Suppressed Regrets?
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I think your subconscious mind is telling you that something isn't quite right here, and that you've still a bit of shagging around left to do.
You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
Mobile Chicane said:
I think your subconscious mind is telling you that something isn't quite right here, and that you've still a bit of shagging around left to do.
You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
Agreed, but, don't get married. It's just a piece of paper.You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
Two things:
a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
Mobile Chicane said:
I think your subconscious mind is telling you that something isn't quite right here, and that you've still a bit of shagging around left to do.
You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
She's not hassling me for kids - she knows that sprogs are a big no-no as far as I am concerned. Families certainly aren't pressuring us either. As far as my family is concerned I'm actually quite late in terms of the marriage game - most of my relatives got married between the ages of 22 - 24.You're just 26 and have the rest of your life to get married. What's the hurry here?
Is it that families expect it 'since you've been together for so long'? (Don't listen to them, you'll regret it.)
Is she hassling you for children? (Plenty of time yet.)
I think people change a lot in their 20s and 30s and ought to get their growing up out of the way before entering into what should be a life-long commitment.
GTO Scott said:
Justayellowbadge said:
Relationship advice from Ewan.
What next, Stevie Wonder helping out on the photography forum?
What next, Stevie Wonder helping out on the photography forum?
I have to admit, of all the people I thought might post in reply to this thread, Ewan certainly wasn't one of them!
5potTurbo said:
maxrider said:
GTO Scott said:
I did clear a load of old pictures of previous partners off my laptop and onto the backup USB stick
If you're so sure this is 'the one' why not just delete them?GTO Scott said:
a face that was very easy on the eyes, just over six feet tall !
I reckon you've been a bit 
struck there.That is a massive, massive face- not at all easy on the eye.
Forget about her. Honestly- once the sex becomes mundane- all you'll be left with is this huge grotesque head haunting every aspect of your life.
Edited by blindswelledrat on Friday 9th July 14:27
Ewan S said:
Two things:
a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
Do you actually have any ex girlfriends?a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
blindswelledrat said:
GTO Scott said:
a face that was very easy on the eyes, just over six feet tall !
I reckon you've been a bit struck there.That is a massive, massive face- not at all easy on the eye.
Forget about her. Honestly- once the sex becomes mundane- all you'll be left with is this huge grotesque head haunting every aspect of your life.
BSR What's wrong? when did you get your humour back?rich1231 said:
Ewan S said:
Two things:
a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
Do you actually have any ex girlfriends?a) Don't forget the ex may have changed substantially (usually for the worse) since you last saw her, so just accept she's now really damaged, heavily st'd goods and that what you had back then isn't what you'd get now. This might not be the case, but if you start thinking cynically it'll work like reverse psychology and the problem will go away.
b) Get the mods to remove and delete this thread before your fiancee sees it.
Actually one last thing that may help, all joking aside, go solo whilst thinking about that particularly good session you mentioned previously. Then when you're done, who would you want to be lying in bed next to if it had been the real thing?
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