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Welshbeef said:
Being a Dad is full on work / being a stay at home mum is a massively big job non stop 24/7.
To be out of he country 6-8weeks at a time no input in the Dad part at all .... and it sounds like you might view Dad’s working in the U.K. don’t work their arses off as such have capacity to help with the parenting.
So defending the absent father who comes online abusing his “fat” wife.
OP has posted the indefensible and needs to have a word with himself - it’s abhorrent.
Sounds like your wife is fat. If the OP doesn’t like fat women that’s fair enough. It’s an advice thread. If you don’t mind a fat wife then whatever but the OP doesn’t like it. To be out of he country 6-8weeks at a time no input in the Dad part at all .... and it sounds like you might view Dad’s working in the U.K. don’t work their arses off as such have capacity to help with the parenting.
So defending the absent father who comes online abusing his “fat” wife.
OP has posted the indefensible and needs to have a word with himself - it’s abhorrent.
N-TY4C said:
Apologies. I am not a lawyer. If it’s not a human right, I guess it’s ok for someone to marry or live with someone and then just not sort them out. Because they had kids and got fat. I was a “chunky monkey” when I met him BTW. He just decided to dip it elsewhere. I am not the first it’s happened to won’t be the last. Well sounds like OP’s BBW will be next actually.
Your posts now make sense. You’re a fat bird. Some guys like it, but some don’t. People have preferences. Douglas Quaid said:
N-TY4C said:
Apologies. I am not a lawyer. If it’s not a human right, I guess it’s ok for someone to marry or live with someone and then just not sort them out. Because they had kids and got fat. I was a “chunky monkey” when I met him BTW. He just decided to dip it elsewhere. I am not the first it’s happened to won’t be the last. Well sounds like OP’s BBW will be next actually.
Your posts now make sense. You’re a fat bird. Some guys like it, but some don’t. People have preferences. A simple dismissive meme would do.
MC Bodge said:
StevieBee said:
Well, he would do afterwards.
OP. Sign her up to Slimming World. Probably the most sensible and effective of all the 'fad' programmes out there.
Don't companies like that have a business model rely on people failing to maintain a lower weight?OP. Sign her up to Slimming World. Probably the most sensible and effective of all the 'fad' programmes out there.
Starvation followed by gluttony, and repeat?
My OH did Slimming World a couple of years ago. She's far from a tubber but wanted rid of about 1.5 stones and it worked fine for here. I've done it too (just followed the programme; no way I'm sitting in a meeting of any kind!) and shed 2 stone and kept it off.
Speaking to a few others, it does seem to be one of the better programmes out there.
zygalski said:
More & more fat people around, both male & female, these days.
A lot of men & women must be convincing themselves they find obesity in the opposite sex attractive.
That’s the thing though women absolutely hate fat men especially if they are short aswell. Think about how many single desperate men there are out there who turn to seeing escorts etc because they are always single whereas you see even the ugliest of fat birds waddling around shopping centres with partners and a few kids trailing behind. A lot of men & women must be convincing themselves they find obesity in the opposite sex attractive.
I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7!
all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin. The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
ST Ford said:
That’s the thing though women absolutely hate fat men especially if they are short aswell. Think about how many single desperate men there are out there who turn to seeing escorts etc because they are always single whereas you see even the ugliest of fat birds waddling around shopping centres with partners and a few kids trailing behind.
I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7! all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin.
The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
It's almost as if the blokes have a one track mind, isn't it?I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7!
all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin. The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
10 pages and no pics? This thread is bulls
t.
Op you cant love her all that much if a few extra pounds puts you off getting intimate, what if she has a stroke or gets her face burned in a fire would you just leave her celibate for the rest of her life too?
Are we talking out of breath walking up one flight of stairs obese or just average 2 kids tired and stressed pudgey?
t.Op you cant love her all that much if a few extra pounds puts you off getting intimate, what if she has a stroke or gets her face burned in a fire would you just leave her celibate for the rest of her life too?
Are we talking out of breath walking up one flight of stairs obese or just average 2 kids tired and stressed pudgey?
ST Ford said:
desolate said:
It's almost as if the blokes have a one track mind, isn't it?
Maybe I’m a minority but in that situation i would rather be single and go without than shag some fat smelly bird just for the sake of having sex or a girlfriend. OP despite some of the faux outrage on here what you are experiencing I would imagine is very common, and totally understandable. You fall in love with a person and an image, physical attraction is hugely important.
