to get more baskets to keep my eggs in.

She wanted to fk.

You let her go home; she thinks you're a pussy for letting her do so.

Simple as that really.

Nothing good rarely ever comes from getting hot and heavy with a girl on a first date and not seeing it through to the bedroom. If there's a genuine reason you can't spend the night, let the tension build...don't ruin it with teenage makeout sessions.

I disagree. Women can get laid any night of the week should they wish. Giving them a teaser and keeping them hanging is something most blokes won’t do. Same as paying them less attention than the eager pups who will message back in minutes.

I’d just message back here with a fair enough and leave it as that. On to the next.

[Shnozz]

johnwilliams77 said:

Write back
“Your loss love”

Indeed.