Match.com (Volume 6)

[anonymous-user]

johnwilliams77 said:

You. You have made her feel uncomfortable by asking her out whilst she is working and has no where to go (like we told you).

bks to that it’s what makes the world go round. Better and a lot more sincere than propositioning some girl in a bar.
Well done to ‘im for trying!

[Lemming Train]

JustALooseScrew said:

Well, to bring this to a conclusion, it's a 'no'.

Just popped in for some tomatoes and mozzarella, was really surprised to see her at the checkout, don't normally see her there on a weekend.

Anyway joined her queue, she looked a bit awkward so when it was my turn I just asked how she was and said sorry if yesterday embarrassed you or made you feel uncomfortable.

She said no problem, I said sorry again and told her I just had to know for certain.

She said it's ok.

Have you missed out a line here?

[Charlie1986]

Lemming Train said:

Have you missed out a line here?

Thats he now sat in his local nick on Harassment charges

[Plate spinner]

Hard luck old boy, but hey, you tried.

[slipstream 1985]

johnwilliams77 said:

JustALooseScrew said:

Well, to bring this to a conclusion, it's a 'no'.

Just popped in for some tomatoes and mozzarella, was really surprised to see her at the checkout, don't normally see her there on a weekend.

Anyway joined her queue, she looked a bit awkward so when it was my turn I just asked how she was and said sorry if yesterday embarrassed you or made you feel uncomfortable.

She said no problem, I said sorry again and told her I just had to know for certain.

She said it's ok.

Oh, well, at least you tried... now she probably does feel a little uncomfortable since she is stuck there (proven by the fact that 'she looked a bit awkward'). Quite poor show, really.

The difference between genius and insanity is your level of success.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

I say bks to the naysayers. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Who knows, you could now have had a date lined up with a crush.

Anyways, next! (What about your local Lidl checkout girls, anything worth sampling )

[Blown2CV]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I say bks to the naysayers. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Who knows, you could now have had a date lined up with a crush.

Anyways, next! (What about your local Lidl checkout girls, anything worth sampling )

thank god for Lidl girls.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Blown2CV said:

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

I say bks to the naysayers. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Who knows, you could now have had a date lined up with a crush.

Anyways, next! (What about your local Lidl checkout girls, anything worth sampling )

thank god for Lidl girls.

[Lemming Train]

Charlie1986 said:

Lemming Train said:

Have you missed out a line here?

Thats he now sat in his local nick on Harassment charges

[1] Him: How are you? Sorry if yesterday embarrassed you or made you feel uncomfortable.
[2] Her: No problem.
[3] Him: I just had to know for certain.
[4] Her: It's OK.

This makes no sense but whatever... The whole shebang seems cloak and dagger to me. When you've reached levels of infatuation that cause you to visit the shop 3 times a day and then get so paranoid because you phone hasn't instantly rung that you make a special visit to the shop to check the bin locations, it's time take a big step back and have a look at yourself in a mirror to see how ridiculous you're being.

I'd perhaps expect this kind of behaviour from a besotten 14 year old schoolboy trying to 'pull' a cute girl in his class but for a 50+ year old adult to be doing this st?

[JustALooseScrew]

johnwilliams77 said:

JustALooseScrew said:

By whom?

You. You have made her feel uncomfortable by asking her out whilst she is working and has no where to go (like we told you).

Are you being serious?

Have you never seen a girl where your heart melts and the adrenaline pumps so hard that it makes you dizzy?


I apologised to her if it made her feel uncomfortable and she's said it is all ok - what else was I supposed to do?

I don't know where she lives or where she goes out, are you stating that I should have 'interrogated' the other staff harder to gain such info and stalked her via that avenue?

I think it was mostly harmless, it was a note slipped to her. I had no other option other than to stalk her at places she might go to in order to bump in to her, and fk that sort or behaviour.

If you read back, my posts have said I was concerned about putting her in an uncomfortable situation.

So now we both know where we stand, I fancy her some thing rotten, she doesn't feel the same way.

Ce la vie

And life goes on. (I so wish she'd said yes - I really do - we didn't even get a night out with each other to see if there was a connection - and I can still party to 7am).

I have to respect the situation, and even whilst my heart is thumping when I see her I'll remember that her's isn't.

I really really really thought there might be something - so wrong, so wrong.

Edited by JustALooseScrew on Saturday 5th January 17:17

[Salmonofdoubt]

You read too much into something. It's a lesson we all learn (see my date with miss Alpha loving cock tease).

Next time move more quickly and then forget it. The longer you anticipate something the more you will feel pressure when or if you do something. Being more casual gives an impression of confidence even when you're bricking it.

[Lemming Train]

JustALooseScrew said:

I have to respect the situation, and even whilst my heart is thumping when I see her I'll remember that her's isn't.

