Remember the 'escorts' thread? Confession time.
Discussion
Superflow said:
It's ironic the people who seem most upset on this thread are the same people who are talking in very derogatory terms about the women who work in this business.They are just making a living.The difference between an escort and a prostitute is an escort can be used for social events with no sexual contact happening.
This industry is worth billions not millions, although maybe not in tax revenue.I would say 5/10% of the posters on this thread have used at some point and a much larger percentage will have a father/brother/friend who have, they just don't know about it.
No, the irony is you claiming moral superiority.This industry is worth billions not millions, although maybe not in tax revenue.I would say 5/10% of the posters on this thread have used at some point and a much larger percentage will have a father/brother/friend who have, they just don't know about it.
LocoCoco said:
Yup, just because somebody's an escort/prostitute, that doesn't make them any less of a person, in some cases IMO it makes them much better.
Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I'd argue that an escort who gives somebody an orgasm that can't do it themselves is contributing positively to society, a lot more positively than 99% of Pistonheaders.
A friend of mine is involved in a similar organisation (as well as running an ethical sex toy store - companies fund sex education, don't use sweat shop labour etc). It's an important community service. Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I'd argue that an escort who gives somebody an orgasm that can't do it themselves is contributing positively to society, a lot more positively than 99% of Pistonheaders.
Where I come from prostitution is legal - brothels are regulated and controlled and need council approval which gives those working their at least some additional protection. Street work is not legal (I think).
I don't have an issue with it, provided there is no coercion involved. Personally I haven't used one, know people that have, and that is their choice.
But, going off behind your wife's back, be it an affair or a prostitute, is pretty bulls
t. LocoCoco said:
Yup, just because somebody's an escort/prostitute, that doesn't make them any less of a person, in some cases IMO it makes them much better.
Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I'd argue that an escort who gives somebody an orgasm that can't do it themselves is contributing positively to society, a lot more positively than 99% of Pistonheaders.
This is great and something I might consider (I'm in a wheelchair) IF I was single.Here's a site that caters for disabled men and women, a lot of whom are unable to please themselves sexually:
http://tlc-trust.org.uk
I'd argue that an escort who gives somebody an orgasm that can't do it themselves is contributing positively to society, a lot more positively than 99% of Pistonheaders.
However I'm married and that's the moral point to me
Superflow said:
The difference between an escort and a prostitute is an escort can be used for social events with no sexual contact happening.
Superflow said:
I see her once every three weeks for normally 3/4 hours a time.I will say that for me this is a purely physical thing and i have no intention of leaving my wife in the future.
Yeah, Chinny reck-on as we used to say at school 
GT03ROB said:
PurpleMoonlight said:
Sa Calobra said:
Why do people refer to them as escorts and not prostitutes??
They are different to your common we? Allegedly.
NNK said:
After a while some of the girls (and madam) would just call round in between bookings or at the end of their 'shift'. They knew there was always wine in the fridge and they just relaxed. In that time I only met one that I would have considered 'damaged', the rest were all intelligent ladies who, mostly, had full time (well paid) jobs.
No no no, that can't be right. Have you not read the thread? According to one poster, the one the OP is seeing could even be a single mum!!! 
There is talk of high horses on this thread rather than understanding that some of us are merely observing the issue around semantics.
If the wife (or husband) knows about the use of such services crack on however why would you deceive someone close to you otherwise, it's a plain lack of respect or love in the marriage.
If the wife (or husband) knows about the use of such services crack on however why would you deceive someone close to you otherwise, it's a plain lack of respect or love in the marriage.
Superflow said:
Vocal Minority said:
Forget the stuff about providing...do they know?
Or do you view husbanding/fathering as mere bread winning and provision....
Do you believe that is all they want from you?
No.As covered earlier they do get much more than that with love and care.Or do you view husbanding/fathering as mere bread winning and provision....
Do you believe that is all they want from you?
Could you define being lead on a merry dance as ending up feeling betrayed and with a sense of disbelief? I think that's probably fair...
Now, should your wife find out - she is the arbiter of whether she is feeling betrayed. I'd say there is a distinct likelihood she would.
Standing there and saying 'actually, I think you'll find I haven't led you on because.....' would require rather more balls than me......
Ultimately you haven't told her for a reason....
PurpleMoonlight said:
In the overall scheme of things not that many probably do.
But you only have to look at the likes of adultwork to realise there is a clear demand.
After driving through Attercliffe in Sheffield at the weekend with the missus, we were talking about the number of massage parlours, supply and demand etc. We looked at AW when we got home and it was surprising to see how many pages of them were available within 5 miles of us.But you only have to look at the likes of adultwork to realise there is a clear demand.
We were also surprised at the price variation, but also how many very obvious scams we spotted.
I don't have a problem with the trade, but it's the dishonesty with a wife/partner that I do have an issue with. I'm lucky in that me and the missus can talk openly about anything, and look at websites like AW together without fear of upsetting each other.
We've been 100% open with each other since day one - no secrets, no bottling anything up, no lies, and very little chance of hurting each others feelings because of it.
Superflow said:
I think having read the thread that is a very good answer.
I'm amazed you had to read this thread to work out it isn't a very good idea to cheat on your wife with prostitutes.Also amazed you thought this thread was going to be a load of back slapping, and you are trying to claim to moral high ground because it hasn't gone your way.
Vocal Minority said:
OK lets put it this way.
Could you define being lead on a merry dance as ending up feeling betrayed and with a sense of disbelief? I think that's probably fair...
Now, should your wife find out - she is the arbiter of whether she is feeling betrayed. I'd say there is a distinct likelihood she would.
Standing there and saying 'actually, I think you'll find I haven't led you on because.....' would require rather more balls than me......
Ultimately you haven't told her for a reason....
Yes,i agree.To tell her what i think she probably already knows would do no good. Could you define being lead on a merry dance as ending up feeling betrayed and with a sense of disbelief? I think that's probably fair...
Now, should your wife find out - she is the arbiter of whether she is feeling betrayed. I'd say there is a distinct likelihood she would.
Standing there and saying 'actually, I think you'll find I haven't led you on because.....' would require rather more balls than me......
Ultimately you haven't told her for a reason....
greg - He was never going to answer with anything else in here was he?.
Superflow - if this question has been asked before forgive me - It's blurred after 20 odd pages.
1). Do you believe she knows something? genuinely? or are you just saying that as self soothing.
and this is the important one
2). Do you love your wife?*
not are used to.
Not are comfortable with.
not as in are you familiar with
not as in is it financially prudent
Do you actually love her?
1). Do you believe she knows something? genuinely? or are you just saying that as self soothing.
and this is the important one
2). Do you love your wife?*
- as in actually love.
not are used to.
Not are comfortable with.
not as in are you familiar with
not as in is it financially prudent
Do you actually love her?
Edited by Vocal Minority on Monday 31st July 23:21
gregs656 said:
Superflow said:
I think having read the thread that is a very good answer.
I'm amazed you had to read this thread to work out it isn't a very good idea to cheat on your wife with prostitutes.Also amazed you thought this thread was going to be a load of back slapping, and you are trying to claim to moral high ground because it hasn't gone your way.
As Donald Trump would say, SAD!
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