Buying a car that no one wants me to buy

Buying a car that no one wants me to buy

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Tghassall

Original Poster:

11 posts

74 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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I've just put a holding deposit in a 10 month old A7 3.0l v6 my wife thinks that I don't need it. My parents think it's a silly purchase and it's properly taken the shine off my new purchase. What should I do!? Cancel the order or go for it?

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Cancel that reservation and move the deposit to an RS7

You know it makes sense

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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If you want it and it's not going to inconvenience anybody or put you at risk financially, what's the problem? Buy it, enjoy it, sell it on if you still feel guilty months later.

Can I ask how old you are that your parents still have some influence over what car you drive?

ETA: I'm with the poster above. If you're going to do it, go balls out and get the RS7.

sdiggle

182 posts

90 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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My wife hates my car. Thinks it's senseless and a huge waste of money. I don't care as I work 50+ hours a week to pay for it.

She has 3 handbags that cost £700 each. A bag that holds a few things!! I remind her of this every time she starts on about the car.

Buy it and enjoy it!!

Tghassall

Original Poster:

11 posts

74 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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They don't have an influence directly.. I'm 26.. but my parents opinion has always mattered to me. Potentially it's just taken then excitement out if it for me. Def can't afford the rs or I'd have gone for that!

Tghassall

Original Poster:

11 posts

74 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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sdiggle said:
My wife hates my car. Thinks it's senseless and a huge waste of money. I don't care as I work 50+ hours a week to pay for it.

She has 3 handbags that cost £700 each. A bag that holds a few things!! I remind her of this every time she starts on about the car.

Buy it and enjoy it!!
Thanks mate I appreciate your point! I'm probably suffering from buyers remorse as well!

anonymous-user

54 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Tghassall said:
They don't have an influence directly.. I'm 26.. but my parents opinion has always mattered to me. Potentially it's just taken then excitement out if it for me. Def can't afford the rs or I'd have gone for that!
if you're 26 then just say "well lucky it's me buying it and not you" and move on.
Having your parents approval is a good thing, but not for things as mundane as buying a car

sheesh, kids of today, whatever happened to rebelling against your parents?


The Cardinal

1,268 posts

252 months

ZX10R NIN

27,607 posts

125 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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JPJPJP said:
Cancel that reservation and move the deposit to an RS7

You know it makes sense
+1 to the above or get an RS6 biglaugh your dad will disapprove right up to the point you hit the throttle.

hondansx

4,569 posts

225 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Why do you want it, out of interest? A 26 year old in a car for upper-middle-management? I'm sure it's perfectly fine, but just not something I would have gone for. Or is it not your only car?

Before someone jumps down my throat, I had a 3.0TDI A5 and felt it was a great car for it's purpose as an A-B commuter, but I was aware of it's limitations as far as being a 'Pistonheads' cars.

I'm sure the A7 is subjectively a good looking car in your eyes, but otherwise surely it is a status purchase. With the new one the roads, the shine is going to come off that.

Edited by hondansx on Monday 19th February 21:35

PartOfTheProblem

1,927 posts

171 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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My family (wife, parents, children) mostly disapprove of all of my car buying decisions. Just the way it is when you are in to cars it seems.

Stop trying to justify it to anyone and just enjoy it. smile

Valgar

850 posts

135 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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£30+k on a diesel Audi? Listen to your family

TheGuru

744 posts

101 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Seriously ignore them, really is none of their business as long as it’s not causing financial hardship etc

I gave up seeking approval from my parents when I was about 20

TheGuru

744 posts

101 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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hondansx said:
Why do you want it, out of interest? A 26 year old in a car for upper-middle-management?
Where does one find the guidelines for appropriate car purchasing in relation to your job?


Ahbefive

11,657 posts

172 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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I wouldn't buy it. Horrendous depreciation and a boring steer. Each to their own I guess.

MitchT

15,868 posts

209 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Buy the car you want. When someone else is buying you a car, then they get a say in what you drive.

Brinyan

385 posts

93 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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I must admit it's nice to have those around you 'on-side' for such purchases. You obviously have your reasons for liking & wanting to run an A7, which they can't see. Don't suppose you're going to want the car they think you should buy. Do it. If it goes tits up, sell it.

LeoSayer

7,306 posts

244 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Your money, your choice.

However I'm sure they know more than we do about your werewithal to buy it.

Will the cost preclude you from doing other things that might or should be important to you?

Will you parents end up bailing you out if it goes wrong?

What's the risk that you might need to sell it before too long? A nearly new exec saloon isn't the best for avoiding depreciation. It's not inconceivable that you could lose £10,000 in a year.

Why spend £30,000+ (I assume) on a 3.0 diesel when you can buy the same shape with a 3.0 supercharged V6 for £20,000 or twin turbo V8 for £25,000?




The Vambo

6,643 posts

141 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Double overhanded flange buster, she'll see your point of view.


Vocht

1,631 posts

164 months

Monday 19th February 2018
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Your wife is probably right, you most likely don't need it. But need and want are two very different things! If you want it and you can afford it then why not. Enjoy yourself!