Seriously? Your heart will be "thumping" every time you see her even though you've been firmly knocked back and it's all over? That's not normal. You really need to stay away now and find somewhere else to shop. Your presence and faux "how are you?" will not be appreciated by her and she will be dreading you coming in even though she'll be forced to stay professional and do the small talk and be all smiley. You need to get over your infatuation before you do something stupid and get yourself locked up or placed on a government list.

[anonymous-user]

Lemming Train said:

Seriously? Your heart will be "thumping" every time you see her even though you've been firmly knocked back and it's all over? That's not normal. You really need to stay away now and find somewhere else to shop. Your presence and faux "how are you?" will not be appreciated by her and she will be dreading you coming in even though she'll be forced to stay professional and do the small talk and be all smiley. You need to get over your infatuation before you do something stupid and get yourself locked up or placed on a government list.

Yes it is

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Lemming Train said:

JustALooseScrew said:

I have to respect the situation, and even whilst my heart is thumping when I see her I'll remember that her's isn't.

Seriously? Your heart will be "thumping" every time you see her even though you've been firmly knocked back and it's all over? That's not normal. You really need to stay away now and find somewhere else to shop. Your presence and faux "how are you?" will not be appreciated by her and she will be dreading you coming in even though she'll be forced to stay professional and do the small talk and be all smiley. You need to get over your infatuation before you do something stupid and get yourself locked up or placed on a government list.

I think you're over-baking it someone. Of course his heart will beat (for now) when he sees her, he fancies her! OP, pick random lanes in there for a while, let her know that you're not going in to 'see' her.

And to others questioning about him being in 3x a day, it's his local shop. We have a local store 100 metres away, I'm on first name terms with the owner Dad and Daughter, and I can be in there 3x P/D (need milk in the morning, something to go with lunch, bottle of wine or Sarah wanting some chocolate in the eve)

[mjb1]

JustALooseScrew said:

Are you being serious?

Have you never seen a girl where your heart melts and the adrenaline pumps so hard that it makes you dizzy?


I apologised to her if it made her feel uncomfortable and she's said it is all ok - what else was I supposed to do?

I don't know where she lives or where she goes out, are you stating that I should have 'interrogated' the other staff harder to gain such info and stalked her via that avenue?

I think it was mostly harmless, it was a note slipped to her. I had no other option other than to stalk her at places she might go to in order to bump in to her, and fk that sort or behaviour.

If you read back, my posts have said I was concerned about putting her in an uncomfortable situation.

So now we both know where we stand, I fancy her some thing rotten, she doesn't feel the same way.

Ce la vie

And life goes on. (I so wish she'd said yes - I really do - we didn't even get a night out with each other to see if there was a connection - and I can still party to 7am).

I have to respect the situation, and even whilst my heart is thumping when I see her I'll remember that her's isn't.

I really really really thought there might be something - so wrong, so wrong.

Edited by JustALooseScrew on Saturday 5th January 17:17

Well done for trying, was worth a go even if the execution of it sounds a bit clumsy (might just be the way you're telling it). The thing is though, you've built up a picture of this perfect woman in your head, without actually knowing her at all. Reality is that she is probably a completely different person to the one you think she is - she could be better, worse, more compatible, or a total clash of personalities. There's a very good chance she isn't anything like the character you've imagined, and finding that out by dating her might have led to a bit of a disappointment anyway. I know this because I'm really bad for doing the same myself, and then I take a step back and realise that actually the person in my head isn't the same as the real person.

Onwards and upwards, plenty more fish in the sea etc. And from what you've said, she hasn't said out and out that she's not interested, just that she wasn't embarrassed/offended by your approach? And even if she's not interested this week, she might have kept your number and may change her mind next.

[Johnny Raydome]

Ode to a Checkout Girl:

Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I get the feeling this guy just ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering why I get all these stares,
Cash till to the left of me,
Waste bin to the right,
Here I am,
Stuck in the Lidl with JustALooseScrew

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

Johnny Raydome said:

Ode to a Checkout Girl:

Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I get the feeling this guy just ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering why I get all these stares,
Cash till to the left of me,
Waste bin to the right,
Here I am,
Stuck in the Lidl with JustALooseScrew

[johnwilliams77]

Johnny Raydome said:

Ode to a Checkout Girl:

Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I get the feeling this guy just ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering why I get all these stares,
Cash till to the left of me,
Waste bin to the right,
Here I am,
Stuck in the Lidl with JustALooseScrew

[SpeckledJim]

Plate spinner said:

Hard luck old boy, but hey, you tried.

This. It was worth a go.

[Lemming Train]

Johnny Raydome said:

Ode to a Checkout Girl:

Well I don't know why I came here tonight,
I get the feeling this guy just ain't right,
I'm so scared in case I fall off my chair,
And I'm wondering why I get all these stares,
Cash till to the left of me,
Waste bin to the right,
Here I am,
Stuck in the Lidl with JustALooseScrew