Caught GF on POF.

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Also so we're all on the same page. If I ever catch her on any dating website while I'm at work talking to other men while I'm earning money so we can do nice family things together like the holiday for example.

I will load up the ST with all my st and fkoff the same day and she knows this.

I'll also make her explain to my daughters when they're old enough to understand why Daddy left but I will still see them.

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techiedave said:

Over egging it
He was doing so well spinning that web and all the nice types getting stuck into it

Bar posting pics of miss how do I prove I'm not a troll?

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sc0tt said:

Picture of a nail and your ST should stop the doubters. Thanks

I've gone one better and took a picture of said nail from within the car so I don't get accused of finding some random ST and placing a nail on it.

Flibble said:

Why "the ST" not "the car" like a normal person would say?

Dunno. I like to tell everyone it's an ST.

CharlieH89 said:

I believe you. I can see why some people don't believe you as you do write some crazy things

Luckily I don't have an issue sex wise. My wife has a high sex drive but I'm pretty the same as you in terms of working a full time job then coming home to do the dishes/ clean baby bottles/ put clothes in the washer/ tidy up after the wife. Sometimes I'm too fked to even be in the mood for sex.

My wife has depression on and off so some days shes buzzing around and some days her mood is at rockbottom.

Good luck with everything. I've never been in the situation so have no tips on how to turn it around. God knows what I would do if I found my wife on a dating website.

At present things between us are going alright whether that is going to continue or not is another matter.

The fact is I have never stopped loving her and I genuinely did think we were going OK up until the point I explained earlier in the thread then I broke my back to find out what was up and she just kept saying nothing and everything is ok when clearly it wasn't.

She had every opportunity to tell me how she really felt but instead she joined POF and I caught her out it wasn't until the point I was ready to end it she said she realised me and the girls is what she really wants blah blah after she betrayed us that is.

I gave her the choice there and then and she chose me and the girls.

Maybe she thought the grass was greener on the other side maybe she was depressed and had enough. I will never know the real truth.

I'm prepared to walk away if it doesn't work between us one of us has to. I would rather us be separated and my girls grow up happy than be together and they grow up miserable.

I hope you never have to go through anything like this it really is a stty situation to be in.

Edited by Total Drivin on Thursday 17th October 08:38

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She told me on Sunday she stopped taking her anti depressants whilst on holiday as they made her feel nothing this was after a few days of her feeling very down and I could tell.

She went to the doctors on yesterday because she has a slight sniffle I told her she needs to talk to them about how she feels but she didn't and said she didn't feel comfortable doing so with the kids there.

She is definitely depressed she mentioned if we should we do a double suicide last night. I told her that the girls need us both.

I don't think she would ever do it. Probably only said it because she was tired we had a terrible night the baby has thrush in her mouth we think.

Today she seems OK.

When I finish work I go home and take over as much as possible so she can just relax.

It is very hard living with someone who has depression.

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Things are looking up. We haven't argued the past few weeks and it is slowly getting back to where we used to be.

The depression seems to have gone away for now.

We're going to a bonfire party on Saturday with the girls.