Another lot of Alps nonsense
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Been quietly following this from the start and have loved it.
First search , even before homes and gardens ..
Just got a dreamt of 911 at age 67 and this is what I need to do,inspired me to get it done, have done similar trips on the hayabusa in earlier years but it’s fukkin tiring on a bike .
I have a vision of you being a “ Micky Flanagan “ , love it matey 👍
First search , even before homes and gardens ..
Just got a dreamt of 911 at age 67 and this is what I need to do,inspired me to get it done, have done similar trips on the hayabusa in earlier years but it’s fukkin tiring on a bike .
I have a vision of you being a “ Micky Flanagan “ , love it matey 👍
br d said:
Yeah, they really weren't friendly.
I tipped their bin out as I left.
That's not very grown up but they really were hostile.
Found an underground Irish bar now!
Up the RA!
Just catching up on the thread, this is absolutely amazing!! I tipped their bin out as I left.
That's not very grown up but they really were hostile.
Found an underground Irish bar now!
Up the RA!
Edited by br d on Thursday 7th July 22:37
OH is looking at me like ' what is so damn funny?!'
Hope you got back alright br d! And yes....that women asking you if it was your car was definitely a hooker!!
That's really hard. I've been following this thread, and though I've enjoyed it I've often sensed an underlying unhappiness, that was entirely understandable in view of what had happened. I've had the sense that you were actually suffering grief a lot more than you'd admit, and that some of the drinking was basically drowning your sorrows.
Likewise,there seemed to be a lot of bottled up anger there, which I'd think was a side-effect of the grief. I suspect that the trip hadn't given you the enjoyment you'd been hoping for - and deserved - so that you weren't all that sorry when you had to come home.
I'm not saying this out of any attempt to be an amateur psychologist, and if I'm wrong I apologise, and feel free to shoot me down in flames! But having gone through a similar process some years ago I recognised what look very much like the same symptoms I had.
If it's of any help (and if you're like I was it probably won't be) it does get better, and the old cliche about time being the best healer is actually very true. It's entirely natural to try and force the process by doing things you expect to make you happy (or at least dull the pain) but it doesn't work - hard as it is, you just have to let the mind and body heal at their own pace.
Again, I'm genuinely sorry if I've misinterpreted you, but if there's even a grain of truth in it then I hope it might help to know that others have been through that misery and despair, and that you will not only survive it but begin enjoying life again.
Likewise,there seemed to be a lot of bottled up anger there, which I'd think was a side-effect of the grief. I suspect that the trip hadn't given you the enjoyment you'd been hoping for - and deserved - so that you weren't all that sorry when you had to come home.
I'm not saying this out of any attempt to be an amateur psychologist, and if I'm wrong I apologise, and feel free to shoot me down in flames! But having gone through a similar process some years ago I recognised what look very much like the same symptoms I had.
If it's of any help (and if you're like I was it probably won't be) it does get better, and the old cliche about time being the best healer is actually very true. It's entirely natural to try and force the process by doing things you expect to make you happy (or at least dull the pain) but it doesn't work - hard as it is, you just have to let the mind and body heal at their own pace.
Again, I'm genuinely sorry if I've misinterpreted you, but if there's even a grain of truth in it then I hope it might help to know that others have been through that misery and despair, and that you will not only survive it but begin enjoying life again.
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