Divorcing empty nesters...

[TheDrBrian]

PAUL500 said:

Whatever you do, make sure you have a clean break in your divorce.

What a leech!

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5965629/Su...

Girl power

[tankplanker]

Would it help set a precedent for future cases? If it would then he has done some good for mankind.

[PAUL500]

I dread to think what the legal costs must have been to get to that point.

Seeing as she has no money now to even pay for her legal costs I doubt he will get a penny back of his either even though he won.

[PAUL500]

Divorce, the gift that keeps on giving even after death! the gall of some people, trying to claim they would have got back together even after the nisi had been issued!

Seems the judge made a sensible decision in this case though for the children.


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5971085/Wi...

Edited by PAUL500 on Friday 20th July 09:48

[hyphen]

Hopefully the ambulance chasing firm who so eagerly took the job make a lot less money than they hoped.

[oldbanger]

Oh dear, did she quit her job?

[MYOB]

anonymous said:

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I would refuse to drop off and collect. Tell her if she wants her son back, then she has to collect him.

Sorry to hear it's still ongoing for you. It's the same for me. My ex is refusing to allow me to attend my child's birthday party and has ignored my requests for details of where the party is. This is despite my son repeatedly telling her that he wants me there.

[anonymous-user]

She’s not Russian is she Tonker?

[hyphen]

MYOB said:

anonymous said:

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I would refuse to drop off and collect. Tell her if she wants her son back, then she has to collect him.

Sorry to hear it's still ongoing for you. It's the same for me. My ex is refusing to allow me to attend my child's birthday party and has ignored my requests for details of where the party is. This is despite my son repeatedly telling her that he wants me there.

I would hire a fit 20 something aupair with looks the ex would kill for. Then get her to do all pick up and drop offs and you will never need to see the ex

[Gargamel]

hyphen said:

I would hire a fit 20 something aupair with looks the ex would kill for. Then get her to do all pick up and drop offs and you will never need to see the ex

This.

[pincher]

Oh, that’s filthy behaviour!



















I approve

[theboss]

Gargamel said:

hyphen said:

I would hire a fit 20 something aupair with looks the ex would kill for. Then get her to do all pick up and drop offs and you will never need to see the ex

This.

Obviously impregnate her too, just for full effect...

[loafer123]

anonymous said:

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I think you need to buy a bodycam.

[Jayzee]

loafer123 said:

anonymous said:

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I think you need to buy a bodycam.

He’s right, I think you need one.

I’m in the same boat as you Tonker, and have decided that it’s probably best to buy one too - I’m never quick enough with my phone. That said, I have some corking videos that I will show to the court when the time is right.

[MYOB]

Jayzee said:

He’s right, I think you need one.

I’m in the same boat as you Tonker, and have decided that it’s probably best to buy one too - I’m never quick enough with my phone. That said, I have some corking videos that I will show to the court when the time is right.

The Courts won't care either way, from my experience.

After my ex admitted she's mistreated my children, they simply congratulated her for recognising her treatment was wrong!

[Jayzee]

MYOB said:

Jayzee said:

He’s right, I think you need one.

I’m in the same boat as you Tonker, and have decided that it’s probably best to buy one too - I’m never quick enough with my phone. That said, I have some corking videos that I will show to the court when the time is right.

The Courts won't care either way, from my experience.

After my ex admitted she's mistreated my children, they simply congratulated her for recognising her treatment was wrong!

There’s so much wrong with this fking country!

Now, if it were a bloke doing the mistreating...

[Don1]

Gargamel said:

hyphen said:

I would hire a fit 20 something aupair with looks the ex would kill for. Then get her to do all pick up and drop offs and you will never need to see the ex

This.

Finally a ray of sunshine in this thread. Have a

Head up, Tonks.

[PostHeads123]

May be not the right post to ask this question but here goes. I want to split from my partner and we have a 2 year old, we are not married (thank god) and the property we live in is in my name, when I took the mortgage as she was not named on the property she had to sign a form from the mortgage company were she said she had no interest in the property. She has 1 bed flat ground floor / garden she currently rents out. Splitting due to her drinking a bottle of wine every night, I don't mind a drink but she nasty drunk anyway had enough of it.

As is the usual story she is very stubborn and living in fantasy land, her expectation is I move out of the house, still pay for everything and maintenance on top, this cant happen as simply I cant afford it. She wont move back to her 1 bed flat as she says its not big enough for 2, so I said I would sell my place and give her some £ to get a 2 bedroom, this I thought reasonable but was told its not acceptable as she wants to do 'everything on my own' and if I gave her £ towards a house I would be in someway control .... I cant win !

Anyway I want out now I cant live under the same roof as her and us being under the same roof is not good for my son, because she wont move out its just dragging the split out, if I ask her to leave or give legal notice I feel bad as its like kicking out my son. Anyway to get to the point I read a few posts / google etc that says no matter what you do don't leave the house or she will end up with rights to stay in it, would that still be the case in my situation where 1. We are not married, 2. She has signed a form for the mortgage company saying she has not interest in the property ?

thanks

[SpeckledJim]

I wouldn't place a great deal of stock in the fact you aren't married. Once you've had children, you might as well be.

[Gargamel]

SpeckledJim said:

I wouldn't place a great deal of stock in the fact you aren't married. Once you've had children, you might as well be.

On the other hand if you are looking after them 50% of the time, you may be able to not pay any maintenance.

Suspect you need to see a lawyer, fairly quickly. With her having another property it may make things easier. Sounds like you need a sober discussion. She can't have the rent from her place, your place to live in, and maintenance on top. some kind of reality check needed.