Match.com (Volume 6)

[Salmonofdoubt]

Shnozz said:

I’d just message back here with a fair enough and leave it as that. On to the next.

The opportunity to come home with me was offered and declined. I replied to her very politely thanking her for being honest. I'm not interested in games so if she was playing one I will either never know or she will be back in touch.

The former is way more likely.

[Toyoda]

Fair play. Can't go back now anyway. Look on the positive... a good confidence boost which has probably got you all revved up for the next girl!

[hyphen]

Salmonofdoubt said:

The opportunity to come home with me was offered and declined. I replied to her very politely thanking her for being honest. I'm not interested in games so if she was playing one I will either never know or she will be back in touch.

The former is way more likely.

If you ever get bored, text and ask her, what she means by alpha male type. As all seems odd. If she didn't fancy than why wasn't she colder. Weird

[Toyoda]

hyphen said:

If you ever get bored, text and ask her, what she means by alpha male type. As all seems odd. If she didn't fancy than why wasn't she colder. Weird

As I've said many times before there's no point trying to analyse it, mainly cos it might not be true. There could be a million reasons why she didn't want to meet again and the alpha male thing could be a red herring.

[anonymous-user]

She wants a fk boy.

[Blown2CV]

hyphen said:

Salmonofdoubt said:

The opportunity to come home with me was offered and declined. I replied to her very politely thanking her for being honest. I'm not interested in games so if she was playing one I will either never know or she will be back in touch.

The former is way more likely.

If you ever get bored, text and ask her, what she means by alpha male type. As all seems odd. If she didn't fancy than why wasn't she colder. Weird

Tattoos. st 4x4. Royds. Questionable career choice. Is mean. Fights with other men?

[Salmonofdoubt]

Toyoda said:

Fair play. Can't go back now anyway. Look on the positive... a good confidence boost which has probably got you all revved up for the next girl!

Yup it's all practice. I'm actually glad she hasn't strung me along or left me hanging on to false hope.

In many ways I'm lucky but if there's an outside chance of pumping the next one I'm not playing the gentleman card.

[Sheets Tabuer]

chatting to one tonight.

Me, do you have kids?
Her, yeah a 3 year old,.
Me, how long you need single?
Her, 5 years.

She was 47, yeah that's a nope.

[Toyoda]

Sheets Tabuer said:

chatting to one tonight.

Me, do you have kids?
Her, yeah a 3 year old,.
Me, how long you need single?
Her, 5 years.

She was 47, yeah that's a nope.

You didn't expect her to be celibate for 5 years did you?!

[Sheets Tabuer]

No but I'd imagine a woman in her 40s could manage to have sex without getting pregnant.

Especially as she hasn't had a relationship for 5 years.

[hyphen]

Sheets Tabuer said:

No but I'd imagine a woman in her 40s could manage to have sex without getting pregnant.

Especially as she hasn't had a relationship for 5 years.

Manage to have sex without getting pregnant? At that age, she was probably over the moon that it happened, may have even been 'trying hard' for it.

You should be glad you didn't meet her then or it could have been you paying 18 years maintenence

Edited by hyphen on Sunday 30th December 23:26

[Sheets Tabuer]

Exactly, ran for the hills!

[JustALooseScrew]

JustALooseScrew said:

I'd love to ask her out for a drink - but how?

Well, I've been back twice now since making the OP.

She wasn't there

I'm reminded of this.


I'm thinking I might draw some big smilie faces with a marker pen on a couple of coins and nip in for another pint of milk and hope to get her at the checkout

[elanfan]

On the same theme why not use a highlighter pen and when you hand her the coin ask her her - what’s that that’s been highlighted? And if you’ve been accurate and clever enough her reply should be ‘the date’. So you say OK when and where can I pick you up?

[SpeckledJim]

elanfan said:

On the same theme why not use a highlighter pen and when you hand her the coin ask her her - what’s that that’s been highlighted? And if you’ve been accurate and clever enough her reply should be ‘the date’. So you say OK when and where can I pick you up?

Is there a head-in-hands emoji?

[hyphen]

JustALooseScrew said:

Well, I've been back twice now since making the OP.

She wasn't there

I'm reminded of this.


I'm thinking I might draw some big smilie faces with a marker pen on a couple of coins and nip in for another pint of milk and hope to get her at the checkout

It's new years eve. You could have stepped up and asked her for a date,and you could have been cuddling with her tonight, but instead you will be watching Graham Norton or something on your own.

Get it done, yes she may say no, but so what. Askher out the next time you see her.

[elanfan]

SpeckledJim said:

elanfan said:

On the same theme why not use a highlighter pen and when you hand her the coin ask her her - what’s that that’s been highlighted? And if you’ve been accurate and clever enough her reply should be ‘the date’. So you say OK when and where can I pick you up?

Is there a head-in-hands emoji?

This thread is all about getting people together so what does it matter if it’s a bit corny I did something vaguely similar to a girl nearly 30 years ago. She’s still has the note I handed to her over the till in a bank - married her a couple of years later have 3 kids and still together.

So cock off!

[SpeckledJim]

elanfan said:

SpeckledJim said:

elanfan said:

On the same theme why not use a highlighter pen and when you hand her the coin ask her her - what’s that that’s been highlighted? And if you’ve been accurate and clever enough her reply should be ‘the date’. So you say OK when and where can I pick you up?

Is there a head-in-hands emoji?

This thread is all about getting people together so what does it matter if it’s a bit corny I did something vaguely similar to a girl nearly 30 years ago. She’s still has the note I handed to her over the till in a bank - married her a couple of years later have 3 kids and still together.

So cock off!

What sort of highlighter is going to be visible on a coin? And why won't she say 'umm 2014?" with a confused, nervous look on her beautiful face.

Can't see it being the thing that makes her see the real him, tbh, but give it a whirl, you get loads of opportunities to get something like this right!

Edited by SpeckledJim on Monday 31st December 17:35

[Toyoda]

hyphen said:

It's new years eve. You could have stepped up and asked her for a date

Give him a break, he says he's been back twice but she wasn't there!

As for highlighting the date on a coin, and using a cheesy chat up line, FFS what has this thread become.

[Salmonofdoubt]

Off on a NYE date. Separated (not divorced) nurse, 41. Collecting her from home for dinner so no prizes for guessing where I’ll end up.

Based on recent form alone with a wk sock is the 8/13 but I’m going to turn up the Alpha.