Match.com (Volume 6)
Discussion
Thankyou4calling said:
The lady’s I see are not going to Harvester or be treated to a Trip to Next.
Am I paying? There’s no cash given but of course like us all there is a transaction an that involves handbags, shoes and nights out at fancy bars.
It’d be the same if I were 50 or 25.
The type of woman that appeals to me is glamorous and that takes effort.
I’m under no illusions that if I drove a 53 reg Corsa and shopped at Matalan I wouldn’t be punching above my weight.
But I don’t so I do .
If people look at me as tragic ( and I’d say most are too bothered about themselves to worry about me) that’s there issue.
I enjoy being with a beautiful woman and there aren’t many of those who are my age.
Nope, never bought any lady I've been seeing shoes or handbags for their birthday. Early have they been the type for fancy bars on their birthday either. If you're taking about any other night of the year then we've always each paid or own way.Am I paying? There’s no cash given but of course like us all there is a transaction an that involves handbags, shoes and nights out at fancy bars.
It’d be the same if I were 50 or 25.
The type of woman that appeals to me is glamorous and that takes effort.
I’m under no illusions that if I drove a 53 reg Corsa and shopped at Matalan I wouldn’t be punching above my weight.
But I don’t so I do .
If people look at me as tragic ( and I’d say most are too bothered about themselves to worry about me) that’s there issue.
I enjoy being with a beautiful woman and there aren’t many of those who are my age.
I look at people like trump/ eclestone etc with those age differences and can't help but think, she sees the money in him. Shallow aren't I?
I wouldn’t say you’re shallow.
You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
Thankyou4calling said:
I wouldn’t say you’re shallow.
You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
Do believe she enjoys having sex with you or is just doing it for the £££? (like bernie and trump)You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
Thankyou4calling said:
I wouldn’t say you’re shallow.
You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
Where do you meet these girls and are they of East European descent?You have a view, it isn’t the same as mine but it’s still valid.
There’s no rules in dating, you make your own, as long as both are comfortable with each other then crack on.
You don’t buy handbags and shoes, I do.
If I didn’t I’d be in the primark, but I do so I’m shopping at selfridges.
Theres a guy i know who is similar, 50+ but likes young EE ladies, fair play to him as he isnt gifted financially (that i know of)
lemmingjames said:
Where do you meet these girls and are they of East European descent?
Theres a guy i know who is similar, 50+ but likes young EE ladies, fair play to him as he isnt gifted financially (that i know of)
Meet on line, arrange a date within 4 or 5 days and go from there.Theres a guy i know who is similar, 50+ but likes young EE ladies, fair play to him as he isnt gifted financially (that i know of)
Not Eastern European, I’ve a preference for much darker skin.
I’m in a committed relationship now (6 months) so not trawling the apps.
For those who say there aren’t many women who want a man 20 years older and do they enjoy sex.
Really? You need to get out more. There are thousands, it’s perfectly normal, you clearly inhabit a different world to me.
No issue with that but just because you aren’t, or can’t dont think it’s the same for everyone.
As I’ve said, I’m under no illusions as to why I can date these ladies.
They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
Thankyou4calling said:
As I’ve said, I’m under no illusions as to why I can date these ladies.
They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
George Smiley said:
Yup, some gents still left
Just finally ended a relationship that had lurched on life support since our 1st anniversary last year
Took her to the pub we met in, booked same table, presents hidden behind bar brought out with food. I was really pleased with myself
30 minutes later she’s laying into me saying I’m thoughtless amongst other traits, because I’m still friends with my daughters mums family I’m still in love with that ex (of 12 years). I knew then but for whatever excuse it continued
Ritual belittling and undermining until I reacted then I’m called angry, I blame her and then I’m an abuser as abusers always blame the victim (f
king logic bomb)
Give it a few months and I’ll dust down the tinder account
Women!
Sounds very very familiar.... Is there a personality trait to describe this behaviour..?? Is it narcissm or something else.Just finally ended a relationship that had lurched on life support since our 1st anniversary last year
Took her to the pub we met in, booked same table, presents hidden behind bar brought out with food. I was really pleased with myself
30 minutes later she’s laying into me saying I’m thoughtless amongst other traits, because I’m still friends with my daughters mums family I’m still in love with that ex (of 12 years). I knew then but for whatever excuse it continued
Ritual belittling and undermining until I reacted then I’m called angry, I blame her and then I’m an abuser as abusers always blame the victim (f
king logic bomb)Give it a few months and I’ll dust down the tinder account
Women!
Thankyou4calling said:
Think cars.
Dacia = Matalan
Bentley = selfridges
Fill in the gaps between and remember
No Armani no punani
Ah, well they say theres an exception to every rule and since i have no armani, i must be that exception. Well either that or the rule is b****ks which seems more likely.Dacia = Matalan
Bentley = selfridges
Fill in the gaps between and remember
No Armani no punani
Thanks for the vote of confidence and saying i'm not shallow though!
Thankyou4calling said:
As I’ve said, I’m under no illusions as to why I can date these ladies.
They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
Thanks for sharing. Sounds like you go for the younger glamour puss. Not something I'm looking for at all. Do you think you are missing out on sharing certain parts of your life with your current partner say just because she might break one of her nails doing something less glamorous. I'm not trying to offend but just trying to understand since I'm also in my early fifties but I am dating 40+ and my experiences so far have been that there are some stunning 40 and 50+ women out there.They have an expectation and make it clear.
However I also am exceptional company, very smart, an absolute gentleman.
I know fantastic places to go and I don’t stand in queues or struggle to get a table.
It’s not enough to be able to splash some cash. There are plenty who can do that.
You need more, and I have it.
Cue the laughter.
Thanks
Thankyou4calling said:
Meet on line, arrange a date within 4 or 5 days and go from there.
Not Eastern European, I’ve a preference for much darker skin.
I’m in a committed relationship now (6 months) so not trawling the apps.
For those who say there aren’t many women who want a man 20 years older and do they enjoy sex.
Really? You need to get out more. There are thousands, it’s perfectly normal, you clearly inhabit a different world to me.
No issue with that but just because you aren’t, or can’t dont think it’s the same for everyone.
If you believe she 'loves you' for anything other than your money then you are massively deluded. Everytime you are behind her rattling away for 2mins after popping a viagra she is bored to tears, rolling her eyes, wishing she was with someone she loved and didn't have to be with for the hangbags. Enjoy.Not Eastern European, I’ve a preference for much darker skin.
I’m in a committed relationship now (6 months) so not trawling the apps.
For those who say there aren’t many women who want a man 20 years older and do they enjoy sex.
Really? You need to get out more. There are thousands, it’s perfectly normal, you clearly inhabit a different world to me.
No issue with that but just because you aren’t, or can’t dont think it’s the same for everyone.
johnwilliams77 said:
If you believe she 'loves you' for anything other than your money then you are massively deluded. Everytime you are behind her rattling away for 2mins after popping a viagra she is bored to tears, rolling her eyes, wishing she was with someone she loved and didn't have to be with for the hangbags. Enjoy.
You'd like to think that but there's plenty of ladies out there ready to put up with some old dude hanging out of them if said guy buys them nice stuff/holidays etc. There's been numerous tv programmes/documentaries on this type of lady.
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