Thinking of leaving the OH
Discussion
frumpytrickle said:
Adenauer said:
Was that really called for?
A few decades ago.. I was his daughter. So yes.Your circumstances have the square route of fk all to do with mine. Have you even read the thread in full? Because I suspect, as is usually the case, after about page 10 many are just jumping in with their 'advice' having not fully grasped the situation.
If you had read the thread you would appreciate that the main reason I am conflicted on this issue is because of my daughter. If I was some sort of prick that didn't value my daughter then the thread title would be "I've just left the OH" and my user name would be DoneSomethingMorallyQuestionable.
While we're clearing up some misunderstandings can I just address the perception that I am some sort pleb that has had a kid and got tired with cleaning up nappies and leaves it all to the mother. I am an active and committed father. I am up with my daughter at the crack of dawn everyday to maximise our time together, I work in one of the most stressful environments imaginable and then go home and play with her until bath time, which I do. I am not a hands off father who pines for the freedom of youth and chasing skirt.
I am someone who finds themselves in the agonising position of not feeling the love and affection I once felt for the woman I had planned to spend the rest of my life with - I am determined to do what is best for ALL concerned.
Sorry to those of you that have clearly got the fuller picture and offered you advice accordingly.
Monkeylegend said:
DoTheRightThing said:
AndStilliRise said:
OP - your a dick. Literally.
Even in the short time you've been a member of PH I'd of thought you'd learnt that the only thing worse than a limp insult around these parts is a limp insult with a spelling mistake. Jog on.
Your fiance and daughter deserve better than you.
Someone called him a dick, and in turn, he responded, in a measured way without resorting to profanity.
So no, he's not turning abusive.
DoTheRightThing said:
frumpytrickle said:
Adenauer said:
Was that really called for?
A few decades ago.. I was his daughter. So yes.Your circumstances have the square route of fk all to do with mine. Have you even read the thread in full? Because I suspect, as is usually the case, after about page 10 many are just jumping in with their 'advice' having not fully grasped the situation.
If you had read the thread you would appreciate that the main reason I am conflicted on this issue is because of my daughter. If I was some sort of prick that didn't value my daughter then the thread title would be "I've just left the OH" and my user name would be DoneSomethingMorallyQuestionable.
While we're clearing up some misunderstandings can I just address the perception that I am some sort pleb that has had a kid and got tired with cleaning up nappies and leaves it all to the mother. I am an active and committed father. I am up with my daughter at the crack of dawn everyday to maximise our time together, I work in one of the most stressful environments imaginable and then go home and play with her until bath time, which I do. I am not a hands off father who pines for the freedom of youth and chasing skirt.
I am someone who finds themselves in the agonising position of not feeling the love and affection I once felt for the woman I had planned to spend the rest of my life with - I am determined to do what is best for ALL concerned.
Sorry to those of you that have clearly got the fuller picture and offered you advice accordingly.
You utter stroker!
Studio117 said:
DoTheRightThing said:
frumpytrickle said:
Adenauer said:
Was that really called for?
A few decades ago.. I was his daughter. So yes.Your circumstances have the square route of fk all to do with mine. Have you even read the thread in full? Because I suspect, as is usually the case, after about page 10 many are just jumping in with their 'advice' having not fully grasped the situation.
If you had read the thread you would appreciate that the main reason I am conflicted on this issue is because of my daughter. If I was some sort of prick that didn't value my daughter then the thread title would be "I've just left the OH" and my user name would be DoneSomethingMorallyQuestionable.
While we're clearing up some misunderstandings can I just address the perception that I am some sort pleb that has had a kid and got tired with cleaning up nappies and leaves it all to the mother. I am an active and committed father. I am up with my daughter at the crack of dawn everyday to maximise our time together, I work in one of the most stressful environments imaginable and then go home and play with her until bath time, which I do. I am not a hands off father who pines for the freedom of youth and chasing skirt.
I am someone who finds themselves in the agonising position of not feeling the love and affection I once felt for the woman I had planned to spend the rest of my life with - I am determined to do what is best for ALL concerned.
Sorry to those of you that have clearly got the fuller picture and offered you advice accordingly.
You utter stroker!
Moreover, what would you call someone who posts the same photo, over and over again in various threads?
A stroker, perhaps?
Studio117 said:
DoTheRightThing said:
frumpytrickle said:
Adenauer said:
Was that really called for?
A few decades ago.. I was his daughter. So yes.Your circumstances have the square route of fk all to do with mine. Have you even read the thread in full? Because I suspect, as is usually the case, after about page 10 many are just jumping in with their 'advice' having not fully grasped the situation.
If you had read the thread you would appreciate that the main reason I am conflicted on this issue is because of my daughter. If I was some sort of prick that didn't value my daughter then the thread title would be "I've just left the OH" and my user name would be DoneSomethingMorallyQuestionable.
While we're clearing up some misunderstandings can I just address the perception that I am some sort pleb that has had a kid and got tired with cleaning up nappies and leaves it all to the mother. I am an active and committed father. I am up with my daughter at the crack of dawn everyday to maximise our time together, I work in one of the most stressful environments imaginable and then go home and play with her until bath time, which I do. I am not a hands off father who pines for the freedom of youth and chasing skirt.
I am someone who finds themselves in the agonising position of not feeling the love and affection I once felt for the woman I had planned to spend the rest of my life with - I am determined to do what is best for ALL concerned.
Sorry to those of you that have clearly got the fuller picture and offered you advice accordingly.
You utter stroker!
Studio117 said:
This whole thread is just attention whoring. Woe is me the home wrecker etc etc...
Nobody really gives a fk.
The picture accurately depicts the ops face whenever he posts imo.
The chap wants to offload. We all need to sometimes.Nobody really gives a fk.
The picture accurately depicts the ops face whenever he posts imo.
You are just woefully inept at any type of social situation.
Stop being so angry.
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