Suppressed Regrets?

[wiliferus]

I hate to bring the bad news...but if you're not 100% sure... get the fk out before you hurt her and its too late. If you bimble into this marriage unsure, before you know it she'll be knocked up, then you are in the doo doo.

Also, if you're not 100% sure, chances are you'll have an affair in a few years time, maybe with this other girl, maybe someone completely new - then your head will be in tail spin.

Sorry, this is probably not the advice you were looking for, but its the voice of experience.... I did all of the above. Ending it then was a damn sight harder than it would have been pre-wedding i can assure you... and cheaper for that matter!!

HTH...but it probably didn't.

[GTO Scott]

wiliferus said:

I hate to bring the bad news...but if you're not 100% sure... get the fk out before you hurt her and its too late. If you bimble into this marriage unsure, before you know it she'll be knocked up, then you are in the doo doo.

Also, if you're not 100% sure, chances are you'll have an affair in a few years time, maybe with this other girl, maybe someone completely new - then your head will be in tail spin.

Sorry, this is probably not the advice you were looking for, but its the voice of experience.... I did all of the above. Ending it then was a damn sight harder than it would have been pre-wedding i can assure you... and cheaper for that matter!!

HTH...but it probably didn't.

I am 100% sure. I wouldn't have gone back to the soon-to-be Lady S if I wasn't. Life since then has gotten better and better, i'm now in a position I never thought i'd achieve - I have become a home-owner, my earnings are better, and a few good employment prospects are coming up. I suppose a large amount of the thoughts of the ex I have been having are along the lines of 'would I have got even half as far as this with her?' The answer to that, of course, is no.

Since writing the OP i've actually thought about the ex less and less - certainly there have been no memories of dreams involving her over the last few nights.

As I said, i'm 100% sure i'm with the right lady. Good memories of the ex should remain just that - revisiting in real life would inevitably be a bad idea!

[wiliferus]

GTO Scott said:

wiliferus said:

I hate to bring the bad news...but if you're not 100% sure... get the fk out before you hurt her and its too late. If you bimble into this marriage unsure, before you know it she'll be knocked up, then you are in the doo doo.

Also, if you're not 100% sure, chances are you'll have an affair in a few years time, maybe with this other girl, maybe someone completely new - then your head will be in tail spin.

Sorry, this is probably not the advice you were looking for, but its the voice of experience.... I did all of the above. Ending it then was a damn sight harder than it would have been pre-wedding i can assure you... and cheaper for that matter!!

HTH...but it probably didn't.

I am 100% sure. I wouldn't have gone back to the soon-to-be Lady S if I wasn't. Life since then has gotten better and better, i'm now in a position I never thought i'd achieve - I have become a home-owner, my earnings are better, and a few good employment prospects are coming up. I suppose a large amount of the thoughts of the ex I have been having are along the lines of 'would I have got even half as far as this with her?' The answer to that, of course, is no.

Since writing the OP i've actually thought about the ex less and less - certainly there have been no memories of dreams involving her over the last few nights.

As I said, i'm 100% sure i'm with the right lady. Good memories of the ex should remain just that - revisiting in real life would inevitably be a bad idea!

Glad to hear it, in which case good luck!!

Thoughts of ex's are fine if you are just basking in the knowledge that it was good whilst it lasted. Thoughts of ex's are bad if you are wondering 'what if'.

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

[Doofus]

GTO Scott said:

As I said, i'm 100% sure i'm with the right lady.

Well there you are then. My work is done. It's always satisfying when you know you've given good, sensible advice and that it's been listened to. :smug:

[sunbeam_alpine]

Silent1 said:

WHat are these specialist tastes you mention?
Is she smuggling cock or the size of an average semi detached?

I'm glad I'm not the only one to think that she might be a bit on the large side after reading that

[Ewan S]

wiliferus said:

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

Precisely - now get this evidence removed from the forum completely so it doesn't come back to haunt you. Do you need the name of a friendly moderator?

[Silent1]

Ewan S said:

wiliferus said:

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

Precisely - now get this evidence removed from the forum completely so it doesn't come back to haunt you. Do you need the name of a friendly moderator?

Way too late, say hello to Google cache

[Xaero]

sunbeam_alpine said:

Silent1 said:

WHat are these specialist tastes you mention?
Is she smuggling cock or the size of an average semi detached?

I'm glad I'm not the only one to think that she might be a bit on the large side after reading that

I've never seen a size 8 lass with L cup mammaries.

[Silent1]

Xaero said:

sunbeam_alpine said:

Silent1 said:

WHat are these specialist tastes you mention?
Is she smuggling cock or the size of an average semi detached?

I'm glad I'm not the only one to think that she might be a bit on the large side after reading that

I've never seen a size 8 lass with L cup mammaries.

So it's confirmed, she's a bushpig?

[GTO Scott]

Silent1 said:

Ewan S said:

wiliferus said:

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

Precisely - now get this evidence removed from the forum completely so it doesn't come back to haunt you. Do you need the name of a friendly moderator?

Way too late, say hello to Google cache

Indeed. Given the existence of Google Cache, I have no intentions of asking for thread removal. If it comes to bite me on the arse, well, so be it. I had considered this before I made the OP.

As for the shape of the girl, yes she was plus-sized. Cue plenty of flour jokes, etc. Yawn.

Oh, by the way Dave200, why repeat the post you made at around 12.25?

Edited by GTO Scott on Sunday 11th July 13:54

[Dave200]

GTO Scott said:

Silent1 said:

Ewan S said:

wiliferus said:

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

Precisely - now get this evidence removed from the forum completely so it doesn't come back to haunt you. Do you need the name of a friendly moderator?

