Things we do, that are better when they are over ?

Things we do, that are better when they are over ?

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motco

15,962 posts

246 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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TheJimi said:
bearman68 said:
Ha, you guys. smile

Now, I've camped, and run marathons, been on roller coasters (only little ones) even been to the dentist. I've never done a parachute jump,or a bungee jump.
But most fun when it's over. Hard rock climbing.

Pushing yourself to near the point you are falling off, and conquering both the fear of falling,and the falling itself. Completion on this is a whole different world to those things mentioned, and will leave one, both exhausted and exhilarated in equal measure.
Thing is, realistically, the only times a fear of falling can really exist is when you're climbing high above the gear, or if you're soloing - and of you're doing that close to your limit, you shouldn't really have much in the way of capacity to have a fear of falling because at that level your focus should be complete.
A friend of mine killed any thoughts I may have had to start rock climbing when he - a very experienced climber - described the phenomenon known as being "gripped up". yikes

StevieBee

12,905 posts

255 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Kermit power said:
TheJimi said:
J4CKO said:
Camping, realistically, it is horrible but it makes you appreciate your house and comforts when you get back.
You're almost certainly doing it wrong then!

The main reasons why people think camping is horrible is because -

A) They've got ste gear
B) They've got the wrong gear for the environment and conditions
C) They haven't a clue how to do it properly

or D) all of the above smile
Absolutely!

I'm half way through a two week family camping holiday, and would choose it over hotels any day, as it's so much more sociable.

We've got all the kit we need, it's comfy, and it's cheap.

That, of course, is in a massive family tent with multiple bedrooms. Two weeks in a two man tent would be grim, just as setting up and taking down the family tent would be for a weekend festival, where a two man tent is ideal!
And unzipping your tent on a misty, summer morning, making a coffee and wandering 50 yards or so to see LMP1, 2 and GT cars race by is one of life's special moments.

bony_13

166 posts

97 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Lifting weights. I'm no bodybuilder by any means, but after a hard workout in my garage I love stepping out into the fresh air of the garden and feeling 'the pump' while I chug down a glass of milk ))

Housework and gardening. Now I don't find either particularly therapeutic (unlike many) but like standing back and seeing a carpet free from cat hair or a border free from weeds.

Learning to drive. Awkward and embarrassing at times, downright dangerous at others....but a life without cars and driving wouldn't be the same!

Shirt587

360 posts

135 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Theoretically, only have to do this once - Laser eye surgery. Most terrifying and unpleasant ten minutes of my life when they lifted the cornea off and zapped my eyeballs... but the results, in terms of better than 20/20 eyesight and not needing to find my glasses in order to safely have a midnight slash, are priceless.

RC1807

12,543 posts

168 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Matt Harper said:
Colonoscopy
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Yep!


dazwalsh

6,095 posts

141 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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A bad day golfing, the 19th hole never looked so good when you have had a dogst round in the wet and wind.

Why I still endeavour with that infuriating sport is beyond me.

DWS

657 posts

218 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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227bhp said:
If you've ever wondered what depression is like then this is it. Everything you do is a task you don't want to do and you are glad when its done, sorry to be serious, as you were smile
+1

Halmyre

11,204 posts

139 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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If a Mrs Halmyre turns up here and says 'sex', she's lying.

Europa1

10,923 posts

188 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Halmyre said:
If a Mrs Halmyre turns up here and says 'sex', she's lying.
Thanks, chap - that made me chuckle. biglaugh

anonymous-user

54 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Cycling to work.

Working.

Food shopping.

Rolling a joint.

wking.

I'm not sure I understand the question.

ETA: Surely anything unpleasant is more enjoyable when it's over? Prison? Torture? Waxing your legs (cyclists)?

Edited by OpulentBob on Wednesday 23 August 14:14

Ayahuasca

27,427 posts

279 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Long distance offshore yacht racing

motco

15,962 posts

246 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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Ayahuasca said:
Long distance offshore yacht racing
Any kind of travel where the floor moves about... vomit

RC1807

12,543 posts

168 months

Wednesday 23rd August 2017
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StevieBee said:
Kermit power said:
TheJimi said:
J4CKO said:
Camping, realistically, it is horrible but it makes you appreciate your house and comforts when you get back.
You're almost certainly doing it wrong then!

