High-class escorts.

[vonuber]

Speed addicted said:

Supposing you've chosen one off a website (the photos on the sites mentioned have been edited) and when she turns up she's not as described, or is a different person entirely, what do you do?
Are they more likely to be the stunner in the photos as the price goes up?

I'd guess you'd just walk away? It's your money after all.
Also sites like adultwork require verification photos.

[anonymous-user]

vonuber said:

Speed addicted said:

Supposing you've chosen one off a website (the photos on the sites mentioned have been edited) and when she turns up she's not as described, or is a different person entirely, what do you do?
Are they more likely to be the stunner in the photos as the price goes up?

I'd guess you'd just walk away? It's your money after all.
Also sites like adultwork require verification photos.

Plus user reviews would reflect any false advertising.

[catso]

Many years ago I had a company car that broke the cambelt whilst I was driving it.

Whilst it was in for repair it was arranged that I would hire a replacement, when I went to collect it I had to use my credit card and then reclaim the money from the company, this was not a problem however I never did live it down that the receipt read 'Escort hire'...

[xjay1337]

Poor Tommolikesit69 has a full Q&A to come back to!

BTW - fair play. I would if too if I was single and rich. All the benefits of having a woman for smexy time with none of the drawbacks!

[Hainey]

xjay1337 said:

Poor Tommolikesit69 has a full Q&A to come back to!

BTW - fair play. I would if too if I was single and rich. All the benefits of having a woman for smexy time with none of the drawbacks!

I know a few very wealthy guys who have been through a divorce and have the attitude of 'never again' that use them. Having a fair idea of how they were rinsed in a divorce court I don't blame them at all, and I certainly don't judge them.

[ascayman]

wilfandrowlf said:

Always go alone, never tell anyone where I am.
I'm not scarred about being "done over", you just need to keep your wits about you.
I don't actually have penetrative sex (some may say that's strange) but testing is easy to come by and regular.
I'm never embarrassed about asking for what I want, if you choose the right girl it's totally expected and as normal as asking for a cup of tea!
I've never developed an attachment although one of my regular girls has just quit escorting which came as quite a disappointment.

HTH?

I cant be the only one thinking well if youre not having sex, what then?

[anonymous-user]

xjay1337 said:

All the benefits of having a woman for smexy time with none of the drawbacks!

The benefits to me of having a partner are to do with sharing and companionship and having an equal partnership. I'm not sure I'd find that with escorts. (High class or otherwise) To me, It's unlikely the emotional rewards being in a loving relationship gives, can be replicated by paying someone to have sex with you and pretend to like you.

It's like these people on here that bang on about what a great boss they are because employees come with them on work related jollies or say nice things to them.

[Davey S2]

Kinky said:

A lot of them seem quite well educated, as they all seem to have certifications from the Chartered Institute of Marketing ....

Quite a few of them are also stated to be educated to A-Level.

[Mr Roper]

ascayman said:

wilfandrowlf said:

Always go alone, never tell anyone where I am.
I'm not scarred about being "done over", you just need to keep your wits about you.
I don't actually have penetrative sex (some may say that's strange) but testing is easy to come by and regular.
I'm never embarrassed about asking for what I want, if you choose the right girl it's totally expected and as normal as asking for a cup of tea!
I've never developed an attachment although one of my regular girls has just quit escorting which came as quite a disappointment.

HTH?

I cant be the only one thinking well if youre not having sex, what then?

Telephone cord.
Cheese grater.
Nappies.

The list is endless.

[ApOrbital]

[del mar]

PugwasHDJ80 said:

Agree Stovey

There would have to be pretty strong self regulation though as otherwise it would just turn into NP&E which would be totally counter productive.

Otherwise it would be a very very good idea.

It would also be an offset to Mumsnet!

Mumsnet is great, they all seem interested In threesomes and a*** fisting.

[anonymous-user]

del mar said:

PugwasHDJ80 said:

Agree Stovey

There would have to be pretty strong self regulation though as otherwise it would just turn into NP&E which would be totally counter productive.

Otherwise it would be a very very good idea.

It would also be an offset to Mumsnet!

Mumsnet is great, they all seem interested In threesomes and a*** fisting.

I'm not convinced.

Every time my thirst for knowledge has led me there, it's been full of judgmental women shouting that anything sexual that is remotely un-vanilla indicates the man is a pervert or disrespects the woman.

