Is this appropriate Twitter behaviour from my Wife?

Is this appropriate Twitter behaviour from my Wife?

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PurpleTurtle

7,016 posts

145 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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Jamescrs said:
southendpier said:
if it was Meat Loaf then you're sorted now .
Deserving of recognition

hehe
Yep, chortle! hehe

Hugo Stiglitz

37,160 posts

212 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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She's been having her head turned. Did you have access to her private messages?

Is she glued to her phone or does she need to work suddenly now etc?

housen

2,366 posts

193 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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leef44 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
housen said:
its hard not to be jel i know


but imagine if u as a man could go on the internet take your top off and post a pic and 10000 women send u a pic of their puss


would be fun eh

its the internets fault not your wifes sadly
It is slightly difficult to decipher what you are saying, however I think you are suggesting that situations like this are entirely the fault of the communication medium, rather than the people involved?

That is quite an alternative point of view.
Yes that was what I was thinking. A bit like crashing into a tree and blaming the tree for being there.
recognition from strangers on the internet

its a addiction and very well documented


edit also quite profitable i believe

tiktok / instagram all feeders of human dopamine

like i said i blame the internet

sad times



edit edit

a tree isn't encouraging you to crash into it



Edited by housen on Friday 21st January 11:05


Edited by housen on Friday 21st January 11:22

Petrus1983

8,755 posts

163 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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PurpleTurtle said:
Jamescrs said:
southendpier said:
if it was Meat Loaf then you're sorted now .
Deserving of recognition

hehe
Yep, chortle! hehe
roflrofl

Red9zero

6,873 posts

58 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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southendpier said:
if it was Meat Loaf then you're sorted now .
You took the words right out of my mouth.

twing

5,019 posts

132 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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southendpier said:
if it was Meat Loaf then you're sorted now .
OOOOF! angel

ntiz

2,343 posts

137 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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Is this a case of you don’t have social media?

If not get it add her as a friend etc. If she refuses then quite frankly time for a chat. Like many I’m friends with my wife which I guess is an open and normal way to be. In your situation means you can see without it being behind her back. Not sure I have worded this very well.

If she has now deleted it all when you bring it up. That would worry me. Before I got married I wasn’t a great boyfriend as soon as questioned on anything like who I was talking to etc I used to panic and delete absolutely everything. Like cleaning a crime scene.

I doubt she is cheating but might be very much enjoying flirting. The sexy surprise you never got? I would be going nuclear about personally but that’s just me. But then sec is massively important in my relationship.

leef44

4,401 posts

154 months

Friday 21st January 2022
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housen said:
leef44 said:
Lord Marylebone said:
housen said:
its hard not to be jel i know


but imagine if u as a man could go on the internet take your top off and post a pic and 10000 women send u a pic of their puss


would be fun eh

its the internets fault not your wifes sadly
It is slightly difficult to decipher what you are saying, however I think you are suggesting that situations like this are entirely the fault of the communication medium, rather than the people involved?

That is quite an alternative point of view.
Yes that was what I was thinking. A bit like crashing into a tree and blaming the tree for being there.
recognition from strangers on the internet

its a addiction and very well documented


edit also quite profitable i believe

tiktok / instagram all feeders of human dopamine

like i said i blame the internet

sad times



edit edit

a tree isn't encouraging you to crash into it



Edited by housen on Friday 21st January 11:05


Edited by housen on Friday 21st January 11:22
A work colleague who was married with two young children, saw this happen to him. He was hard at work bringing in the income for the family while she was house wife and looking after the children.

He thought they were settled down and didn't know she was flirting on the internet with such social media sites. Eventually she had an affair and he had no idea.

He thought she was taking the children out all the time. They don't have a nanny so I don't know who looked after the children while this was all happening. He was so disgusted with this that he divorced her and he gets the children every other weekend.

Zoon

6,710 posts

122 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.

housen

2,366 posts

193 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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Zoon said:
A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.
helpful and reassuring comment indeed

Caddyshack

10,830 posts

207 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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housen said:
Zoon said:
A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.
helpful and reassuring comment indeed
My wife has run off with my best friend and I miss him!

Meeten-5dulx

2,588 posts

57 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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Caddyshack said:
My wife has run off with my best friend and I miss him!
laugh

hyphen

26,262 posts

91 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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OP, get a marriage councilor booked asap for you both, and talk it all out with this neutral party.

Also be honest, have you put on weight since you got married? Or started taking less pride in your appearance and clothes? If so, start to get back to what you looked like when she met you.

Edited by hyphen on Tuesday 25th January 12:59

SpeckledJim

31,608 posts

254 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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Meeten-5dulx said:
Caddyshack said:
My wife has run off with my best friend and I miss him that dog!
laugh
smile

PurpleTurtle

7,016 posts

145 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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Zoon said:
A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.
Blimey, I went to that at The Roundhouse and all I got was a signed live CD! Good gig though.

Presumably she said that her weakness was none of his business? hehe

https://youtu.be/FPG-kPwWPqU

hyphen

26,262 posts

91 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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Zoon said:
A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.
Did it last?

twing

5,019 posts

132 months

Tuesday 25th January 2022
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hyphen said:
Did it last?
The end is near wink

GT3Manthey

4,524 posts

50 months

Wednesday 26th January 2022
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Zoon said:
A guy and his wife I know through a friend were massive fans of the 90's group Embrace.
When they did a reunion tour they attended and got backstage passes, the wife ended up running off with the bass player/guitarist.
The OP needs to create an account and see what she’s up to or get a friends to message her.

It’s pretty st that she won’t let him see what she’s up to.

hyphen

26,262 posts

91 months

Wednesday 26th January 2022
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GT3Manthey said:
The OP needs to create an account and see what she’s up to or get a friends to message her.

It’s pretty st that she won’t let him see what she’s up to.
Best to not, if no trust, no relationship.

If they divorce, her scum lawyer would cite monitoring of her phone as proof of her being a domestic abuse victim (controlling behaviour).

housen

2,366 posts

193 months

Wednesday 26th January 2022
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you have to ask yourself


if 100 women on insta were sending you filth


would you ignore it ?