Sex drive and age?
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Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
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hstewie said:
hstewie said: Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
As long as it's over 20, then fair game for a letch, though as you get older you need not get caught...I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
bhstewie said:
hstewie said: Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
It doesn't in my experience, although I find older women more attractive than I did when I was younger...I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
I still find an 18 year old hottie, 18 and hot! Although I wouldn't be stupid enough to think I had a hope in hell. No harm in looking (i.e perving).
However I also find women in their late 30's and 40's attractive now, which I certainly never did until the last couple of years, anyone over 30 (or that at least looked it) seemed utterly over the hill to me when I was in my 20's even all the way into my very early 30's.
I'm 34 by the way.
im 26 and mine seems to come in waves.... Though not too long ago I'd be up for it any time! and did!
To be honest I do kinda know why. Now we have our own place there's no one to over hear/catch us (house mates) so it can be a bit boring doing it in the same 4-5 rooms this apartment has! Far more exciting to be doing it in a hedge maze or something! Though having said that I nearly got caught by a farmer and his shotgun once! That was scary.
To be honest I do kinda know why. Now we have our own place there's no one to over hear/catch us (house mates) so it can be a bit boring doing it in the same 4-5 rooms this apartment has! Far more exciting to be doing it in a hedge maze or something! Though having said that I nearly got caught by a farmer and his shotgun once! That was scary.
bhstewie said:
hstewie said: Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
Generally I don't find the under 25s particularly attractive, but there was a lad on the checkout at Waitrose the other day who was very mature for his age. I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
He couldn't have been 18 as yet, since he had to call a supervisor to put my wine through the till.
Were I not in a relationship, I'd have had a crack, for sure. The 'perv' element would just make it even more exciting.
ILoveMondeo said:
bhstewie said:
hstewie said: Here's a question for the "older" ones amongst us - at what point does the age limits of people you find attractive/perv on start to creep up?
I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
It doesn't in my experience, although I find older women more attractive than I did when I was younger...I'm just wondering at what point it suddenly seems slightly creepy to leer at 20 year olds or if as you get older suddenly you find yourself feeling a bit grubby if they're under 30 and so on..
I still find an 18 year old hottie, 18 and hot! Although I wouldn't be stupid enough to think I had a hope in hell. No harm in looking (i.e perving).
However I also find women in their late 30's and 40's attractive now, which I certainly never did until the last couple of years, anyone over 30 (or that at least looked it) seemed utterly over the hill to me when I was in my 20's even all the way into my very early 30's.
I'm 34 by the way.
Interesting subject, good post.
I am 66 and a bit, overweight, diabetic 24 years, Ischemic heart disease, physical wreck really, due to my volupturian nature and and my sex drive is as strong now as it ever was.
Probably one of the reasons I have been married 5 times: I could have worn them out, as well as pissed them off.
It seems to be a matter of good fortune to me.
Over many relationships I have found that some girls do, all the time and some do not, ever. And they switch from one camp to the other and back effortlessly and regularly.
I have no idea why? Just adds to the fun. Viagra? Not for me, thanks!
I am 66 and a bit, overweight, diabetic 24 years, Ischemic heart disease, physical wreck really, due to my volupturian nature and and my sex drive is as strong now as it ever was.
Probably one of the reasons I have been married 5 times: I could have worn them out, as well as pissed them off.
It seems to be a matter of good fortune to me.
Over many relationships I have found that some girls do, all the time and some do not, ever. And they switch from one camp to the other and back effortlessly and regularly.
I have no idea why? Just adds to the fun. Viagra? Not for me, thanks!
45 - no probs here!
One caveat though - fitness!
Over the past 10 years, the things I used to do to keep fit; gym, mountain biking, sqaush... become replaced with kids, work, ale, etc. Never got fat or particularly unhealthy but aware that I was heading that way so since the beginning of the year, I've slowly been getting back into fitness regimes (doing P90X at the moment) and have to say that certain matters of the gentlemen's area have improved considerably and they weren't that bad before!!!
One caveat though - fitness!
Over the past 10 years, the things I used to do to keep fit; gym, mountain biking, sqaush... become replaced with kids, work, ale, etc. Never got fat or particularly unhealthy but aware that I was heading that way so since the beginning of the year, I've slowly been getting back into fitness regimes (doing P90X at the moment) and have to say that certain matters of the gentlemen's area have improved considerably and they weren't that bad before!!!
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