Match.com (Vol. 7)

[S1KRR]

Plate spinner said:

Why do you think he missed out?
Not everybody wants a wife or somebody to have children with. For many, to end up with that would be considered a life wasted.

With the caveat that this is my opinion. And will be clouded by what I hope to achieve.

Forever chasing new girls is imo an addiction. And addiction isn't a great place to live your life. She tempered that a little. They were together for 6-9 months or so I would guess. This was rare for him, so he must have wanted that. He possibly saw a different life with her in the future. Maybe that was a trigger. The whole "trapped" thing

But then like many who cant control their addictions, eventually he needed to score and inevitably she wasn't prepared to hang around after the 3rd or 4th time. He's not a bad or dangerous guy, last I heard he was travelling around Europe, presumably shagging everything that moves. Like I said, at first you're like "woah this guys a legend" but I sort of pity him a little now. Endless sex is like having the same 3 meals everyday. Surely you want to experience new things in life? I would imagine he's tried everything sexual he'll ever want to. So why keep playing?



Takes all sorts I guess.

Edited by S1KRR on Saturday 30th November 18:19

[technodup]

S1KRR said:

Lemming Train said:

Some people can't post experiences of things that didn't happen.

Cant speak for the posters here.

He's talking about the time I made a video of a 'date'. I wonder how he thinks all the amateur smut on Pornhub gets on there?

I've also just found an old xD memory card from 15 years ago... I'm currently waiting for an adaptor to arrive so I can see what's on it. Or who's on it.

[Plate spinner]

S1KRR said:

Plate spinner said:

Why do you think he missed out?
Not everybody wants a wife or somebody to have children with. For many, to end up with that would be considered a life wasted.

With the caveat that this is my opinion. And will be clouded by what I hope to achieve.

Forever chasing new girls is imo an addiction. And addiction isn't a great place to live your life. She tempered that a little. They were together for 6-9 months or so I would guess. This was rare for him, so he must have wanted that. He possibly saw a different life with her in the future. Maybe that was a trigger. The whole "trapped" thing

But then like many who cant control their addictions, eventually he needed to score and inevitably she wasn't prepared to hang around after the 3rd or 4th time. He's not a bad or dangerous guy, last I heard he was travelling around Europe, presumably shagging everything that moves. Like I said, at first you're like "woah this guys a legend" but I sort of pity him a little now.



Takes all sorts I guess.

I wouldn’t t pity him, if that’s what he wants then he’s living his life.

I only say this as I’ve been thinking a bit about it recently... tradition, societal norms and most women to a degree, set out that when you find a match you settle down and live happily ever after as a couple. I guess this is a lizard brain instinct that facilitated procreation and physical security.

Having been married before, I’m just actively contemplating if that’s actually going to work for me again. It’s a modern world and I don’t want any more kids. Plus I’m not 100% sure I want to take on anyone else’s. Maybe life is just as fulfilling being played out ‘as a series of unrelated different chapters’ with spells of being single, as it is ‘writing a book’.

I don’t think there’s a right or wrong. Some people just don’t need to feel that deep connection with a significant other.
One persons loving and secure relationship is another’s smothering duvet that’s ultimately going to prevent them from seeing all of what this world has to offer before they die.

As my old headmaster said, “this life is not a dress rehearsal and we get but a short time, so follow your heart and live happily by living the life you want to live”.

Hashtag#Philosophy

[S1KRR]

Plate spinner said:

I wouldn’t t pity him, if that’s what he wants then he’s living his life.

I only say this as I’ve been thinking a bit about it recently... tradition, societal norms and most women to a degree, set out that when you find a match you settle down and live happily ever after as a couple. I guess this is a lizard brain instinct that facilitated procreation and physical security.

Having been married before, I’m just actively contemplating if that’s actually going to work for me again. It’s a modern world and I don’t want any more kids. Plus I’m not 100% sure I want to take on anyone else’s. Maybe life is just as fulfilling being played out ‘as a series of unrelated different chapters’ with spells of being single, as it is ‘writing a book’.

I don’t think there’s a right or wrong. Some people just don’t need to feel that deep connection with a significant other.
One persons loving and secure relationship is another’s smothering duvet that’s ultimately going to prevent them from seeing all of what this world has to offer before they die.

As my old headmaster said, “this life is not a dress rehearsal and we get but a short time, so follow your heart and live happily by living the life you want to live”.

Hashtag#Philosophy

To me your situation is different. You've experienced the marriage and kids. You sound like you are happy to stay single for a time so you can do and experience MORE things in the world. Whatever your passions might be. Whether you want to see Central and South America. Or learn to fly a plane. Or do an OU degree. That's healthy development. To see and do as much as possible in our finite time here.

Endlessly shagging? It's a bit samey isn't it?

And whilst it's a slightly different set up. I never cared much for Hugh Hefner. Great you're having loads of sex. (Of course he was paying these girls a so called "living allowance" which makes them hookers. And that's just tragic to me)

The question to everyone at the end should be. What else have you done with your life?

