Suppressed Regrets?

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C8PPO

19,605 posts

204 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.

Adenauer

18,581 posts

237 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
biggrin

Edited by Adenauer on Friday 9th July 12:39

Dave_ST220

10,296 posts

206 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
rofl

GTO Scott

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3,816 posts

225 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
laugh

Both my OH and I had other relationships while we were apart - as far as we were concerned the relationship was over and we were both single.

I'd just like to make clear that although this girl keeps interrupting my thoughts, they aren't sexually related. It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.

Justayellowbadge

37,057 posts

243 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
laugh

Both my OH and I had other relationships while we were apart - as far as we were concerned the relationship was over and we were both single.

I'd just like to make clear that although this girl keeps interrupting my thoughts, they aren't sexually related. It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
fking obvious.

You'd be right here, you'd just be posting about the two of them in reversed roles.

louismchuge

1,628 posts

185 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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fk getting married at 26! I'm 27 soon enough and I've got noooooo plans for a good few years

V8mate

45,899 posts

190 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
Well, for a start you'd be laying on your back, with her riding you and swinging those massive norks in your face.

Doofus

25,850 posts

174 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
I was about to trot out my mantra about how, once you've made a decision you should never look back and think "what if", but then V8mate made a very pertinent point:

V8mate said:
Well, for a start you'd be laying on your back, with her riding you and swinging those massive norks in your face.

rich1231

17,331 posts

261 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
laugh

Both my OH and I had other relationships while we were apart - as far as we were concerned the relationship was over and we were both single.

I'd just like to make clear that although this girl keeps interrupting my thoughts, they aren't sexually related. It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
Apart from visits to museums with slide rules and spotters guides, what does the current gf do for you?



Don't answer I cant be arsed to read a reply. You are posting on PH about the fact that you have memories from your past. Well done, you have not lost your memory to a series of strokes so fanfking tastic.



People have memories and pasts, your oh's thoughts of past are almost certainly sexual in nature. HTH.

Bill

52,836 posts

256 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
I'd just like to make clear that although this girl keeps interrupting my thoughts, they aren't sexually related. It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
Wondering where the rabbit went.

V8mate

45,899 posts

190 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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rich1231 said:
GTO Scott said:
C8PPO said:
Can I just confirm your address? I think I have some photos to send to you, taken whilst you and the lady were separated.
laugh

Both my OH and I had other relationships while we were apart - as far as we were concerned the relationship was over and we were both single.

I'd just like to make clear that although this girl keeps interrupting my thoughts, they aren't sexually related. It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
Apart from visits to museums with slide rules and spotters guides, what does the current gf do for you?

Don't answer I cant be arsed to read a reply. You are posting on PH about the fact that you have memories from your past. Well done, you have not lost your memory to a series of strokes so fanfking tastic.

People have memories and pasts, your oh's thoughts of past are almost certainly sexual in nature. HTH.
I think he has suffered some kind of concussion or trauma though. I'm happily married, but can only imagine that it would take a particularly nasty case of death to stop me window shopping.

GTO Scott

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3,816 posts

225 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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Doofus said:
GTO Scott said:
It's more a 'what if/where would we be now' train of thought.
I was about to trot out my mantra about how, once you've made a decision you should never look back and think "what if", but then V8mate made a very pertinent point:

V8mate said:
Well, for a start you'd be laying on your back, with her riding you and swinging those massive norks in your face.
Quite. Now I can't get a particularly enjoyable session the ex and I had out of my head. cloud9

But then it illustrates another difference and reason why I chose the woman I have now - despite the slightly smaller baps, she's also better in bed biggrin

V8mate

45,899 posts

190 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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scratchchin

Has the ex been in touch in some way recently?

louismchuge

1,628 posts

185 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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menage a trois?

maxrider

2,481 posts

237 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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louismchuge said:
fk getting married at 26! I'm 27 soon enough and I've got noooooo plans for a good few years
yes On the plus side you'll be divorced by 30 and still young enough to get a replacement.
(says this cynical 46 yr old who's seen many, many mates fk their lives up in this way)

Doofus

25,850 posts

174 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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Alright Scott, that's enough. You posted exactly the kind of thing that's perfect for PH and I, for one, took one or two opportunuities to post provocative and flippant replies because that's what goes on here.

So far, you've responded to each of my jabs with reasonableness and good humour and, frankly, that's just not cricket!

Do you want to be today's whipping boy, or don't you?! I'm not sure your heart's in it, TBH.

ceebmoj

1,898 posts

262 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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Doofus said:
B.J.W said:
Men are programmed to put it about. No harm in window shopping, just don't lick the windows. Although if you see something you like, it is OK to sneak in through the back door, as long as you don't get caught.
EFA
lol

GTO Scott

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3,816 posts

225 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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V8mate said:
scratchchin

Has the ex been in touch in some way recently?
No. Last contact was around 18 months ago. I did clear a load of old pictures of previous partners off my laptop and onto the backup USB stick along with a load of other stuff a month or two ago though...

King Herald

23,501 posts

217 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
As ever, I await the usual mix of good advice, bad advice, humour and abuse so often associated with stories such as this. Fire away!
Neither is any good: One is marriage material, but not much fun. The other is loads of fun, but not marriage material.

Well, it sounded okay when I was typing it. grumpy

NitroNick

747 posts

211 months

Friday 9th July 2010
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GTO Scott said:
Whilst not mechanically minded, she has good career ambitions, gives me unconditional love, is bright and fun to be with, to my eyes very attractive (though I accept I have 'specialist' tastes)
I think if she reads this you won't have to worry about getting married.