Arguing about money

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SpeckledJim

31,608 posts

254 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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sunbeam alpine said:
SpeckledJim said:
sunbeam alpine said:
In my experience, money is one of the things which causes the most friction within families. Within groups of friends, lending money alos often leads to falling out, as do some discussions over politics and religion (other subjects can also be contentious).

I try to avoid this at all costs. I am fortunate that my job means that I can be called out at any time, and I have a few friendly clients who will call me if I send them a text.
I'm sure this is actually a lot less salacious than it sounds! smile Either way I'm keen to learn more, just in case!
Sorry to disappoint - it's very boring. I work in agriculture - encompassing both farming and agricultural contracting - there's always something happening or going wrong, it's just not very exciting. (I enjoy it though) smile
BOOOO. Dead boring. Couldn't you have made something up? Sunbeam Alpine: International Gigolo. At your service.

Robbo 27

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3,648 posts

100 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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The daughter is a partner of a PR company, part of the reason for the birthday gift may be guilt money and to do with the daughter not egtting along with her step father.


We didnt give a response to the 'what would you do' question, none of our business. The daughter lives 100+ miles away, hasn't been home for 6 years.

Personally, I would be more alarmed at the thought that one partner could dump a mentally ill partner that the issue of the daughter and her money.


Edited by Robbo 27 on Monday 20th May 19:35

cmvtec

2,188 posts

82 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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I turned 30 last week.

I wouldn't have appreciated a gesture like that, personally, and I barely earn a third of the 30 year old in the OP's post.

For my 30th my mother gave me a watch, which is something I can treasure, as well as a couple of other personal gifts I can enjoy for longer the £10k would last me.

I'm not saying I wouldn't like ten large, of course, just not in the circumstances above.

sunbeam alpine

6,945 posts

189 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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SpeckledJim said:
sunbeam alpine said:
SpeckledJim said:
sunbeam alpine said:
In my experience, money is one of the things which causes the most friction within families. Within groups of friends, lending money alos often leads to falling out, as do some discussions over politics and religion (other subjects can also be contentious).

I try to avoid this at all costs. I am fortunate that my job means that I can be called out at any time, and I have a few friendly clients who will call me if I send them a text.
I'm sure this is actually a lot less salacious than it sounds! smile Either way I'm keen to learn more, just in case!
Sorry to disappoint - it's very boring. I work in agriculture - encompassing both farming and agricultural contracting - there's always something happening or going wrong, it's just not very exciting. (I enjoy it though) smile
BOOOO. Dead boring. Couldn't you have made something up? Sunbeam Alpine: International Gigolo. At your service.
I fking wish... smile

bristolbaron

4,834 posts

213 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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sunbeam alpine said:
I fking wish... smile
Sunbeam Alpine - it’s small by today’s standards and I fiddle with it in the garage?

sunbeam alpine

6,945 posts

189 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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bristolbaron said:
sunbeam alpine said:
I fking wish... smile
Sunbeam Alpine - it’s small by today’s standards and I fiddle with it in the garage?
Must you really air ALL my secrets???

anonymous-user

55 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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As I understand it the daughter has a good job with good pay and she’s ok ?
The woman whose partner has alzheimer's is planning to grab the cash a with both hands and make a stash.
With the chaps going into the garden did it turn into an us and them situation ?

CS Garth

2,860 posts

106 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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These people sound like the types who love drama.

Like flat roofed pubs - best avoided.

227bhp

10,203 posts

129 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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Sounds like an upmarket version of Jeremy Kyle.

ninepoint2

3,308 posts

161 months

Tuesday 21st May 2019
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Unexpected Item In The Bagging Area said:
What job does the daughter do?
Hooker?.....laugh

DanielSan

18,806 posts

168 months

Tuesday 21st May 2019
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ninepoint2 said:
Hooker?.....laugh
Classier than that, she has an OnlyFans page hehe

JP18

109 posts

62 months

Wednesday 22nd May 2019
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greygoose said:
Robbo 27 said:
He says she earns £100,000+. has had 4 very extravagant holidays in the past 12 months, uses weed and coke and is generally one of the most objectionable people you could meet. He says, she doesnt deserve anything and appreciates nothing.
What is her PH username?
biglaugh