Reddit often has good threads about this kind of thing though. If anyone is interested. They get punters or sex workers on and people ask them questions about what it's like. They have loads of sub Reddits covering all manner of stuff.

[anonymous-user]

PugwasHDJ80 said:

El stovey said:

thomasjonny69 said:

I'm actually glad this topic has come up as I was going to post a question in a very similar vein.

I for one use escorts on a semi-regular basis and I think the old adage "you get what you pay for" is very much true.

I guess the beauty of a forum like this is the fact that it offers anonymity and the chance to get it off your chest, if you know what I mean?

I have a few fetish/kinks and the likes of Adultwork is a great place to find a suitable girl to fulfill such desires.

I'm hoping this post will spark spark some interesting discussion and not just degrade in to a slanging match, so if anyone has any questions, please feel free to ask.

...... in 3....2.....1......

Great post. TBF, I think we should have a sex and relationships forum on here.

You constantly get people in the lounge complaining about relationship threads yet the match threads and those about divorce last for months.

I know there was a reluctance before as pistonheads was still seen as a family forum but the Kind of posting in the NPandE ended any semblance of it being suitable for children years ago.

Agree Stovey

There would have to be pretty strong self regulation though as otherwise it would just turn into NP&E which would be totally counter productive.

Otherwise it would be a very very good idea.

It would also be an offset to Mumsnet!

http://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&f=&t=1644681

Ive put a request in for one. Feel free to offer support if anyone's interested in a forum for this kind of stuff.

[DonkeyApple]

Mr Roper said:

Telephone cord.
Cheese grater.
Nappies.

The list is endless.

Or just a conversation that will never cost more than £200 and definitely be finished in under an hour.

[Morningside]

DonkeyApple said:

Mr Roper said:

Telephone cord.
Cheese grater.
Nappies.

The list is endless.

Or just a conversation that will never cost more than £200 and definitely be finished in under an hour.

Why did this just spring into my mind?

[xjay1337]

El stovey said:

The benefits to me of having a partner are to do with sharing and companionship and having an equal partnership. I'm not sure I'd find that with escorts. (High class or otherwise) To me, It's unlikely the emotional rewards being in a loving relationship gives, can be replicated by paying someone to have sex with you and pretend to like you.

It's like these people on here that bang on about what a great boss they are because employees come with them on work related jollies or say nice things to them.

You realise this is Pistonheads, not Mumsnet?

(Joking).

[Motorrad]

Morningside said:

I'm off to Germany.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4101376/Se...

If we had a scheme here and asked for assistance the Government would post a rubber hand.

Handy for those 'sexual emergencies' which seem to crop up fairly regularly in Germany these days.

[PurpleMoonlight]

El stovey said:

The benefits to me of having a partner are to do with sharing and companionship and having an equal partnership. I'm not sure I'd find that with escorts. (High class or otherwise) To me, It's unlikely the emotional rewards being in a loving relationship gives, can be replicated by paying someone to have sex with you and pretend to like you.

I'm sorry to critisise, but you are deluded if you think men see prostitutes for any kind of emotional relationship substitute.

[anonymous-user]

PurpleMoonlight said:

El stovey said:

The benefits to me of having a partner are to do with sharing and companionship and having an equal partnership. I'm not sure I'd find that with escorts. (High class or otherwise) To me, It's unlikely the emotional rewards being in a loving relationship gives, can be replicated by paying someone to have sex with you and pretend to like you.

I'm sorry to critisise, but you are deluded if you think men see prostitutes for any kind of emotional relationship substitute.

Well yes, that's the point. They don't replace relationships. I am 100% certain though there will be many men that see prostitution as a substitute for non paid relationships.

I know a bloke who goes to escorts a lot. He doesn't bother with more traditional girl friends as he can't be bothered meeting them and going through the whole process of getting to know them and finding out if they'll let him do exotic stuff to them . He freely admits himself that seeing them so frequently has skewed his views on what a relationship is. He rationalises it much like many posters in here who say "all men pay for it " type comments.

[andymc]

PurpleMoonlight said:

El stovey said:

The benefits to me of having a partner are to do with sharing and companionship and having an equal partnership. I'm not sure I'd find that with escorts. (High class or otherwise) To me, It's unlikely the emotional rewards being in a loving relationship gives, can be replicated by paying someone to have sex with you and pretend to like you.

I'm sorry to critisise, but you are deluded if you think men see prostitutes for any kind of emotional relationship substitute.

its just to shag someone out of your league? with me Hilda Ogden