Winding down before bed

Winding down before bed

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BoRED S2upid

19,700 posts

240 months

Friday 21st July 2017
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Mothersruin said:
A good wk then some Horlicks.

My mum swears by it.
Now I'm not going to be able to sleep with that image running through my mind I don't even know your mum!

Mothersruin

8,573 posts

99 months

Friday 21st July 2017
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BoRED S2upid said:
Mothersruin said:
A good wk then some Horlicks.

My mum swears by it.
Now I'm not going to be able to sleep with that image running through my mind I don't even know your mum!
Go for it, she looks like a chubby Helen Mirren.

Calza

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1,994 posts

115 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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johnwilliams77 said:
This. Especially no eating after 6pm! WTF. Some people don't get home before 6. ZMA's are supposed to help with sleep also.
Oh I take ZMA, but I gather that's quality of sleep - not dozing off. Occasionally take GABA too if I need a really good sleep - that one is fun.

BoRED S2upid said:
Why is your mind racing? What are you thinking about? I had insomnia for years and thought my life was perfectly fine I couldn't understand why I was still awake at 4am. There was an underlying issue.
Honestly no particular reason. Maybe about work or something at the gym. Nothing overly stressful, it's like it just decides to wake up and go hyper active when I get to bed! I don't ever remember being any different.

hyphen

26,262 posts

90 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Hoofy said:
Try some cardio. Gym bike or running machine for 20-30 minutes every couple of days. May help.
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yes Assess your exercise and diet before anything else.

Halb

53,012 posts

183 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Look for the really good recent BBC doc on sleep that was on recently.

Also, as some have said, ZMA and or melatonin.

AlexC1981

4,923 posts

217 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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I have a radio with a timer on it and if my brain is racing round, I find having it on very low volume gives me something to listen to so I'm not constantly thinking about stuff and keeping myself awake. I fall asleep with Smooth or Mellow Magic on most nights.

And no decaffeinated drinks after 5pm and ideally no sweet treats either.

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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AlexC1981 said:
I have a radio with a timer on it and if my brain is racing round, I find having it on very low volume gives me something to listen to so I'm not constantly thinking about stuff and keeping myself awake. I fall asleep with Smooth or Mellow Magic on most nights.

And no decaffeinated drinks after 5pm and ideally no sweet treats either.
No decaffeinated? So just caffinated?

johnwilliams77

8,308 posts

103 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Halb said:
Look for the really good recent BBC doc on sleep that was on recently.

Also, as some have said, ZMA and or melatonin.
I tried ZMA for the first time last night. I got the most deep sleep of my entire week - 2hr 40. Success.

andyb28

767 posts

118 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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I used to suffer quite bad with this when I was in my late twenties.

I was a programmer at the time and used to work late into the night, so my brain just wouldnt switch off once in bed. I also used to wake up with solutions to problems I was facing with my work and then would get up and write the code.

Anyway, to say I was in a bad place would be an understatement.

The thing that helped me was to walk my dog late at night before bed. I found that also listening to classical music whislt on the walk helped.
By the time I got to bed, my head was not thinking or worrying about work.

I do realise you said that you weren't stressed, but sometimes we do not realise we are stressed. But regardless of that, maybe try a walk before bed.

ambuletz

10,735 posts

181 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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For me if I've had a cold bath/shower in the evening it really helps in falling asleep. sometimes just taking a big glass of water helps in getting me tired for bed in about 20min.

AlexC1981

4,923 posts

217 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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johnwilliams77 said:
AlexC1981 said:
I have a radio with a timer on it and if my brain is racing round, I find having it on very low volume gives me something to listen to so I'm not constantly thinking about stuff and keeping myself awake. I fall asleep with Smooth or Mellow Magic on most nights.

And no decaffeinated drinks after 5pm and ideally no sweet treats either.
No decaffeinated? So just caffinated?
Whoops, should have typed caffeine drinks rather than decaffeinated. Obviously I've not had enough sleep hehe Probably worth mentioning that even decaffeinated tea contains some caffeine. I find red bush a nice alternative in the evening.

Fermit The Krog and Sexy Sarah

12,956 posts

100 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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One tip I can give is to install an extension such as f.lux to your laptop or tablet. Basically after sunset it removes all of the blue light from your display, the one that keeps you wide awake, giving you a warm display in its place.

trick3000tt

71 posts

214 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Bob Ross, The joy of painting.
Happy little trees and the most soothing voice of all time. All available on youtube. Never managed to watch an episode to the end yet.

Calza

Original Poster:

1,994 posts

115 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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People never read the OP do they laugh

I take ZMA, I have f.lux (and twilight), my diet is very good and I exercise hard 4 times a week.

Radio absolutely seems to be the winner here though for the wind down phase.

AlexC1981

4,923 posts

217 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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trick3000tt said:
Bob Ross, The joy of painting.
Happy little trees and the most soothing voice of all time. All available on youtube. Never managed to watch an episode to the end yet.
Just looked him up and you are spot on hehe

I also just watched him turn some black blobs brushed on canvas into incredible looking mountains in three minutes. For the first time since I was at school I'm considering attempting to do a painting! bow


Fermit The Krog and Sexy Sarah

12,956 posts

100 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Calza said:
People never read the OP do they laugh

I take ZMA, I have f.lux (
Apologies, I evidently skim read your OP paperbag

hyphen

26,262 posts

90 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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Fermit The Krog and Sexy Sarah said:
Calza said:
People never read the OP do they laugh

I take ZMA, I have f.lux (
Apologies, I evidently skim read your OP paperbag
Same here, but it was late and I was dozing off. Hard to concentrate when you are half asleep. hehe

OP saying "and in fairly good shape I think." doesn't mean the same thing as exercising hard 4 times a week,

Edited by hyphen on Saturday 22 July 16:15

Halb

53,012 posts

183 months

Saturday 22nd July 2017
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hyphen said:
OP saying "and in fairly good shape I think." doesn't mean the same thing as exercising hard 4 times a week,

Edited by hyphen on Saturday 22 July 16:15
hehe
Powerfully built, obvs. biggrin

laam999

538 posts

169 months

Sunday 23rd July 2017
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You already lift, take ZMA and GABA and do the no blue light thing. All I could suggest is lift heavier and more intense? Add an intense cardio mid session 10*15s skipping intervals with a 45s rest.

Make your workouts intense, if you're not struggling by the end of a set you're not working hard enough, if you you're not working hard enough you're just treading water, push yourself every single session.

That said if you already do then I like audio books. A short 2h book can last me several month but without them I struggle to sleep.

Liam

anonymous-user

54 months

Sunday 23rd July 2017
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dmitry said:
I've the same problem and found that listening to podcasts or radio shows helps. Only downside is in the morning you don't know how it ended laugh

Edited by dmitry on Friday 21st July 21:50
I use a podcast app with a sleep timer on a tablet, usually only hear the the first 10-15 minutes of the podcast. As the app has a playlist you can select a few short shows and with a bit of luck you'll hear a complete one.