Holding grudges with people on PH

Holding grudges with people on PH

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TheJimi

25,003 posts

244 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Monkeylegend said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
I like to think I've got a great life, thanks. You get into arguments left, right, and centre. That says more about you than it does about me, or most people you end up getting in to things with.
I have to say that your constant fat jokes on the football threads are childish.
If you knew who they were directed at and the fact that they're not constant, and were concentrated within one weekend out of however long I've posted on PH, you'd maybe feel a little different.
I know exactly who they were directed at and it wasn't just one weekend. Doesn't bother me, just saying it doesn't reflect well on you IMO.
Interesting, seeing as he was banned before you became a member. I've seen some of the stuff he sent to a member who ended up leaving PH, and a great guy he is/was, so I'm not too fussed if you think it's a poor reflection of myself if I am not polite to someone who is an absolute idiot.
I don't know him but I know who it's directed at because you and the Spurs fans name drop him all the time.

Adults making fat jokes is cringeworthy.

Your opinion may differ.

That's my final word on the subject.
You are falling into the flounce trap GF smile
There's a difference between flouncing and not seeking to continue a pointless back & forth.

Monkeylegend

26,428 posts

232 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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TheJimi said:
Monkeylegend said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
I like to think I've got a great life, thanks. You get into arguments left, right, and centre. That says more about you than it does about me, or most people you end up getting in to things with.
I have to say that your constant fat jokes on the football threads are childish.
If you knew who they were directed at and the fact that they're not constant, and were concentrated within one weekend out of however long I've posted on PH, you'd maybe feel a little different.
I know exactly who they were directed at and it wasn't just one weekend. Doesn't bother me, just saying it doesn't reflect well on you IMO.
Interesting, seeing as he was banned before you became a member. I've seen some of the stuff he sent to a member who ended up leaving PH, and a great guy he is/was, so I'm not too fussed if you think it's a poor reflection of myself if I am not polite to someone who is an absolute idiot.
I don't know him but I know who it's directed at because you and the Spurs fans name drop him all the time.

Adults making fat jokes is cringeworthy.

Your opinion may differ.

That's my final word on the subject.
You are falling into the flounce trap GF smile
There's a difference between flouncing and not seeking to continue a pointless back & forth.
Hence the smiley smile

matchmaker

8,496 posts

201 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Monkeylegend said:
This is the PH we know and love, keep it up guys, somebody will win eventually hehe

I have never held a grudge against anyone in real life, let alone on the internet.

These grudges people hold fester away inside like a cancer, while the people they hold grudges against are blissfully unaware, so it serves no useful purpose whatsoever.


I couldn't agree more!



xjay1337

15,966 posts

119 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Red 4 said:
Disastrous said:
Red 4 said:
BrabusMog said:
I like to think I've got a great life, thanks. You get into arguments left, right, and centre. That says more about you than it does about me, or most people you end up getting in to things with.
I get into arguments because there are so many ill- informed people on here.
Ignorance is bliss for many it seems. Unfortunately, when those people are challenged they don't like it.
You are one of those people. The Hillsborough thread is the perfect example for you.
Ignorant, ill- informed but unwilling to change your opinion. I even provided links to the facts and the verdicts but you chose to ignore them.
So, no. You are the ignorant one - not me. Sorry.
Ignorance is bliss though - I suppose you could be happy. Deluded, but happy.
That's your choice but you also revert, childishly, to name calling. That usually means you've lost.
QED.
Have a nice day smile
Really odd, sorry.
It's odd to refer to evidence and facts in order to challenge some people's preconceived ideas and prejudice ?

Well, it certainly seems to be an alien concept to some people and that is usually when the name- calling starts.
I will say that it is pretty strange if an individual has an opinion on a subject, but when engaged in a conversation about the subject , refuse to accept any other point of view.

It's incredibly draining to engage with individuals like this.
But at the same time very easy to get dragged into an argument.

The key is to try to know when not to talk to them anymore.

Biker's Nemesis

38,684 posts

209 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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I can't think of anyone I have a grudge against on here. I feel like I'm missing out.

Anyone fancy starting an argument so I can get me a grudge match.

paulguitar

23,490 posts

114 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Biker's Nemesis said:
I can't think of anyone I have a grudge against on here. I feel like I'm missing out.

Anyone fancy starting an argument so I can get me a grudge match.
Oh, not you again.

Tosser.

biggrin


Red 4

10,744 posts

188 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Biker's Nemesis said:
I can't think of anyone I have a grudge against on here. I feel like I'm missing out.

