Match.com (Vol. 7)
Discussion
CountZero23 said:
...decided to be honest and told her it was Tuesday 
Rookie error my friend! NEVER be truthful! 
Her asking you was a s
t test! And the only way to deal with that is to either ignore it (like you'd ignore a 5 year old girl saying "You're stupid!" ) or over the top exaggerate it. I think I'd have Overtly checked my watch, done some "out loud in your head" IYSWIM adding up and gone with "about half an hour ago whilst you were in the toilet"I guarantee at some point she'll ask you your number. DONT TELL THE TRUTH THERE EITHER!
Just tell her "I lost count after 2000"
CountZero23 said:
Turns out we have a ridiculous amount in common and met up again today for a walk along the seafront and a roast. Ended up back at mine again and had a fun evening.
All apps deleted for the second time in 4 weeks, meeting up on Thurs and next weekend. Very pretty, great laugh to hang out with, no kids, filthy sense of humour - keep thinking I must be missing something! Definite potential with this one
I await your new user name "Count and Sexy Emma"All apps deleted for the second time in 4 weeks, meeting up on Thurs and next weekend. Very pretty, great laugh to hang out with, no kids, filthy sense of humour - keep thinking I must be missing something! Definite potential with this one
You've fallen WAY too hard!
FN2TypeR said:
Sorted a date for this Friday, the old fashioned way! She's a friend of a friend and I have fancied the pants off of her for as long as I have known her, incoming crash and burn in 5, 4, 3, 2.....
I think you'll be alright. If you were a wrong un, the mutual friend wouldn't have Okayed it. And believe me, you were discussed before she accepted! 
I’ve decided to come off the sites for now. I find it strange that there’s certain elements of people calling me a liar when I’ve only been honest - but to turn it around - there’s people on this thread who can’t get a fking date in the 21st century!!! Ffs - yet prefer to call others liars to justify their total inability to even get a like. Have fun on that one.
king date in the 21st century!!! Ffs - yet prefer to call others liars to justify their total inability to even get a like. Have fun on that one. S1KRR said:
I think you'll be alright. If you were a wrong un, the mutual friend wouldn't have Okayed it. And believe me, you were discussed before she accepted!
We've met a few times already, usually whilst steaming and with a larger group (an Xmas party hosted by the mutual friend for example), she absolutely must know that I fancy her - and we do speak via WhatsApp from time to time so we're not strangersWhich makes it all the crazier that she said yes
Can't wait, jokes aside
Petrus1983 said:
I’ve decided to come off the sites for now. I find it strange that there’s certain elements of people calling me a liar when I’ve only been honest - but to turn it around - there’s people on this thread who can’t get a fking date in the 21st century!!! Ffs - yet prefer to call others liars to justify their total inability to even get a like. Have fun on that one.
You and your screenshots thinking that serves as proof... king date in the 21st century!!! Ffs - yet prefer to call others liars to justify their total inability to even get a like. Have fun on that one. Screenshots can be faked, you faker.I remember my ex knowing a girl who was a bit easy. She once f
ked 4 guys in 24hrs. One in the evening, one the owner of the local club after hours, one she regularly fked the next morning and another later that day. Well before the days of dating apps btw, only just into the phone era. It happens, yet some on here think anyone with 4 dates in the same week is lying. 
It really is very, very easy to get numerous dates on these apps.
They might not all be stunners and they might not all be marriage material but if someone is looking for a bit of occasional company and a hookup you do have to wonder what people are doing to go weeks without a date.
Especially in a city, they are literally swarming with women looking for ways to fill their evening
They might not all be stunners and they might not all be marriage material but if someone is looking for a bit of occasional company and a hookup you do have to wonder what people are doing to go weeks without a date.
Especially in a city, they are literally swarming with women looking for ways to fill their evening
Davetheraver said:
It really is very, very easy to get numerous dates on these apps.
They might not all be stunners and they might not all be marriage material but if someone is looking for a bit of occasional company and a hookup you do have to wonder what people are doing to go weeks without a date.
