Match.com (Vol. 7)
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NO need to break covid rules. You can do a lot of basic getting to know online. As long as your not bubbled up already no reason why you can't bubble up with a girl who you have serious interest in. Sure if it doesn't work out, wait at least 10 days then go for the next bubble. Unless you are a "player" and want to be shagging loads of girls at the same time, then a bit of patience surely hurts no one?
Psycho Warren said:
NO need to break covid rules. You can do a lot of basic getting to know online. As long as your not bubbled up already no reason why you can't bubble up with a girl who you have serious interest in. Sure if it doesn't work out, wait at least 10 days then go for the next bubble. Unless you are a "player" and want to be shagging loads of girls at the same time, then a bit of patience surely hurts no one?
so you think if you 'get to know' someone now they are guaranteed to still give a s
t about you in 3, 6, however many months? Get real. Lots of women are only on there for attention and free food. If they can only get the former currently i am sure they'd take it. Of the rest, they are getting bombarded with requests now as ever. The best you can expect to be is a todo list item. Blown2CV said:
so you think if you 'get to know' someone now they are guaranteed to still give a st about you in 3, 6, however many months? Get real. Lots of women are only on there for attention and free food. If they can only get the former currently i am sure they'd take it. Of the rest, they are getting bombarded with requests now as ever. The best you can expect to be is a todo list item.
tthats exactly the same dating outside of covid. its actually better this way as time wasters arent going to wait 10 days to bubble up and meet when it might be a waste of time. outside of covid they will happily waste an evening getting a free meal on a date. you cant do thwt under cur4ent rules so it weeds out such timewasters. also the timewasters probably arent prepared to wait the 10 days as those kind of people are unlikely to plwy by covid rules if they cwn get something for nothing. t about you in 3, 6, however many months? Get real. Lots of women are only on there for attention and free food. If they can only get the former currently i am sure they'd take it. Of the rest, they are getting bombarded with requests now as ever. The best you can expect to be is a todo list item. Alan320i said:
Why oh why did a lot of the woman on these sites get pregnant so young. They are all so irresponsible and it’s a complete turn off for any guy on the hunt.
Because the guys who got there before you also didn't take care not to get her pregnant and have more than likely buggered off leaving her to raise the child alone. It takes two to tango!Rh14n said:
Alan320i said:
Why oh why did a lot of the woman on these sites get pregnant so young. They are all so irresponsible and it’s a complete turn off for any guy on the hunt.
Because the guys who got there before you also didn't take care not to get her pregnant and have more than likely buggered off leaving her to raise the child alone. It takes two to tango!Thankyou4calling said:
Alan320i said:
Why oh why did a lot of the woman on these sites get pregnant so young. They are all so irresponsible and it’s a complete turn off for any guy on the hunt.
You can only speak for yourself. It’s not a turn off for any guy at all. For many it’ll make no difference.BritishBlitz87 said:
Rh14n said:
Alan320i said:
Why oh why did a lot of the woman on these sites get pregnant so young. They are all so irresponsible and it’s a complete turn off for any guy on the hunt.
Because the guys who got there before you also didn't take care not to get her pregnant and have more than likely buggered off leaving her to raise the child alone. It takes two to tango!Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Chicken_Satay said:
Yes, it was all the man's fault. The woman was just walking along the street, tripped, fell on an erect penis, and got pregnant.
Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
It is both of their faults, therefore they both have a moral and social obligation to deal with the consequences i.e. a child. A single mother is dealing with her side of the obligation, If he's in the background paying child maintenance and seeing them from time to time it's not ideal but fair enough. If the dad is nowhere to be seen then we can reasonably conclude the dad is a tAny man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
t.OP you have failed to say anything beyond "pregnant so young"
Have you suddenly matched with 100 20-year-olds who have had 1 night stands? Or is it 33 years olds who were in a relationship/marriage with the father.
Give details about what exactly you are moaning about.
Have you suddenly matched with 100 20-year-olds who have had 1 night stands? Or is it 33 years olds who were in a relationship/marriage with the father.
Give details about what exactly you are moaning about.
Edited by hyphen on Saturday 6th March 16:49
Chicken_Satay said:
Yes, it was all the man's fault. The woman was just walking along the street, tripped, fell on an erect penis, and got pregnant.
Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Videos on YouTube covering dating single mothers ?Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Eh ?
Petrus1983 said:
Chicken_Satay said:
Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Please tell me you’re not serious 
See it loads at my work. Bit of a rougher part of town (but surprising amount of attractive single mums.) a few just hit 30 ish that have "settled" with a guy who is clearly punching. I guess the deal works out he gets a hottie out his league she gets a guy around to raise her kids.
vulture1 said:
Petrus1983 said:
Chicken_Satay said:
Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Please tell me you’re not serious See it loads at my work. Bit of a rougher part of town (but surprising amount of attractive single mums.) a few just hit 30 ish that have "settled" with a guy who is clearly punching. I guess the deal works out he gets a hottie out his league she gets a guy around to raise her kids.
Petrus1983 said:
Chicken_Satay said:
Any man who know's what he's doing does not date single mothers. If you want to know why, there's a plethora of videos on YouTube that cover it off.
Please tell me you’re not serious I can understand if taking on somebody else's kids doesn't appeal to everybody, but I'd guess if that's all there is to it there'd be no need for a plethora of explanatory YT videos.
Long ago, many years before meeting Mrs Magnum, I tried an OLD site, where I did start messaging and subsequently met (only once) a single mum. It was pretty clear from day 1 that she had a definite agenda. She had married the father of her child, got pregnant, had kid, divorced, in 11 months. Now she had a good financial settlement
from husband 1 for child 1, it seemed clear from how she spoke and behaved that she was looking to do the same again with someone else - especially the financial settlement bit. Needless to say, I ran far and fast.
I wouldn’t say you should *never* date a single parent, as there are some thoroughly good people out there who have had nothing worse than bad luck in relationships. BUT I’d make very sure that you understand who she is and what she really wants before you even think of getting too involved.
from husband 1 for child 1, it seemed clear from how she spoke and behaved that she was looking to do the same again with someone else - especially the financial settlement bit. Needless to say, I ran far and fast.
I wouldn’t say you should *never* date a single parent, as there are some thoroughly good people out there who have had nothing worse than bad luck in relationships. BUT I’d make very sure that you understand who she is and what she really wants before you even think of getting too involved.
Edited by Magnum 475 on Sunday 7th March 07:12
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