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El stovey said:
You’re a bit weird and possibly a bit racist too, definitely another chubby chaser though.
I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
I think her partner was white and she had put on weight I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...
hyphen said:
El stovey said:
You’re a bit weird and possibly a bit racist too, definitely another chubby chaser though.
I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
I think her partner was white and she had put on weight I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
N-TY4C said:
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
None of that is going to work. She is fat because she is eating too much, and she's eating too much because she likes food. That isn't going to change. OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
No external pressure is going to stop her from overeating. The more he tries, the more annoyed and resentful she will get, the more she will eat, she can tell herself that she's doing it because it's her body and she can choose, or that she is punishing him or whatever. But the real reason will be that eating is nice and dieting is unpleasant and continuous hard work and there is never an end to it.
singlecoil said:
N-TY4C said:
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
None of that is going to work. She is fat because she is eating too much, and she's eating too much because she likes food. That isn't going to change. OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
No external pressure is going to stop her from overeating. The more he tries, the more annoyed and resentful she will get, the more she will eat, she can tell herself that she's doing it because it's her body and she can choose, or that she is punishing him or whatever. But the real reason will be that eating is nice and dieting is unpleasant and continuous hard work and there is never an end to it.
N-TY4C said:
singlecoil said:
N-TY4C said:
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
None of that is going to work. She is fat because she is eating too much, and she's eating too much because she likes food. That isn't going to change. OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
No external pressure is going to stop her from overeating. The more he tries, the more annoyed and resentful she will get, the more she will eat, she can tell herself that she's doing it because it's her body and she can choose, or that she is punishing him or whatever. But the real reason will be that eating is nice and dieting is unpleasant and continuous hard work and there is never an end to it.
singlecoil said:
None of that is going to work. She is fat because she is eating too much, and she's eating too much because she likes food. That isn't going to change.
Until the OP dumps her.Then a few months later she will be in the Daily Mail "My husband left me, so I turned my life around and I am now a size zero and dating the personal trainer" Catch22, OP just can't win here
El stovey said:
hyphen said:
El stovey said:
You’re a bit weird and possibly a bit racist too, definitely another chubby chaser though.
I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
I think her partner was white and she had put on weight I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
https://www.pistonheads.com/gassing/topic.asp?h=0&...
t like hers did I think. Or a decent troll. 
N-TY4C said:
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
Not sure sex is a basic human right ?OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
Basic human function but nobody can claim a right to it.
El stovey said:
N-TY4C said:
Guys be kind. OP is a bit “soft” and genuinely believes he has the upper hand at home and thinks he is choosing not to sort his Mrs out.
This is what will happen:
- The BBW who until now was preoccupied with the children, will notice that he is no longer tapping her booty before he leaves for his 6-8 week stint and when he returns
- she will try to initiate things a few times and fail because he of course now finds her fat and unattractive
- being a BBW she will be expressive about how she feels, may scream and shout because her body needs his member especially when ovulating (on heat)
- because she is screaming and crying, he will find her even more unattractive and tell her she is fat and ugly when she cries
- the BBW will eventually go to her little black book and find the rhythmic black panther from her past. Rock hard and huge he will oblige.
- when OP comes home after 6 to 8 weeks, very satisfied BBW will be nice to him - but never ask for sex with him again
- OP will sit in the loft in a vest and dream of a V8 and continue to pay for BBW’s wonderful life
-But OP will be none the wiser, he will still be ignorant and continue bask in his own feeling of superiority
Watch this space.
You’re a bit weird and possibly a bit racist too, definitely another chubby chaser though or a jilted chunky monkey. This is what will happen:
- The BBW who until now was preoccupied with the children, will notice that he is no longer tapping her booty before he leaves for his 6-8 week stint and when he returns
- she will try to initiate things a few times and fail because he of course now finds her fat and unattractive
- being a BBW she will be expressive about how she feels, may scream and shout because her body needs his member especially when ovulating (on heat)
- because she is screaming and crying, he will find her even more unattractive and tell her she is fat and ugly when she cries
- the BBW will eventually go to her little black book and find the rhythmic black panther from her past. Rock hard and huge he will oblige.
- when OP comes home after 6 to 8 weeks, very satisfied BBW will be nice to him - but never ask for sex with him again
- OP will sit in the loft in a vest and dream of a V8 and continue to pay for BBW’s wonderful life
-But OP will be none the wiser, he will still be ignorant and continue bask in his own feeling of superiority
Watch this space.
I’m obviously just worried about these “rhythmic Black panthers” coming around to my house when I’m out.
Is this a plot from a ‘70s porn film?
Edited by El stovey on Saturday 14th April 14:34
J4CKO said:
N-TY4C said:
I agree she may be depressed and comfort eating, but who wouldn’t be if their only physical pleasure was food because they are being denied sex by their husband. Sex is a basic human right IMHO.
OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
Not sure sex is a basic human right ?OP, take her away for the weekend without the kids and calmly and lovingly say how you feel. Gift her a luxury gym membership where she will have a steam room, sauna and pool. She will think you are pampering her but maybe while there she may find a disire to look good when she is in the sauna/pool.
If you don’t sort this out, she will go elsewhere or kick you out. You will be without your kids or your house.
OP sex happens in the mind. You should have married someone whose ways and mind excites you. Only being attracted to a body is a little pubescent.
This is a sad situation actually. Try and repair it before it’s too late.
Basic human function but nobody can claim a right to it.
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