Biting your nails

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gregs656

10,903 posts

182 months

Sunday 15th September 2019
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illmonkey said:
Gareth79 said:
dxg said:
I've now got to the stage where, if I let my nails grow even the slightest amount, I can't type...
Same here. Incredibly it's actually getting a chore to keep them filed short! I don't want to use clippers, but the cheap emery boards are a bit crap, I'm thinking about getting one of the glass nail files which apparently never wear out.
i have one, do it! Really helps keep them short and smooth, so you don’t pick at them.
I ordered some glass ones on Amazon but they must be on the slow boat! Annoying.

Gareth79

7,683 posts

247 months

Sunday 15th September 2019
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gregs656 said:
I ordered some glass ones on Amazon but they must be on the slow boat! Annoying.
Which one? Looks like Mont Bleu or Leighton Denny are popular and well-reviewed. The latter is sold in M&S and other places.




LosingGrip

7,822 posts

160 months

Sunday 15th September 2019
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I failed today frown(

Managed two weeks. Last couple of days I've noticed that I've been playing with them a lot. Was almost annoying me being that long.

Woke up today and noticed my finger was bleeding. Didn't even notice i did it!

I'm well pissed off.

gregs656

10,903 posts

182 months

Sunday 15th September 2019
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Gareth79 said:
Which one? Looks like Mont Bleu or Leighton Denny are popular and well-reviewed. The latter is sold in M&S and other places.
I wanted Leighton Denny but they weren't available here. Some kind of generic ones from China I think.

gregs656

10,903 posts

182 months

Monday 16th September 2019
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They’re Vaga ones (generic I suspect).

Just got home and they’re here. Should be just the job.

Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

38,175 posts

248 months

Monday 16th September 2019
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LosingGrip said:
I failed today frown(

Managed two weeks. Last couple of days I've noticed that I've been playing with them a lot. Was almost annoying me being that long.

Woke up today and noticed my finger was bleeding. Didn't even notice i did it!

I'm well pissed off.
Don't worry,

It was never going to be easy.

Don't weaken, Try again.....

gregs656

10,903 posts

182 months

Friday 20th September 2019
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Anyone thinking about it, buy a nail file - I was cutting mine down which was ok but filing off the corners is better; less fiddling, it means they can grow out a bit more and it is easier to take off smaller amounts etc.

Doing pretty well now! I find my nails are not in my mouth very often now, think this had allowed my nails to get a bit stronger and the cuticles are tidier. I used to bite the skin too, I no longer seem to do that.

Thread has definitely helped me, so thanks to the OP.

Gareth79

7,683 posts

247 months

Saturday 21st September 2019
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Also thanks to the people who posted a few "home truths" on the first page that kicked some of us into it.

Gareth79

7,683 posts

247 months

Sunday 3rd November 2019
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I had a weird dream last night that I had accidentally bitten them all short again in my sleep. Boy was I confused when I woke up!

gregs656

10,903 posts

182 months

Sunday 3rd November 2019
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Gareth79 said:
I had a weird dream last night that I had accidentally bitten them all short again in my sleep. Boy was I confused when I woke up!
I had this dream about 2 weeks a go.

I was quite disappointed/frustrated about it in my dream!

I don’t know how long it’s been for me now, maybe 3 months? Still think the nail file was a smart move.

Wacky Racer

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38,175 posts

248 months

Sunday 3rd November 2019
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Keep up the good work everyone.

If you weaken, resolve to try harder next time, nobody said it would be easy to break a lifetimes habit.

smile

bigpriest

1,604 posts

131 months

Tuesday 24th December 2019
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Please spare a thought for us at Christmas - finding the end of the sellotape is a bugger. Been trying to wrap presents for 3 hours. xmas

Toilet Duck

1,329 posts

186 months

Thursday 26th December 2019
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One of my kids developed a habit of biting their nails, I don't know what started it. However, after trying various incentives to get them to stop (none of which were effective), I finally cracked it. Every morning after breakfast, I would make them insert their fingers in a bucket of dogst. We didn't own a dog but there was loads in the field I used to take them to to play football etc, so I got them to collect it there (they were allowed to wear gloves for that, before someone accuses me of being a monster)

Gareth79

7,683 posts

247 months

Friday 3rd January 2020
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bigpriest said:
Please spare a thought for us at Christmas - finding the end of the sellotape is a bugger. Been trying to wrap presents for 3 hours. xmas
I've had full nails this year and I *still* had to use the scissor blade to find the end! Sadly I haven't found many actual practical uses for them really, and certainly nothing that grabbing my keys didn't used to solve.

The *definite* benefit is not being self-conscious about having my hands open in public situations (eg. at a pub/bar table holding a drink), and not having them curled inwards as I often did.

Update: the nail beds are very slowly improving, but at this rate I think it will take years to look "normal" though:


anonymous-user

55 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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Nope, that looks entirely normal, well done you! A trim would be good though.

thebraketester

14,246 posts

139 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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I have relapsed but trying hard in the new year. Why is it so hard?

bigpriest

1,604 posts

131 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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Gareth79 said:
bigpriest said:
Please spare a thought for us at Christmas - finding the end of the sellotape is a bugger. Been trying to wrap presents for 3 hours. xmas
I've had full nails this year and I *still* had to use the scissor blade to find the end! Sadly I haven't found many actual practical uses for them really, and certainly nothing that grabbing my keys didn't used to solve.

The *definite* benefit is not being self-conscious about having my hands open in public situations (eg. at a pub/bar table holding a drink), and not having them curled inwards as I often did.

Update: the nail beds are very slowly improving, but at this rate I think it will take years to look "normal" though:
Impressive! Congratulations. I would go and try the following and be smug:

== Taking the back off a battery compartment (e.g. remote control or mobile) without using a knife.
== Peeling the sticky label bit off a re-sealable packet of sweets.
== Picking paint spots off a bath
== Opening the smallest blade on a multi-function penknife

beer

Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

248 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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thebraketester said:
I have relapsed but trying hard in the new year. Why is it so hard?
Yeah, i am back to square one..perhaps I will do a belated New Years resolution to start gain..

Wacky Racer

Original Poster:

38,175 posts

248 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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Shuvi McTupya said:
Yeah, i am back to square one..perhaps I will do a belated New Years resolution to start gain..
Me too.

Start again from today....

Shuvi McTupya

24,460 posts

248 months

Saturday 4th January 2020
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Wacky Racer said:
Shuvi McTupya said:
Yeah, i am back to square one..perhaps I will do a belated New Years resolution to start gain..
Me too.

Start again from today....
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