I was there myself maybe 7-8 years ago. I just tried to be tactful, and made it into a couples thing where we did the Couch to 5k and went to the gym together. No point telling her she’s fat, you need to have a plan to make it look like you’re part of it to.
I was there myself maybe 7-8 years ago. I just tried to be tactful, and made it into a couples thing where we did the Couch to 5k and went to the gym together. No point telling her she’s fat, you need to have a plan to make it look like you’re part of it to.
Jefferson Steelflex said:
OP despite some of the faux outrage on here what you are experiencing I would imagine is very common, and totally understandable. You fall in love with a person and an image, physical attraction is hugely important.
I was there myself maybe 7-8 years ago. I just tried to be tactful, and made it into a couples thing where we did the Couch to 5k and went to the gym together. No point telling her she’s fat, you need to have a plan to make it look like you’re part of it to.
Thats all fine and well, but the op is a bit hypocritical, he says he used to be a bodybuilder and now he's thin. What if what really floats his mrs boat is a bit of muscle? When you are married and have kids and settle down and get older things can change, thats when you discover if your relationship is based on the connection you have or superficial appearances.I was there myself maybe 7-8 years ago. I just tried to be tactful, and made it into a couples thing where we did the Couch to 5k and went to the gym together. No point telling her she’s fat, you need to have a plan to make it look like you’re part of it to.
HTP99 said:
ST Ford said:
desolate said:
It's almost as if the blokes have a one track mind, isn't it?
Maybe I’m a minority but in that situation i would rather be single and go without than shag some fat smelly bird just for the sake of having sex or a girlfriend. It's hardly as if obese women have the pick of a multitude of chippendale type men.
ST Ford said:
That’s the thing though women absolutely hate fat men especially if they are short aswell. Think about how many single desperate men there are out there who turn to seeing escorts etc because they are always single whereas you see even the ugliest of fat birds waddling around shopping centres with partners and a few kids trailing behind.
I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7! all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin.
The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
At the lower levels of U.K. humanity a large number of men are renting their penis out in exchange for accommodation. Single men don’t get housing but single mothers do. Ergo, men with little pride and no desire to work will turn to prostitution in order to get a roof over their heads. I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7!
all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin. The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
DonkeyApple said:
ST Ford said:
That’s the thing though women absolutely hate fat men especially if they are short aswell. Think about how many single desperate men there are out there who turn to seeing escorts etc because they are always single whereas you see even the ugliest of fat birds waddling around shopping centres with partners and a few kids trailing behind.
I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7! all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin.
The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
At the lower levels of U.K. humanity a large number of men are renting their penis out in exchange for accommodation. Single men don’t get housing but single mothers do. Ergo, men with little pride and no desire to work will turn to prostitution in order to get a roof over their heads. I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7!
all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin. The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
singlecoil said:
DonkeyApple said:
ST Ford said:
That’s the thing though women absolutely hate fat men especially if they are short aswell. Think about how many single desperate men there are out there who turn to seeing escorts etc because they are always single whereas you see even the ugliest of fat birds waddling around shopping centres with partners and a few kids trailing behind.
I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7! all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin.
The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
At the lower levels of U.K. humanity a large number of men are renting their penis out in exchange for accommodation. Single men don’t get housing but single mothers do. Ergo, men with little pride and no desire to work will turn to prostitution in order to get a roof over their heads. I worked with a woman a while back who was short and stumpy, rolls of Fat “about a size 18”, horrible teeth, smelt like she showered once per week and had a bog eye “one eye that turned in” she truly was horrible without sounding cruel. I kid you not she had men on the go 24/7!
all she had to do was post a selfie from a certain angle from the neck up and she would have men messaging and go on dates for free drinks and meals on a weekly basis. Now if it was a man that looked similar he would still be a virgin. The amount of other women I have known aswell who are ugly or out of shape and overweight yet will only entertain men who have a gym toned body and are 6ft plus is staggering. Talk about double standards
That explains much. Obvious when you point it out, hadn't thought of it that way before.
Douglas Quaid said:
N-TY4C said:
Apologies. I am not a lawyer. If it’s not a human right, I guess it’s ok for someone to marry or live with someone and then just not sort them out. Because they had kids and got fat. I was a “chunky monkey” when I met him BTW. He just decided to dip it elsewhere. I am not the first it’s happened to won’t be the last. Well sounds like OP’s BBW will be next actually.
Your posts now make sense. You’re a fat bird. Some guys like it, but some don’t. People have preferences. Shame on you though, in all seriousness.
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