Effing cancer is an effing effer, frankly

Effing cancer is an effing effer, frankly

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mp3manager

4,254 posts

197 months

Thursday 8th November 2018
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My 8hr chemo session was cancelled yesterday as they weren't happy with my toxicology results from my bloods the previous day and didn't want to press ahead with chemo when I was already very ill. I had a blood transfusion of 2 units a fortnight ago as my haemoglobin level was 79, when it should be 150-ish.

I was fighting for breath and generally feeling ill and called the cancer helpline, who sent an ambulance round. Had an overnight stay.

I have a meeting with the oncology doctor on Friday and I suspect they will try again to get me to come off my current chemo drug of Cetuximab and on to another drug.

I suspect this is all down to funding or lack of. I have mused in the past that each new patient is allocated X amount of funding from that years budget and when the pot runs dry, it's in the department's best interest to move you onto another drug, preferably one which is cheaper, so they can balance the books.

If I voluntarily move off Cetuximab and onto another drug, I can't get back onto Cetuximab as the funding is a once-only deal.
It's my arguement that Cetuximab was the first choice by the oncology doctors because it was the most effective treatment going forward and it's mad to come off it and onto something else that isn't as effective or less effective.

Sorry I'm rambling a bit. It's frustrating that a patient has to even consider the NHS funding of their treatment. ranting

Edited by mp3manager on Thursday 8th November 12:05

bludger

112 posts

79 months

Thursday 8th November 2018
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Sorry to hear about your travails. I'm sure you'll cover these points with the oncologist and, as you say it is frustrating, to have a clear clinical reason for any change in medication. I wouldn't conclude either that Cetuximab is the one drug that works the best; we're all different and it may be that a cheaper drug actually works better. Nil desperandum.

motco

15,964 posts

247 months

Thursday 8th November 2018
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A family member of mine is on Herceptin (trastuzumab) for breast cancer and has been asked to consider a biosimilar alternative. These biosimilars are a sort of clone of the very expensive original and one that clinical trials show is equally effective. My view is that if they are indeed equivalent although subtly different for patent reasons (I assume) then the patient is less likely to have treatment withdrawn totally. Cost reasons are often dressed up as medical reasons and if the drug is as good but much cheaper, that is less likely to happen. My son is a consultant surgeon (ok not an oncologist but he keeps a close eye on oncology as the family member is also his family member, obviously) and he hasn't heard any negative reports attached to biosimilars.

boobles

15,241 posts

216 months

Wednesday 14th November 2018
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My next door neighbor of 38 years has been battling liver C (I refuse to say the word) for about 5 months & has always been so upbeat & determined that he will be around for a very long time. He was going in & out of hospital post treatment because the pain was too much but he still remained so upbeat...
Yesterday he was taken into a Hospice & I feel terrible for him. His son is flying over from the other side of the world tomorrow, so I guess his battle has been lost. frownmad

FocusRS3

3,411 posts

92 months

Wednesday 14th November 2018
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boobles said:
My next door neighbor of 38 years has been battling liver C (I refuse to say the word) for about 5 months & has always been so upbeat & determined that he will be around for a very long time. He was going in & out of hospital post treatment because the pain was too much but he still remained so upbeat...
Yesterday he was taken into a Hospice & I feel terrible for him. His son is flying over from the other side of the world tomorrow, so I guess his battle has been lost. frownmad
Really sorry to hear this. So sad he had such a positive outlook on the whole thing and yet it looks to have beaten him.

Life is indeed too short

popeyewhite

19,938 posts

121 months

Wednesday 14th November 2018
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FocusRS3 said:
boobles said:
My next door neighbor of 38 years has been battling liver C (I refuse to say the word) for about 5 months & has always been so upbeat & determined that he will be around for a very long time. He was going in & out of hospital post treatment because the pain was too much but he still remained so upbeat...
Yesterday he was taken into a Hospice & I feel terrible for him. His son is flying over from the other side of the world tomorrow, so I guess his battle has been lost. frownmad
Really sorry to hear this. So sad he had such a positive outlook on the whole thing and yet it looks to have beaten him.

Life is indeed too short
Hospice palliative care it not necessarily end of life treatment. Fingers crossed your neighbour might be in the hospice for specialist pain management.

FocusRS3

3,411 posts

92 months

Wednesday 14th November 2018
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popeyewhite said:
Hospice palliative care it not necessarily end of life treatment. Fingers crossed your neighbour might be in the hospice for specialist pain management.
Apologies i was unaware of this.

