Tired all the time - how do I turn it around?

Tired all the time - how do I turn it around?

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w00tman

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603 posts

145 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Morning all

I'm tired. All the bloody time. It's also my birthday tomorrow and I turn 35. Maybe the two are connected, I don't know.

I'm a touch overweight, I probably drink too much (but a heavy session is like 3 pints - more just too times in a week) and am asleep for probably 11pm max, as I get up at 6;30. Sometimes earlier, but never later.

In a desperate sense to avoid acknowledging my mortality - how the hell do I turn this around?

Maybe I just have the birthday blues. Bah.

Countdown

39,885 posts

196 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Cardio exercise - at least 3 times per week.

It might sound off but tiring yourself out properly (rather than the lethargy of sitting in the office/car/sofa all day) helps you sleep better and have more energy.

funinhounslow

1,629 posts

142 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Have a read of a book called “Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker.

Tells you everything you need to know about sleep and is absolutely fascinating...

Stephanie Plum

2,782 posts

211 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Pay attention to nutrition and exercise as above.

Lemming Train

5,567 posts

72 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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w00tman said:
Morning all

I'm tired. All the bloody time. It's also my birthday tomorrow and I turn 35. Maybe the two are connected, I don't know.

I'm a touch overweight, I probably drink too much (but a heavy session is like 3 pints - more just too times in a week) and am asleep for probably 11pm max, as I get up at 6;30. Sometimes earlier, but never later.

In a desperate sense to avoid acknowledging my mortality - how the hell do I turn this around?

Maybe I just have the birthday blues. Bah.
Write out a typical week's food intake and quantities. I strongly suspect you'll have the answer to your problem right there, particularly so if most of the list are processed carbs.

mcelliott

8,662 posts

181 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Lose the gut, cut back on the drinking, if you still feel st get some blood work done.

AI1694

855 posts

94 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Ask your GP for a full blood panel.

PositronicRay

27,016 posts

183 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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AI1694 said:
Ask your GP for a full blood panel.
This, are you also urinating a lot?

Kinky

39,556 posts

269 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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PositronicRay said:
AI1694 said:
Ask your GP for a full blood panel.
This, are you also urinating a lot?
Whats the connection there? (genuinely curious).

NoVetec

9,967 posts

173 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Kinky said:
PositronicRay said:
AI1694 said:
Ask your GP for a full blood panel.
This, are you also urinating a lot?
Whats the connection there? (genuinely curious).
Anemia I believe with full blood work.

Away from that, potential diabetes with frequent urination and tiredness, although I don't think that involves a blood panel as a usual course, just a blood glucose test.


PositronicRay

27,016 posts

183 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Kinky said:
PositronicRay said:
AI1694 said:
Ask your GP for a full blood panel.
This, are you also urinating a lot?
Whats the connection there? (genuinely curious).
Tired, thirsty, frequent urination, points towards T1 diabetes.

Anyway worth seeing the doc.

xx99xx

1,920 posts

73 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Could be many things but one that is often overlooked is low testosterone.

w00tman

Original Poster:

603 posts

145 months

Sunday 19th May 2019
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Thanks for the replies all.

I don't drink enough water, for sure, so sorted that out today. Peeing like a racehorse currently (well, not literally currently but often) which is pretty unusual for me. Not concerned about Type 1 Diabetes as I don't get that thirsty.

Did a couple of hours of gardening and housework - no gym-replacement but got off my arse. Also started work on the "lose the dadbod" thing, too. Trying not to go too extreme on everything straight away which will inevitably see me getting bored and quitting.

I think it's a combo of weight, fitness and hydration. Potentially crappy sleep too, so looking to make some changes there too.

The low testosterone thing - what gives that away? not sure its likely but who knows.

xx99xx

1,920 posts

73 months

Monday 20th May 2019
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w00tman said:
The low testosterone thing - what gives that away? not sure its likely but who knows.
Google it for symptoms but it's things like tiredness, aching, brain fog, low sex drive, depression, irritability. Would need a blood test to confirm and you need to request it specifically as it is not included in a regular blood test. If you're going to get one anyway to rule out other things, no harm in asking gp to add on testosterone to the checklist

R Mutt

5,891 posts

72 months

Tuesday 21st May 2019
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Take iron, exercise, cut down on booze and coffee.

I still crash quite badly on a Friday evening if I've exercised at the end of a week at work, but I'll have an early night and be refreshed for the weekend and with moderate drinking over the weekend be OK on Monday morning.

brianmorrison

50 posts

131 months

Tuesday 21st May 2019
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I had similar. While exercise and diet are important, sleep apnoea could be an issue too.
Only reason I knew was that my ex was a nurse and noticed it. By that point of hospital, had lost weight, sleep apnoea went too.

Worth considering.

GM182

1,270 posts

225 months

Wednesday 22nd May 2019
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You're not alone OP. I don't have answers but am trying to follow some of the advice given by other posters about diet and exercise.

I think my biggest problem is poor quality sleep. Either I have a couple of drinks to help me nod off or if I don't then I lie awake thinking about stuff.

Usually ending up in the spare room with one or other child doesn't help either as they toss and turn and kick all night.

I've now set an alarm to go to bed no later than 11pm and hope that sticking to a routine (including getting up on time at the weekend) might help.

42 and about two stone overweight btw.

HustleRussell

24,700 posts

160 months

Friday 24th May 2019
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How is your sleep hygiene?

w00tman

Original Poster:

603 posts

145 months

Thursday 6th June 2019
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Quick update:

- Drinking way more water;
- Eating much more healthy, less carbs, more protein
- Started the gym (and have actually gone!);
- Taking a berroca-type thing in my newfound water bottle each day
- Trying to get better sleep (less falling asleep on the sofa).

Can't say I'm noticeably "better" but I deffo don't feel my energy has gotten worse, so I'm potentially in a transition phase before this becomes more of a routine.

CinnamonFan

980 posts

196 months

Thursday 6th June 2019
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PositronicRay said:
Tired, thirsty, frequent urination, points towards T1 diabetes.

Anyway worth seeing the doc.
If it was type 1 diabetes you would know way before you turn 35 as its an autoimmune disorder where your immune system attacks the pancreas and destroys it in early childhood meaning you cannot produce insulin.

OP is more likely to have type 2 diabetes. Agreed he should ask for the HbA1c test at his GP's even to rule it out. Also OP ask for a urine dip to rule out any infection of your urinary system.