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Cotty said:
M3CHA-MONK3Y said:
Of course, all this texting and ringing is probably because she REALLY wants her stuff back.
Why didn't she remove her stuff before she left? Because if she left it she could store it there for free. Makes me think she planned it all along.As long as its more than a few odds & sods, I would probably have chucked it out long ago.
When she turns up, say I am going out now, will be back in 15 pull the door shut when your gone.
You dont need to be nice to her, just civil, move on.
OP you are a bellend and I bet she's seen enough of those over the last year.
Let her come round, give her her stuff back and bloody grow up.
And whoever mentioned OXO Tower you need to grow up too.
This thread is yet another that goes a long way in showing just how pathetic some males are. I thought better of using the term "men"...
Let her come round, give her her stuff back and bloody grow up.
And whoever mentioned OXO Tower you need to grow up too.
This thread is yet another that goes a long way in showing just how pathetic some males are. I thought better of using the term "men"...
Really living up to your name there!
of the absolute highest order.fathomfive said:
In order..
1) Be the nice guy
2) Focus the conversation on her, how she is and how Oz (Colonial
) was
3) Have her stuff ready to go, but offer a cup of tea
4) Let her leave thinking better of you.
5) Finish Scotch, wallow.
6) Wait for the text which asks you for a drink.
7) Go for drink, take up Oxo Tower.
Job done.
1) Be the nice guy
2) Focus the conversation on her, how she is and how Oz (Colonial
) was3) Have her stuff ready to go, but offer a cup of tea
4) Let her leave thinking better of you.
5) Finish Scotch, wallow.
6) Wait for the text which asks you for a drink.
7) Go for drink, take up Oxo Tower.
Job done.
Do this.
Seriously OP. It was over a year ago. She left you went to Australia and didn't bother to contact out of respect. As well as you may be understandably pissed off....do NOT stoop to her level. Give her stuff back no arguements, no questions. Just like what has been said already, end this the bigger person. Draw and line under it and put it down to experience.
Don't start dicking around with other people's possessions - they don't belong to you and neither does she...
Good luck with that.
Don't start dicking around with other people's possessions - they don't belong to you and neither does she...
Good luck with that.
isrplc said:
Just text her saying you are no idea what she's talking about then proceed to Ignore all calls, texts and ignore the front door.
That's a really grown up way of doing things 
OP: Just let her come round and pick her stuff up like any normal person would.
Edited by spitfire-ian on Wednesday 5th August 11:24
Know how you feel in terms of not doing everything you could in a relationship. I'm sure she didn't either, but it frequently takes being out of one to realise that you had some serious failings (and I don't mean partying too much, going to strip bars etc - I mean not actually giving emotional support).
Frequently, when things end, we act stupidly.
However, a year later, you're still doing so. Give her her things back, be nice, and apologise.
Then give it a year, and cavort with her younger sister.
Frequently, when things end, we act stupidly.
However, a year later, you're still doing so. Give her her things back, be nice, and apologise.
Then give it a year, and cavort with her younger sister.
Harry Flashman said:
Know how you feel in terms of not doing everything you could in a relationship. I'm sure she didn't either, but it frequently takes being out of one to realise that you had some serious failings (and I don't mean partying too much, going to strip bars etc - I mean not actually giving emotional support).
Frequently, when things end, we act stupidly.
However, a year later, you're still doing so. Give her her things back, be nice, and apologise.
Then give it a year, and cavort with her younger sister.
what was the result of your minor problem?!Frequently, when things end, we act stupidly.
However, a year later, you're still doing so. Give her her things back, be nice, and apologise.
Then give it a year, and cavort with her younger sister.
hora said:
Be a man. Spill your guts- tell her how you think you've been an ass and how you knee-jerked about her upping and leaving (not a bad reaction TBH) then see what she does with your open defences. If she takes the mick- fine but you dont want to look back with regrets. The key is be honest and open though. She may say somethings about the past that hurt you a little. Its about learning and accepting on the chin sometimes. I'd personally listen to her and see where it goes- dont knee-jerk.
All the best.
Do this. Not with a specific view to getting back together, just to clear the air and move on if nothing else.All the best.
Edited by hora on Wednesday 5th August 09:10
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