Remember the 'escorts' thread? Confession time.
Discussion
Inigma said:
gmaz said:
I suppose using an escort is like when a petrol head books one of those "Drive a Ferrari" experiences. A home you might have a diesel Focus with a few miles on the clock but its reliable, its there for you and does what you want it to, but occasionally you want a bit of excitement so you pay £150 for 30 minutes of fun in a Ferrari at a circuit. Then you drive home in your Focus thinking it the Ferrari was OK but you wouldn't want to own one as it would breakdown and cost you loads, and all your mates would want a go in it.
Those pay and drive an exotic car packages maybe closer to hireing a prostitute than you think. Hundreds of eager 'Cantaffords' have been in the driving seat, everything feels worn and sloppy, there is an odd used smell, you always treat it as hard as the handler will let you as you want your money's worth, you will do things to it that you wouldn't do to your focus, when the minder says you did a good lap, you believe him, unknown to you he says that to everybody. Your daily commute seems so mundane after such excitement but you can rest in the knowledge that at least you have been there, done it and got the itch, and when you can scrape together some more cash without being found out, you can go back and have another go.
Fantastic.
OP, as said by many already (I think as I have only scan read thread) you should probably sit down with your wife and have a talk. Maybe you should see a counsellor first and then suggest your wife joins you.
Living separate lives whilst under the same roof is not good for anyone, it was like the world had been lifted off my shoulders when my wife and I split a few years ago.
Now the advice is over, lets talk about hookers !
I used to use an agent/madam to book their services for entertaining business associates in London many years ago.
After a while some of the girls (and madam) would just call round in between bookings or at the end of their 'shift'. They knew there was always wine in the fridge and they just relaxed. In that time I only met one that I would have considered 'damaged', the rest were all intelligent ladies who, mostly, had full time (well paid) jobs.
I've been out with them for nights and had huge fun, I've paid them and had fun and not paid (I suppose indirectly I had) and had as much fun.
Skip forward and I've still had contact with escorts, I've dated women who have thought about other women but don't want to jump into bed with their friends. No problem young lady, I'll just call one.
Travelling overseas ? Why bother trying to chat someone up when you can guarantee what you want after a brief chat/call.
Phuket with my gf and two hookers was amazing ! Lucky the bed was huge .
Living separate lives whilst under the same roof is not good for anyone, it was like the world had been lifted off my shoulders when my wife and I split a few years ago.
Now the advice is over, lets talk about hookers !
I used to use an agent/madam to book their services for entertaining business associates in London many years ago.
After a while some of the girls (and madam) would just call round in between bookings or at the end of their 'shift'. They knew there was always wine in the fridge and they just relaxed. In that time I only met one that I would have considered 'damaged', the rest were all intelligent ladies who, mostly, had full time (well paid) jobs.
I've been out with them for nights and had huge fun, I've paid them and had fun and not paid (I suppose indirectly I had) and had as much fun.
Skip forward and I've still had contact with escorts, I've dated women who have thought about other women but don't want to jump into bed with their friends. No problem young lady, I'll just call one.
Travelling overseas ? Why bother trying to chat someone up when you can guarantee what you want after a brief chat/call.
Phuket with my gf and two hookers was amazing ! Lucky the bed was huge .
Ari said:
Inigma said:
Those pay and drive an exotic car packages maybe closer to hireing a prostitute than you think.
Hundreds of eager 'Cantaffords' have been in the driving seat, everything feels worn and sloppy, there is an odd used smell, you always treat it as hard as the handler will let you as you want your money's worth, you will do things to it that you wouldn't do to your focus, when the minder says you did a good lap, you believe him, unknown to you he says that to everybody. Your daily commute seems so mundane after such excitement but you can rest in the knowledge that at least you have been there, done it and got the itch, and when you can scrape together some more cash without being found out, you can go back and have another go.
Fantastic.
Okay, I've been thinking about this a lot whilst I've been cleaning the loo - err, I mean blueprinting the engine in my TVR - and I'm not sure your analogy stands up to closer scrutiny.Hundreds of eager 'Cantaffords' have been in the driving seat, everything feels worn and sloppy, there is an odd used smell, you always treat it as hard as the handler will let you as you want your money's worth, you will do things to it that you wouldn't do to your focus, when the minder says you did a good lap, you believe him, unknown to you he says that to everybody. Your daily commute seems so mundane after such excitement but you can rest in the knowledge that at least you have been there, done it and got the itch, and when you can scrape together some more cash without being found out, you can go back and have another go.
Fantastic.
What you're overlooking is that the lady in question is a real person, with feelings, hopes, dreams, just like the rest of us.
And also you don't normally club the leggy 360 Modena to death afterwards in a guilt fuelled frenzy screaming 'you made me do it you w
e!' Just a thought...
Op how are your guilt levels of late
rovermorris999 said:
Lots of high horses and ivory towers in this thread.
Yup, just because somebody's an escort/prostitute, that doesn't make them any less of a person, in some cases IMO it makes them much better.Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I'd argue that an escort who gives somebody an orgasm that can't do it themselves is contributing positively to society, a lot more positively than 99% of Pistonheaders.
LocoCoco said:
Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I've read an article on that before. It's fhttp://tlc-trust.org.uk
king awesome, quite literally.As for the thread, there seems to be a LOT of very perfect people on PH. I'm impressed.
It's ironic the people who seem most upset on this thread are the same people who are talking in very derogatory terms about the women who work in this business.They are just making a living.The difference between an escort and a prostitute is an escort can be used for social events with no sexual contact happening.
This industry is worth billions not millions, although maybe not in tax revenue.I would say 5/10% of the posters on this thread have used at some point and a much larger percentage will have a father/brother/friend who have, they just don't know about it.
This industry is worth billions not millions, although maybe not in tax revenue.I would say 5/10% of the posters on this thread have used at some point and a much larger percentage will have a father/brother/friend who have, they just don't know about it.
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