Especially in a city, they are literally swarming with women looking for ways to fill their evening
Agreed. They might not all be stunners and they might not all be marriage material but if someone is looking for a bit of occasional company and a hookup you do have to wonder what people are doing to go weeks without a date.
Especially in a city, they are literally swarming with women looking for ways to fill their evening
Probably harder for those in rural areas though unless they are prepared to put the travel time in.
I am pretty rural, think less then 20 women showed up on Bumble in my age bracket and within 20 miles - one was the ex wife 😂
Matched with and dated 11 of them, match.com was about six I think, am engaged to and living with one of them.
Tinder had more people but seemed harder to convert into a date.
Pof was like a cattle market.
Don’t know exactly but over 30 dates in a few months before I met the future Mrs.
The few times I travelled to London, and Edinburgh Tinder and Pof in particular went nuts. Meeting someone each night I was there was a doddle, even when being very open about living miles away and only being about for a day or so
Matched with and dated 11 of them, match.com was about six I think, am engaged to and living with one of them.
Tinder had more people but seemed harder to convert into a date.
Pof was like a cattle market.
Don’t know exactly but over 30 dates in a few months before I met the future Mrs.
The few times I travelled to London, and Edinburgh Tinder and Pof in particular went nuts. Meeting someone each night I was there was a doddle, even when being very open about living miles away and only being about for a day or so
Davetheraver said:
I am pretty rural, think less then 20 women showed up on Bumble in my age bracket and within 20 miles - one was the ex wife ??
Matched with and dated 11 of them, match.com was about six I think, am engaged to and living with one of them.
Tinder had more people but seemed harder to convert into a date.
Pof was like a cattle market.
Don’t know exactly but over 30 dates in a few months before I met the future Mrs.
The few times I travelled to London, and Edinburgh Tinder and Pof in particular went nuts. Meeting someone each night I was there was a doddle, even when being very open about living miles away and only being about for a day or so
That must have been an interesting evening!Matched with and dated 11 of them, match.com was about six I think, am engaged to and living with one of them.
Tinder had more people but seemed harder to convert into a date.
Pof was like a cattle market.
Don’t know exactly but over 30 dates in a few months before I met the future Mrs.
The few times I travelled to London, and Edinburgh Tinder and Pof in particular went nuts. Meeting someone each night I was there was a doddle, even when being very open about living miles away and only being about for a day or so
Oldandslow said:
interstellar said:
Sister 1 is still messaging me but is torn which is fair enough.
Yeah, if she's torn she'll be out of the game for a couple of weeks at least.
Well fair enough she unmatched me. Would have been awkward with her sister but what are the bloody chances of that. Still can’t believe it!!
technodup said:
ou and your screenshots thinking that serves as proof... Screenshots can be faked, you faker.
I remember my ex knowing a girl who was a bit easy. She once fked 4 guys in 24hrs. One in the evening, one the owner of the local club after hours, one she regularly fked the next morning and another later that day. Well before the days of dating apps btw, only just into the phone era. It happens, yet some on here think anyone with 4 dates in the same week is lying.
About 15 years ago I shagged a colleague at hers when we finished work at 1500, went for a blast on my nc30, stopped off at my exes and shagged her at around 1900. Went home to chill out but my manager called me around 2300 as she’d argued with her boyfriend and wanted picking up from town. Screenshots can be faked, you faker.I remember my ex knowing a girl who was a bit easy. She once f
ked 4 guys in 24hrs. One in the evening, one the owner of the local club after hours, one she regularly fked the next morning and another later that day. Well before the days of dating apps btw, only just into the phone era. It happens, yet some on here think anyone with 4 dates in the same week is lying. I only snogged her in my car but would have been more had we not both lived with our parents. She came over when I had a free house wearing stockings later that week. Her boyfriend saw me leaving the colleagues house a couple of days later and grassed me up and that was the end of that.
Petrus1983 said:
That’s what happens when you match on alt.com
Hinge. But I'm seeing more of the same across them all.I've been matching with fewer but keeping the quality high. Apart for the chubber with blue hair I let slip through the net. Got the lovely Denise tonight though, and I'm hoping for good things.
Denise was Hinge too, so maybe I'm coming around to it now...
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