Yes hopefully with his positive outlook he pulls through

boobles

15,241 posts

216 months

Wednesday 14th November 2018
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popeyewhite said:
FocusRS3 said:
boobles said:
My next door neighbor of 38 years has been battling liver C (I refuse to say the word) for about 5 months & has always been so upbeat & determined that he will be around for a very long time. He was going in & out of hospital post treatment because the pain was too much but he still remained so upbeat...
Yesterday he was taken into a Hospice & I feel terrible for him. His son is flying over from the other side of the world tomorrow, so I guess his battle has been lost. frownmad
Really sorry to hear this. So sad he had such a positive outlook on the whole thing and yet it looks to have beaten him.

Life is indeed too short
Hospice palliative care it not necessarily end of life treatment. Fingers crossed your neighbour might be in the hospice for specialist pain management.
Indeed but his wife doesn't seem very positive at all + his son flying from Australia tomorrow. I am hoping otherwise & have everything crossed.

boobles

15,241 posts

216 months

Thursday 15th November 2018
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My neighbour passed away at 6:10am today. Sleep well buddy, I will always remember seeing you out there most Sunday's cleaning your car.

FocusRS3

3,411 posts

92 months

Thursday 15th November 2018
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boobles said:
My neighbour passed away at 6:10am today. Sleep well buddy, I will always remember seeing you out there most Sunday's cleaning your car.
So sorry to hear... RIP

motco

15,964 posts

247 months

Thursday 15th November 2018
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boobles said:
My neighbour passed away at 6:10am today. Sleep well buddy, I will always remember seeing you out there most Sunday's cleaning your car.
I hope his son made it home in time.

boobles

15,241 posts

216 months

Thursday 15th November 2018
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motco said:
I hope his son made it home in time.
I hope so to, I really do. His business of 35 years is closing down as a result & it was probably the most longest running men's clothes shop in the area. He had just signed a new lease & had no intention of ever retiring... So sad. frown

popeyewhite

19,938 posts

121 months

Thursday 15th November 2018
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boobles said:
My neighbour passed away at 6:10am today. Sleep well buddy, I will always remember seeing you out there most Sunday's cleaning your car.
Poor bugger.

NewNameNeeded

2,560 posts

226 months

Saturday 8th December 2018
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Hoped to never contribute to this thread, but after 75 years of generally good health my Mum has been diagnosed with lung cancer, which we have been told has spread elsewhere. Awaiting results of the latest scan and bronchoscopy and biopsy before we know what happens next. Maintaining some positivity, but expecting bad news. The worst of it is seeing how this illness has eaten away at her. No other way of describing it. She's a shell of her former self. No prior symptoms either 😥

anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 8th December 2018
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Sorry to hear that

bobski1

1,775 posts

105 months

Sunday 9th December 2018
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Mrs just started Chemo on Tuesday. Start low level but some spreading to lungs to they're kicking it up a notch on Monday.

Very high success rate so not too worried about the outcome but just worried how she'll handle the treatment. She's proven she is much stronger than I gave her credit for.

So much respect for the people who have to go through this kind of stuff.


theboss

6,919 posts

220 months

Wednesday 12th December 2018
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NewNameNeeded said:
Hoped to never contribute to this thread, but after 75 years of generally good health my Mum has been diagnosed with lung cancer, which we have been told has spread elsewhere. Awaiting results of the latest scan and bronchoscopy and biopsy before we know what happens next. Maintaining some positivity, but expecting bad news. The worst of it is seeing how this illness has eaten away at her. No other way of describing it. She's a shell of her former self. No prior symptoms either ??
Very sorry to hear this and I hope there is a favourable outcome to be found from all the tests.

Peanut Gallery

2,428 posts

111 months

Friday 4th January 2019
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Sorry to bring this thread up again, but what a start to 2019. Friend fought a long fight, but lost in the end.

Dibble said:
And as usual, as the OP of this ghastly thread, once more from the top, with feeling:

"fk off cancer, you hoofwking bungle of an insidious little disease. Go on, fk off, all the way over there. And when you've got there, keep fking off until you're out of sight. And once you are, go and fk yourself, you utter ttspangle."

FocusRS3

3,411 posts

92 months

Friday 4th January 2019
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Peanut Gallery said:
Really sorry to hear the news Peanut...can i be rude enough to ask the age and the details as i have a mate thats just been diagnosed and has it in his chest, back and neck at the age of 48

Pieman68

4,264 posts

235 months

Friday 4th January 2019
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Found out just before Christmas that a childhood frined (and cricket teammate) has been been diagnosed with pancreatic c and been given 3 months

His younger brother is one of my best mates and know their Dad very well also.

Absolutely gutted :-(

45 years old with 2 kids