The main reasons why people think camping is horrible is because -

A) They've got ste gear
B) They've got the wrong gear for the environment and conditions
C) They haven't a clue how to do it properly

or D) all of the above smile
Absolutely!

I'm half way through a two week family camping holiday, and would choose it over hotels any day, as it's so much more sociable.

We've got all the kit we need, it's comfy, and it's cheap.

That, of course, is in a massive family tent with multiple bedrooms. Two weeks in a two man tent would be grim, just as setting up and taking down the family tent would be for a weekend festival, where a two man tent is ideal!
And unzipping your tent on a misty, summer morning, making a coffee and wandering 50 yards or so to see LMP1, 2 and GT cars race by is one of life's special moments.
LM is the ONLY time I sleep in a tent!

bearman68

4,658 posts

132 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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TheJimi said:
bearman68 said:
Ha, you guys. smile

Now, I've camped, and run marathons, been on roller coasters (only little ones) even been to the dentist. I've never done a parachute jump,or a bungee jump.
But most fun when it's over. Hard rock climbing.

Pushing yourself to near the point you are falling off, and conquering both the fear of falling,and the falling itself. Completion on this is a whole different world to those things mentioned, and will leave one, both exhausted and exhilarated in equal measure.
Thing is, realistically, the only times a fear of falling can really exist is when you're climbing high above the gear, or if you're soloing - and of you're doing that close to your limit, you shouldn't really have much in the way of capacity to have a fear of falling because at that level your focus should be complete.
The fear of falling exists even when you're below the gear - at least in my experience it does. But sometimes, just occasionally, after a summer of climbing, I can get to be brave, and those thoughts of falling disappear. And that's when the magic happens, it's just the most incredible thing, and wonderful to experience.
But you know this of course, because no-one who's not a climber calls 'pro' gear.

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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Leave the EU

Eddie Strohacker

3,879 posts

86 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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jsf said:
Leave the EU
hahahahahahahahahaha, Jesus I bet you're a right barrel of laughs at parties.

CrutyRammers

13,735 posts

198 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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bearman68 said:
The fear of falling exists even when you're below the gear - at least in my experience it does. But sometimes, just occasionally, after a summer of climbing, I can get to be brave, and those thoughts of falling disappear. And that's when the magic happens, it's just the most incredible thing, and wonderful to experience.
But you know this of course, because no-one who's not a climber calls 'pro' gear.
I find "pro" to be a very clumsy contraction. "Gear" flows much better smile
When trad climbing, I reserve the right to be scared at any point, especially when your gear is in the "better than nothing" category.

anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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Eddie Strohacker said:
jsf said:
Leave the EU
hahahahahahahahahaha, Jesus I bet you're a right barrel of laughs at parties.
oh god, I've got a mentally ill stalker. eek

Uncle John

4,293 posts

191 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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Already mentioned but 'medical' things......

Vasectomy, removal of toenail, the sort of thing done with a local anaesthetic whilst conscious. Personal experience of this for example "Don't be alarmed, but you will notice a smell a little bit like bacon"....

Doesn't matter if they knock you out as you just wake up and it's done.


anonymous-user

54 months

Thursday 24th August 2017
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CrutyRammers said:
bearman68 said:
The fear of falling exists even when you're below the gear - at least in my experience it does. But sometimes, just occasionally, after a summer of climbing, I can get to be brave, and those thoughts of falling disappear. And that's when the magic happens, it's just the most incredible thing, and wonderful to experience.
But you know this of course, because no-one who's not a climber calls 'pro' gear.
I find "pro" to be a very clumsy contraction. "Gear" flows much better smile
Yes, but how then do you let people know that you're genuine? Cos it's obviously important otherwise Be wouldn't have made the point about your stupid Walter Mitty terminology.