Question for all dads out there - car buying

Question for all dads out there - car buying

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Brownie_B

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36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Hey all...

for all those dads out there, when you heard of news of the new arrival, did you start looking to get a bigger vehicle? (ie SUV etc)

What would you advice be to soon to be new dad(s) about vehicle buying for new borns.


Currently I have a VW golf plus.


Scrump

22,201 posts

159 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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I found a car seat suitable for a newborn which fitted onto the passenger seat of my two seater soft top.

Jonny_

4,140 posts

208 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Golf Plus? Perfect family car. Absolutely no need to upgrade that, as long as it's in decent order mechanically. An SUV of similar size won't be any more practical.

SWoll

18,554 posts

259 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Brownie_B said:
Hey all...

for all those dads out there, when you heard of news of the new arrival, did you start looking to get a bigger vehicle? (ie SUV etc)

What would you advice be to soon to be new dad(s) about vehicle buying for new borns.


Currently I have a VW golf plus.
Why would you need a bigger car than you already have for 1 baby?

valiant

10,356 posts

161 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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When I had my kid, I changed to a Punto! (Sporting in broom yellow, of course).

No problems with child seats and a pram could just about fit in the boot (although this was before the trend to have super huge prams that cost as much as a car came about).

Your car was sold as a family car. You don’t need to change unless you want to (or to use it as an excuse to sell the idea to the wife in which case a Cayenne Turbo is the only logical choice wink )

Ice_blue_tvr

3,122 posts

165 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Already had a 5 series, though I had already taken into consideration a future child.. Worked well though the rear facing seat + base would touch the rear of the front seat. Plenty of space otherwise.

Would have been fine with the second kid too though we moved to an SUV.

The SUV is in the process of being replaced with a 3 series saloon, but for trips to the dump and the holiday/airport runs, the boot simply isn't big enough for luggage (fine for 95% of the rest of the time) . So we will probably migrate back to an SUV.

SWoll said:
Why would you need a bigger car than you already have for 1 baby?
I think this is what he is trying to ascertain.

InitialDave

11,977 posts

120 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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My mate bought a GR Yaris when his kid was on the way, which is clearly the better decision.

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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SWoll said:
Why would you need a bigger car than you already have for 1 baby?
I don’t, hence the question asking those who have. Its all new territory to me and who better to ask than those experienced

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Thank you to everyone who has replied … been hugely helpful.

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Jonny_ said:
Golf Plus? Perfect family car. Absolutely no need to upgrade that, as long as it's in decent order mechanically. An SUV of similar size won't be any more practical.
Yes it seems to be. Iv always kept it in good nick. Its on high miles and probs will get a timing belt change soon. Thank you for your advice. I shall keep the golf plus

Glosphil

4,382 posts

235 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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When our daughters were 0 - 6 I had MkIV & MkV Cortinas.

A Golf Plus would have been much more suitable, but unfortunately not then available for another 35+ years.

Edited by Glosphil on Saturday 20th May 15:19

Pulse00

517 posts

100 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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I have a 3 year old and a 3 month old.

I was going to buy a M6 GC, then I heard the engines are chocolate. I'm also not sure 500hp in these large family cars is going to make me happy (previously owned an Alfa 4c which has spoilt everything!)

So I'm changing tact and going to buy a S-class diesel! Won't be as fun but will be a lovely place to be, I'm sure. Hopefully plenty of rear leg room for car seats.

Pica-Pica

13,899 posts

85 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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SWoll said:
Why would you need a bigger car than you already have for 1 baby?
Exactly this.

Grumps.

6,559 posts

37 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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We had a 1989 1.3(?) 3dr Vauxhall Nova with ours are managed with it.

But of course, nowadays everyone wants to take the whole child’s bedroom with them when they go out so obviously wouldn’t fit it all in to a small car!

OMITN

2,209 posts

93 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Avoiding the sniffy response from those of us too jaded to remember the happy times before children….. (just kidding).

We owned an MX5 before our daughter was born. A two seater wasn’t going to cut it for three of us, so we bought a hatchback (Mazda 3).

This did the job just fine - buggy would go in the boot (all of the boot..!), plenty of room for the car seat in the back

As always, a hatchback is usually the best answer, so there’s no need to change OP.

That said, I would say that four doors is much easier than two (but not essential). And SUVs are easier because you’re bending down less. But actually that isn’t much of a challenge. On the whole I wouldn’t say a child arriving requires you to change your car - you only need to change if you want to (or don’t have enough seats like us..!).

Congratulations on the news and I hope all is well when the baby arrives.


ZX10R NIN

27,696 posts

126 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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Brownie_B said:
Hey all...

for all those dads out there, when you heard of news of the new arrival, did you start looking to get a bigger vehicle? (ie SUV etc)

What would you advice be to soon to be new dad(s) about vehicle buying for new borns.


Currently I have a VW golf plus.
No point listening to me for advice the closest myself & the OH got to a practical car was getting a saloon for the second child, the first had to make do with a coupe! BUT in our defence the rear seats folded wink

In reality the coupes were plenty big enough, the OH would have the all singing Recaro in the front of hers & when we went out as a family I'd have a regular child seat for him in back of mine.

raspy

1,546 posts

95 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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XC90 - a big safe SUV

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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OMITN said:
Avoiding the sniffy response from those of us too jaded to remember the happy times before children….. (just kidding).

We owned an MX5 before our daughter was born. A two seater wasn’t going to cut it for three of us, so we bought a hatchback (Mazda 3).

This did the job just fine - buggy would go in the boot (all of the boot..!), plenty of room for the car seat in the back

As always, a hatchback is usually the best answer, so there’s no need to change OP.

That said, I would say that four doors is much easier than two (but not essential). And SUVs are easier because you’re bending down less. But actually that isn’t much of a challenge. On the whole I wouldn’t say a child arriving requires you to change your car - you only need to change if you want to (or don’t have enough seats like us..!).

Congratulations on the news and I hope all is well when the baby arrives.
Thank you for your kind words. As you can probably guess from the post… abit nervous, thousands of things running through my mind. Just looking forward to the big day.

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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ZX10R NIN said:
No point listening to me for advice the closest myself & the OH got to a practical car was getting a saloon for the second child, the first had to make do with a coupe! BUT in our defence the rear seats folded wink

In reality the coupes were plenty big enough, the OH would have the all singing Recaro in the front of hers & when we went out as a family I'd have a regular child seat for him in back of mine.
Note to self … coupes are the way to go 🤣… thank you for the reply

Brownie_B

Original Poster:

36 posts

36 months

Saturday 20th May 2023
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raspy said:
XC90 - a big safe SUV
Fully agree… sadly with the budget i had in mind ( also must be manual) the xc90s were thin on the ground and majority not in the best of shape either.