The lady at work!
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Mojooo said:
Basically the woman is married with kids - did she actually say she wasn't married?
People rarely say it like that.a) No ring.
b) When asked what she did at weekend, didn't say "oh, me and my husband took the kids to..." which would be an obvious way of stating lack of intent.
It does sound like she was prewarned by Driver's and hers mutual acquaintance, why else would the first question be "Are you on so-and-so's team?".
I suspect there's been a conversation something like,
Them - "You know that bloke in my team, Driver?"
Her - "er, yeah, I think so."
Them - "What do you think of him?"
Her - "Seems alright, not really spoken to him. Why?"
Them - "Well, he seems to have a bit of a thing for you."
Her - "OH. Er, right. Er, OK."
(While secretly being ABSOLUTELY MADE UP that a bloke 10 years her junior is lusting after her. Put it any way you like, that's a massive ego boost for anyone.)
Come lunchtime, a random bloke sits down and says hello, so, just to check, the first question asked is,
"Oh, are you on so-and-so's team?"
"Yes."
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Gaz. said:
Jasandjules said:
I believe another poster has set it out but just to repeat.
1. You parked at her table and she didn't say "WTF are you doing, get lost"...
2. She told you she had kids. You kept talking. As a result of your not running away screaming, she moved onto 3
3. Will you be at the pub Friday.
That means she will be there and if you are there too, well.......
As above, OP the ball is in your court and only you can f1. You parked at her table and she didn't say "WTF are you doing, get lost"...
2. She told you she had kids. You kept talking. As a result of your not running away screaming, she moved onto 3
3. Will you be at the pub Friday.
That means she will be there and if you are there too, well.......
k it up now. C'mon lad don't let us down.There's good odds that the "spent it with the kids" line was a test of the water on her part. As Jas said, you didn't (presumably!) show any adverse reaction to that, hence she moved on to asking you if you were going to the pub on Friday.
I'd bet decent money that she knows you like her and equally decent money that she's interested in you.
See, now that you've spoken to her, you've realised she's actually human after all, and heck, even has some flaws! Friday night should be a walk in the park now.
(I'd have f*cked it up (or not, as the case would be!) at the kids bit, but then I hate kids
)shtu said:
Mojooo said:
Basically the woman is married with kids - did she actually say she wasn't married?
People rarely say it like that.a) No ring.
b) When asked what she did at weekend, didn't say "oh, me and my husband took the kids to..." which would be an obvious way of stating lack of intent.
It does sound like she was prewarned by Driver's and hers mutual acquaintance, why else would the first question be "Are you on so-and-so's team?".
I suspect there's been a conversation something like,
Them - "You know that bloke in my team, Driver?"
Her - "er, yeah, I think so."
Them - "What do you think of him?"
Her - "Seems alright, not really spoken to him. Why?"
Them - "Well, he seems to have a bit of a thing for you."
Her - "OH. Er, right. Er, OK."
(While secretly being ABSOLUTELY MADE UP that a bloke 10 years her junior is lusting after her. Put it any way you like, that's a massive ego boost for anyone.)
Come lunchtime, a random bloke sits down and says hello, so, just to check, the first question asked is,
"Oh, are you on so-and-so's team?"
"Yes."
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brilliant!The1Driver said:
I haven't asked. Like Ive said I see no ring.
FFS why are you guessing this stuff? No ring is no guarantee of anything. Surely this office has an office gossip like every other? It really can't be that hard to find out everything you need to know, about 15 pages ago.
I've had married ones, cohabiting ones and single ones in my old office. If a new looker came in it was a couple of days at most before I had everything I needed to know not to make a
of myself. Personally I'd be hoping she's married but unsatisfied, that way you get a good time without the hassle and cost of actually taking her out.Sneaking around is great, someone always finds out but before that you get great gammys and you don't spend a penny.
- Gammy = Scottish blowjob
When I first met my other 'arf she was about to go on hols with her old school friend. While away she texted a photo of her and some kids with the line 'these are the children I didn't tell you about'.
(It made no difference anyway as I was hooked....)
When she got back it turned out they were her friends kids who shes very close to....
so.....
You don't even know if its a potential menage a deux yet or whether the kids are hers, and if there are kids whether they are carpet monkeys or adults. This lack of knowledge is bad - at least you could find this stuff out before friday so you're prepared. If shes 40 shes been round the block at few times probably so shes done date-a-milf.com incessantly and has a worn out minge anyway.
(It made no difference anyway as I was hooked....)
When she got back it turned out they were her friends kids who shes very close to....
so.....
You don't even know if its a potential menage a deux yet or whether the kids are hers, and if there are kids whether they are carpet monkeys or adults. This lack of knowledge is bad - at least you could find this stuff out before friday so you're prepared. If shes 40 shes been round the block at few times probably so shes done date-a-milf.com incessantly and has a worn out minge anyway.
technodup said:
FS why are you guessing this stuff? No ring is no guarantee of anything.
Sneaking around is great, someone always finds out but before that you get great gammys and you don't spend a penny.
My Scottish grandmother had a 'gammy leg'.Sneaking around is great, someone always finds out but before that you get great gammys and you don't spend a penny.
- Gammy = Scottish blowjob
So now I'm confused.
TheJimi said:
shtu said:
Mojooo said:
Basically the woman is married with kids - did she actually say she wasn't married?
People rarely say it like that.a) No ring.
b) When asked what she did at weekend, didn't say "oh, me and my husband took the kids to..." which would be an obvious way of stating lack of intent.
It does sound like she was prewarned by Driver's and hers mutual acquaintance, why else would the first question be "Are you on so-and-so's team?".
I suspect there's been a conversation something like,
Them - "You know that bloke in my team, Driver?"
Her - "er, yeah, I think so."
Them - "What do you think of him?"
Her - "Seems alright, not really spoken to him. Why?"
Them - "Well, he seems to have a bit of a thing for you."
Her - "OH. Er, right. Er, OK."
(While secretly being ABSOLUTELY MADE UP that a bloke 10 years her junior is lusting after her. Put it any way you like, that's a massive ego boost for anyone.)
Come lunchtime, a random bloke sits down and says hello, so, just to check, the first question asked is,
"Oh, are you on so-and-so's team?"
"Yes."
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brilliant!Arguably also spoken like a hopeless overoptimist
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