Anyone fancy starting an argument so I can get me a grudge match.
Hello. I don't think we've met. smile

Fermit and Sexy Sarah

13,009 posts

101 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Biker's Nemesis said:
I can't think of anyone I have a grudge against on here. I feel like I'm missing out.

Anyone fancy starting an argument so I can get me a grudge match.
But IIRC you're one of the amiable ones.

Disastrous

10,086 posts

218 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Red 4 said:
It's odd to refer to evidence and facts in order to challenge some people's preconceived ideas and prejudice ?
Well yes, with a complete stranger online just to be ‘right’.

But my point was that posting about it was odd.

Red 4

10,744 posts

188 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Disastrous said:
Red 4 said:
It's odd to refer to evidence and facts in order to challenge some people's preconceived ideas and prejudice ?
Well yes, with a complete stranger online just to be ‘right’.

But my point was that posting about it was odd.
May as well close down ( most of ) the website then.
Everyone's a winner kids, you heard it here first !

Disastrous

10,086 posts

218 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Red 4 said:
May as well close down ( most of ) the website then.
Everyone's a winner kids, you heard it here first !
Ok.

Ascayman

12,759 posts

217 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
Gameface said:
BrabusMog said:
I like to think I've got a great life, thanks. You get into arguments left, right, and centre. That says more about you than it does about me, or most people you end up getting in to things with.
I have to say that your constant fat jokes on the football threads are childish.
If you knew who they were directed at and the fact that they're not constant, and were concentrated within one weekend out of however long I've posted on PH, you'd maybe feel a little different.
I know exactly who they were directed at and it wasn't just one weekend. Doesn't bother me, just saying it doesn't reflect well on you IMO.
You're talking about a guy that bullied people off this forum both publicly and privately and continues to set up numerous identities to derail certain thread(s) and get others banned.

And the whole fat thing was an insult he actually started directed at another poster.

The guy doesn't deserve any sympathy at all imo.




Edited by Ascayman on Saturday 21st December 22:26

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 21st December 2019
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All happens on the football threads it seems.

Johnnytheboy

24,498 posts

187 months

Sunday 22nd December 2019
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Thesprucegoose said:
All happens on the football threads it seems.
Which does little to change my opinion of football, or its fans. hehe

RC1807

12,544 posts

169 months

Sunday 22nd December 2019
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Thesprucegoose said:
All happens on the football threads it seems.
Did that section's users migrate from Football365? There used to be a right bunch of wkers on there. I simply don't understand why people think they need to (effectively) bully others on the Internet.
Life's too short to be a .

Mikebentley

6,121 posts

141 months

Sunday 22nd December 2019
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Johnnytheboy said:
Thesprucegoose said:
All happens on the football threads it seems.
Which does little to change my opinion of football, or its fans. hehe
Glad I don’t like football.

ChemicalChaos

10,399 posts

161 months

Monday 23rd December 2019
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Not that I post too much on here these days due to life getting in the way, but I'd say there's only really one member I had a grudge against when I was active.
I'll readily admit that when I was a student with too much time on my hands, I did post a lot of drivel that deserved (most of) the putdowns it garnered.
However, one notable ex moderator took it upon himself to denigrate absolutely everything I said or did, no matter how positive or inoffensive.
2 notable examples:
1. Replying "If I was as genetically flawed as you I wouldn't be sharing pictures of myself" to a post of mine on a PH mugshots thread.
2. After I went to the nurburgring for the very first with some other PHers a couple of years ago, I had a great time and was chuffed to set a good lap and not break anything. Everyone else on the thread was pleased for me and told me to enjoy it, except mr grudge who replied to say that I had just confirmed to all that I was a "ring piece".
Multiple occasions have resulted in me asking this person if their mother ever told them old adage of "if you can't say anything nice...."

They really were an extraordinarily bitter and spiteful individual. Anyway, suffice to say they are not and will not be stalking and cyber-bullying me any more.

CharlesdeGaulle

26,297 posts

181 months

Monday 23rd December 2019
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Nice to see you back CC.

TheJimi

25,003 posts

244 months

Monday 23rd December 2019
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That's pathetic AF, if true and & accurate, CC.

Imaplumber

175 posts

64 months

Monday 23rd December 2019
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I know people that don’t like my car, a PT cruiser, I get a lot of slagging off about it, how bad it is, it’s nowhere as bad as they say, I don’t know if they have ever driven one before they slag it off

It’s my choice, I’ve had it 10 years or more, I’m well pleased with it

I don’t slag off other people cars, it’s their choice

I don’t bear a grudge over anyone, I just pass them over when they slag off my car

Seems a bit daft when I am never going to meet them, they just get added to the ignore list

Those that have added good advice, I’d buy em a pint, but I will probably never meet them either