Woman sets trap, man walks in - Tell us your version
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Cotty said:
PositronicRay said:
Her, what's that on the floor.
Me, water.
Apparantly I'm unnecessarily sarcastic, my response should have been about how it got there and why I'm such a clumsy oaf to spill it in the 1st place.
Oh and "drenched flooded floor" is a few ml which I'm able to wipe up with a cloth.
Classic case of asking the wrong question and getting frustrated when they receive the correct answer. If she wanted to know how the water got on the floor she should have asked “how did the water get on the floor”. Oh and finishing with the old blowing something out of proportion.Me, water.
Apparantly I'm unnecessarily sarcastic, my response should have been about how it got there and why I'm such a clumsy oaf to spill it in the 1st place.
Oh and "drenched flooded floor" is a few ml which I'm able to wipe up with a cloth.
It has to be at least half a roll of paper kitchen towel. I have no idea why.
Dermot O'Logical said:
Has anybody else familiar with the scenario in which the woman won't make a decision on the basis that it's easier (for her) if the hapless male has to make the decision, so that she can then criticise it?
Ms Fastchas traded her Nissan Juke in last year going from PCP to buying a car outright. I advised her to buy the '65reg 20k miler Golf diesel automatic. This was against her decision to buy a 60k miler A3 '64 reg. The Golf was a no-brainer IMO.Put a deposit down then changed her mind as her daughter will be taking her test in 2019 so a manual might be better in her opinion.
Went back to the dealer to see what he'd got and we found a '64 reg Volvo V40 Cross Country with 14k miles. Absolute mint, with Leather/sat nav etc.
Asked me what to do - I said 'uh-uh, it's YOUR decision. You took my advice last time but I screwed it up for you.
She said 'Yes I understand, but what would YOU do?'
I said I'd buy the 14k miler Volvo over the 60k mile A3. The quality of the V40 was superb as well.'But it's YOUR decision', I said.
She bought the Volvo.
Six months later, doesn't like it - it's my fault. Keeps asking me to buy it off her if I like it so much (it's too small for me, I buy estates).
Now you see, I don't get all this stuff with Mrs Bobbers, the going from one Defcon to another at the drop of a hat, the lists of jobs to be done and in what order and by when, the moody silences, the snapping my head off for no apparent reason, what I get is the inability to make decisions, about food, where to go etc, and her constantly second guessing her own decisions!!! If she disagrees with something she's quite vocal about it and she's quite capable of telling me she doesn't like/want/need something, I guess she's a bit "speshul" maybe???
PositronicRay said:
I don't think it's deliberate, just an understanding of how one thinks.
So discussing a which way we should have a door opening.
Her, it's impossible.
Me no its not impossible just a little more awkward.
Or
Her, what's that on the floor.
Me, water.
Apparantly I'm unnecessarily sarcastic, my response should have been about how it got there and why I'm such a clumsy oaf to spill it in the 1st place.
Oh and "drenched flooded floor" is a few ml which I'm able to wipe up with a cloth.
Reminds me of an incident when I was in 6th year at secondary school. One of my mates was fooling about in the chemistry lab involving a Bunsen burner. He managed to set fire to something on the bench (after 40+ years I can't remember what). At the moment the (female) chemistry teacher came into the lab.So discussing a which way we should have a door opening.
Her, it's impossible.
Me no its not impossible just a little more awkward.
Or
Her, what's that on the floor.
Me, water.
Apparantly I'm unnecessarily sarcastic, my response should have been about how it got there and why I'm such a clumsy oaf to spill it in the 1st place.
Oh and "drenched flooded floor" is a few ml which I'm able to wipe up with a cloth.
"What happened here?" she demanded.
"It caught fire" said Chris.
"WHAT DO YOU MEAN IT CAUGHT FIRE!" she screamed.
"Er, it took flame?" stuttered Chris.
I don't really think he deserved the subsequent punishment
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
The following sort of st from women is why it's sometimes hard to not be drawn in at times.
Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
You did things in the wrong orderYesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
Edited by Fermit and Sexy Sarah on Wednesday 22 May 10:59
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
The following sort of st from women is why it's sometimes hard to not be drawn in at times.
Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
Just reading this makes my blood pressure rise and is typical of the current crop of females who can’t/won’t do anything for themselves Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
Edited by Fermit and Sexy Sarah on Wednesday 22 May 10:59
Steamer said:
Ayahuasca said:
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
'Does my bum look big in this?'
Never answer.
Big bums are fashionable these days. Never answer.
Also see: You look best in whatever is quickest to
Giggidy.
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
The following sort of st from women is why it's sometimes hard to not be drawn in at times.
Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
I'd have got Wicks out of the way first whilst they were still open, then asked the wife to help moving the bricks afterwards whilst it's still light Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
If you'd been too long moving the bricks and Wicks closed, that's your fault then, innit
RC1807 said:
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
The following sort of st from women is why it's sometimes hard to not be drawn in at times.
Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
I'd have got Wicks out of the way first whilst they were still open, then asked the wife to help moving the bricks afterwards whilst it's still light Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
If you'd been too long moving the bricks and Wicks closed, that's your fault then, innit
PositronicRay said:
Wife move bricks, makes dinner, greets you with a smile and g and t, because you rembered to collect stuff from wicks. A trained wife is a happy wife or somesuch.
That is what mine would do without hesitation if it was at all possible for her.All these posts remind me why I got rid of the first one.
The present madam Magoo was told how it had to be or we were going nowhere.
magooagain said:
PositronicRay said:
Wife move bricks, makes dinner, greets you with a smile and g and t, because you rembered to collect stuff from wicks. A trained wife is a happy wife or somesuch.
That is what mine would do without hesitation if it was at all possible for her.All these posts remind me why I got rid of the first one.
The present madam Magoo was told how it had to be or we were going nowhere.
Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:
The following sort of st from women is why it's sometimes hard to not be drawn in at times.
Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
Your first error there is not picking stuff up from Wickes on the way home.Yesterday.
Having got in from a job at 5, I was under instructions to move 800 bricks from the curbside to the back garden, and mow the lawn. We also needed to do a Whicks collection, for supplies for the builder today. All by sunset.
Wife, coming out the front door whilst I'm loading the barrow with bricks
I told you we needed to go to Whicks before they close (it's now about 7)
Me, yes, and you also told me all of these bricks need moving today.
Her. Well I'll go then!
M. Darling, I'm doing my darnedest to shift these by 7.30, then I'll go, then I'll do the lawn.
H. DON'T worry, I'm going.
M. Walking a way from car muttering 'fk off you mardy cow'
Woman logic.
Edited by Fermit and Sexy Sarah on Wednesday 22 May 10:59
You then compounded it by not choosing to do Wickes first as that is the only one of the three jobs with an absolute time deadline.
Your summary of the situation sounds fair enough though.
48k said:
Your first error there is not picking stuff up from Wickes on the way home.
You then compounded it by not choosing to do Wickes first as that is the only one of the three jobs with an absolute time deadline.
Your summary of the situation sounds fair enough though.
His real mistake was not dating a woman with the strength of a man so she could do the brick shifting. You then compounded it by not choosing to do Wickes first as that is the only one of the three jobs with an absolute time deadline.
Your summary of the situation sounds fair enough though.
George Smiley said:
His real mistake was not dating a woman with the strength of a man so she could do the brick shifting.
With the best will in the world George, I’d say that there are more guys who say, “Check out those fun bags, than say, Jeez, I bet she can push a mean barrow load of bricks.”Frank7 said:
With the best will in the world George, I’d say that there are more guys who say, “Check out those fun bags, than say, Jeez, I bet she can push a mean barrow load of bricks.”
In this strange world Frank, you might never know if the girl has a right hook stronger than your own. Gassing Station | The Lounge | Top of Page | What's New | My Stuff