Way too late, say hello to Google cache

Indeed. Given the existence of Google Cache, I have no intentions of asking for thread removal. If it comes to bite me on the arse, well, so be it. I had considered this before I made the OP.

As for the shape of the girl, yes she was plus-sized. Cue plenty of flour jokes, etc. Yawn.

Oh, by the way Dave200, why repeat the post you made at around 12.25?

Edited by GTO Scott on Sunday 11th July 13:54

"Plus sized"? With L-cup breasts? Do you mind asking where you draw the line between plus-sized and JabbaTheHut-sized? Because, if the lady in question is anything less than a size 20, then her norks will be enormously out of proportion! If she's over a size 20, then surely it's more a case of needing an elaborate system of pulleys and ropes to actually have sex with her...

[GTO Scott]

Dave200 said:

"Plus sized"? With L-cup breasts? Do you mind asking where you draw the line between plus-sized and JabbaTheHut-sized? Because, if the lady in question is anything less than a size 20, then her norks will be enormously out of proportion! If she's over a size 20, then surely it's more a case of needing an elaborate system of pulleys and ropes to actually have sex with her...

Does it really matter to you that much? Does it disgust you that some people find big girls attractive? Maybe you're in denial over your own sexual preferences.

Whatever, I see no reason to reveal any details of my rather fun-filled sex life - there's no need to.

[V8mate]

GTO Scott said:

Dave200 said:

"Plus sized"? With L-cup breasts? Do you mind asking where you draw the line between plus-sized and JabbaTheHut-sized? Because, if the lady in question is anything less than a size 20, then her norks will be enormously out of proportion! If she's over a size 20, then surely it's more a case of needing an elaborate system of pulleys and ropes to actually have sex with her...

Does it really matter to you that much? Does it disgust you that some people find big girls attractive? Maybe you're in denial over your own sexual preferences.

Whatever, I see no reason to reveal any details of my rather fun-filled sex life - there's no need to.

Go on then. You've successfully dodged the shame. Post a photo of her

[Nolar Dog]

GTO Scott said:

Does it disgust you that some people find big girls attractive?

It does me. I just don't see how they can. But hey ho...

Carry on, Feeder.

[rich1231]

GTO Scott said:

Dave200 said:

"Plus sized"? With L-cup breasts? Do you mind asking where you draw the line between plus-sized and JabbaTheHut-sized? Because, if the lady in question is anything less than a size 20, then her norks will be enormously out of proportion! If she's over a size 20, then surely it's more a case of needing an elaborate system of pulleys and ropes to actually have sex with her...

Does it really matter to you that much? Does it disgust you that some people find big girls attractive? Maybe you're in denial over your own sexual preferences.

Whatever, I see no reason to reveal any details of my rather fun-filled sex life - there's no need to.

How big are you talking?

As in special interest websites and magazines?


I suppose it means you have little competition from other blokes in that market segment.

I dont know how you can do them to be honest.

[GTO Scott]

rich1231 said:

I suppose it means you have little competition from other blokes in that market segment.

I dont know how you can do them to be honest.

You'd be surprised how many blokes there are who prefer a girl who carries some extra pounds. That said, many of them won't admit to it in public.

ND - musical taste aside, what do you mean by 'feeder'?

[Timmy35]

GTO Scott said:

rich1231 said:

I suppose it means you have little competition from other blokes in that market segment.

I dont know how you can do them to be honest.

You'd be surprised how many blokes there are who prefer a girl who carries some extra pounds. That said, many of them won't admit to it in public.

ND - musical taste aside, what do you mean by 'feeder'?

What do you mean by a 'few extra pounds' size 16 versus size 8-10? Or are we takling elephant hunting?

[MaxAndRuby]

Timmy35 said:

Or are we takling elephant hunting?

[Harry Flashman]

Dave200 said:

GTO Scott said:

Silent1 said:

Ewan S said:

wiliferus said:

Sounds like you'll be just fine and are just suffering from slightly premature pre-wedding wobbles.

Precisely - now get this evidence removed from the forum completely so it doesn't come back to haunt you. Do you need the name of a friendly moderator?

Way too late, say hello to Google cache

Indeed. Given the existence of Google Cache, I have no intentions of asking for thread removal. If it comes to bite me on the arse, well, so be it. I had considered this before I made the OP.

As for the shape of the girl, yes she was plus-sized. Cue plenty of flour jokes, etc. Yawn.

Oh, by the way Dave200, why repeat the post you made at around 12.25?

Edited by GTO Scott on Sunday 11th July 13:54

"Plus sized"? With L-cup breasts? Do you mind asking where you draw the line between plus-sized and JabbaTheHut-sized? Because, if the lady in question is anything less than a size 20, then her norks will be enormously out of proportion! If she's over a size 20, then surely it's more a case of needing an elaborate system of pulleys and ropes to actually have sex with her...

I really shouldn't but,



sorry.

[rich1231]

GTO Scott said:

rich1231 said:

I suppose it means you have little competition from other blokes in that market segment.

I dont know how you can do them to be honest.

You'd be surprised how many blokes there are who prefer a girl who carries some extra pounds. That said, many of them won't admit to it in public.

ND - musical taste aside, what do you mean by 'feeder'?

Actually most blokes dont want to have sex with a hippo. Fat isnt sexy, never has been and never will be. You might find some saddos happy to put up with all that they can get though. It is a small club that really like to go monster harpooning.