Edited by S1KRR on Saturday 30th November 18:59

[Plate spinner]

Yeah I agree. For me, having a sole purpose of bedding many women wouldn’t be an interesting enough life. They’re great, but not that great

I like the idea of flexibility though. Job comes up in NYC for 2 years, take it. Find a partner there and enjoy it for what it is.
After that an offer comes through in Rome? Hop on a plane and find a new partner there for however long and enjoy the experience.

A man can dream

[technodup]

S1KRR said:

Endlessly shagging? It's a bit samey isn't it?

Better than shagging the same one forever. Or more likely, not shagging the same one very often at all.

I'm not interested in children or marriage, but I figure I could maybe find one to get in a groove with. But the older I get the fussier I get so who knows. Not really giving a fk either way is great. I suspect half the problem with those who don't do very well is they put themselves under pressure and that comes across as desperate or needy.

[Fermit and Sexy Sarah]

technodup said:

that comes across as desperate or needy.

And women, bless them, can smell desperation a mile off.

[csd19]

S1KRR said:

And whilst it's a slightly different set up. I never cared much for Hugh Hefner. Great you're having loads of sex. (Of course he was paying these girls a so called "living allowance" which makes them hookers. And that's just tragic to me)

Edited by S1KRR on Saturday 30th November 18:59

Unfortunately a bit like how some marriages can end up, no action unless it's a special occasion like a birthday or anniversary, or it only happens after spending £££ on a fancy restaurant or weekend away. Or even worse handbags/shoes/tat which must be supplied almost neverendingly in exchange for some physical contact. Hey it works for some people I suppose.

[technodup]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

technodup said:

that comes across as desperate or needy.

And women, bless them, can smell desperation a mile off.

Especially if they're mothers, the last thing they want is someone else to look after. They wanted looked after, in every sense.

[Davetheraver]

technodup said:

etter than shagging the same one forever. Or more likely, not shagging the same one very often at all.

Wow that’s a sad outlook - sorry.

I was in a relationship for 20 plus years. We split and it was grim at the time that happened but the sex was always good and we knew each other very well.

Since we split I had many dates, and a fair amount of sex. It’s rubbish with someone who doesn’t know how to tuck your boxes and who you don’t really know how to satisfy.

Now, I have met someone else and a few months in the connection is amazing. You Don’t get that from one night stands or short term things, and I feel a bit sort for anyone who thinks you do to be honest. They need to get out and meet the right long term partner

[Humble Pi]

Some people are lonely & just have to accept that’s life. Hit me hard last week after my 2 remaining Single friends (my best mates) Judas’d me and got girlfriends the s
Looking at doing direct access over Christmas and getting a bike to cheer myself up.

[GloverMart]

technodup said:

here's no point. The freaks will still be freaks and the ones who managed to snare a woman in the 90s and haven't had another since can't believe things have changed a bit.

That's twice three times you've mentioned me on this thread. Have I run over your cat or something?

[Thankyou4calling]

I thought I was an older, funnier and fatter version of Tucker Maxx but no!

It’s Technodup.

And I for one salute him.

For those of you who are disbelievers I can assure the stuff he refers to does indeed happen and then some.

Tucker Max has sadly been removed from the web, Council Baby (legend of this thread) no longer posts, Tonker ? His contributions were insightful but he’s disappeared.

So that really only leaves Techno.

This thread used to be so entertaining.

Full of sad vanilla now.

[technodup]

Thankyou4calling said:

I thought I was an older, funnier and fatter version of Tucker Maxx but no!

It’s Technodup.

And I for one salute him.

For those of you who are disbelievers I can assure the stuff he refers to does indeed happen and then some.

I'm not a fatter version of anyone, I'm 71kg ffs

But I do look younger than 41, have a full head of hair and dress well, and as bizarre as it might sound some ladies quite like that combination.

I suggest the doubters go on Fetlife, Fabswingers or Pornhub, see what the ladies are up to, then check Tinder and as the Yanks say, do the math.

[Thankyou4calling]

I was referring to myself

[Saleen836]

Reading the last few pages of this thread and this popped up on my FB this morning.......

[technodup]

Thankyou4calling said:

I was referring to myself

fk me, are there two of you on that thing?

[ferrisbueller]

Fermit and Sexy Sarah said:

technodup said:

that comes across as desperate or needy.

And women, bless them, can smell desperation a mile off.

Dare I say that some seem to like it.

[hyphen]

Joey Deacon said:

technodup said:

Joey Deacon said:

As for out of your league, even if these women are an eight in their photos they will be a seven when they are glammed up for a night out and a four the next morning. It is all fake up and photo shop.

Awrite for the night, horror for the morra

Personally I love a bit over over done up milfy mutton.

Me too, as you say alright for the night just don't look too closely once they have their clothes off. Most of them are filth too, used to tell them to meet me in a pub wearing an outfit (short skirt usually) and lingerie I picked out, two drinks then back to theirs. would be shagging them in said outfit just pushed up as soon as we got through the door.

I'm confused.

These appear to be stories of pulling women who are say 4/10 when the guy is 7/10, and seeing the women being happy to bang someone normally out of her league as some sort of an achievement?

She is the one who is 'winning' here surely?

[Drihump Trolomite]

Funnily when my psycho ex asked the question of conquests she went mental and walked out for a night and insisted I hot a check up before we next slept together