Upper Body strength issue

Upper Body strength issue

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Stiglet80

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4,764 posts

188 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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I have just started Krav Maga and it has become very apparent that I have absolutely no upper body strength at all. (would have thought lifting large glasses of wine for years would have done the trick!)

So I really want to work on building my upper body strength, problem is I am female and have no desire to look like some ladette toy boy rough type (I am doing Krav for self-defence techniques as it became apparently recently I have none of that either) and when I Google exercises they all talk about building mass, is it possible to build arm strength without building mass and looking muscly? and if so how?

VinceFox

20,566 posts

173 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80

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188 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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VinceFox said:
Am pretty sure eating pop corn builds mass

Have I missed something?

The Major

2,947 posts

173 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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I did this a while ago, I put on a very small amount of muscle but strength went up quite a bit, all i did was do loads an loads of reps with a managable weight, and when that weight gets too light move up on the weight and add a little more, do loads more reps then a few days later after doing it every day (or every other, gotta rest) then move up weight.

VinceFox

20,566 posts

173 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
VinceFox said:
Am pretty sure eating pop corn builds mass

Have I missed something?
No, you should definitely eat more popcorn.

IanCormac

1,894 posts

194 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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It's hard to put on serious mass and especially hard for women. Train hard. There is no chance you will end up 'too muscly' which is something that women that don't really know much about the way their body works worry about, so they lift pathetically small weights and don't train hard enough, just in case they suddenly develop a pair of arms like Arnie in his heyday. This is totally unrealistic, bodybuilders don't just train with weights and somehow end up massive and muscly, they train incredibly hard with weights all the time, forcefeed themselves and some take steroids. Gaining strength and muscle takes a lot of effort.
My bird lifts as hard as she can in the gym, but is still petite and looks like a woman, she just has a bit more strength than the average woman of her size. You wouldn't know she lifts weights to look at her though.

didelydoo

5,528 posts

211 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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I'd say get a kettlebell.

M400 NBL

3,529 posts

213 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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IanCormac said:
It's hard to put on serious mass and especially hard for women. Train hard. There is no chance you will end up 'too muscly' which is something that women that don't really know much about the way their body works worry about, so they lift pathetically small weights and don't train hard enough, just in case they suddenly develop a pair of arms like Arnie in his heyday. This is totally unrealistic, bodybuilders don't just train with weights and somehow end up massive and muscly, they train incredibly hard with weights all the time, forcefeed themselves and some take steroids. Gaining strength and muscle takes a lot of effort.
My bird lifts as hard as she can in the gym, but is still petite and looks like a woman, she just has a bit more strength than the average woman of her size. You wouldn't know she lifts weights to look at her though.
All true. I like the "My bird" bit hehe

Stiglet80

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4,764 posts

188 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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IanCormac said:
It's hard to put on serious mass and especially hard for women. Train hard. There is no chance you will end up 'too muscly' which is something that women that don't really know much about the way their body works worry about, so they lift pathetically small weights and don't train hard enough, just in case they suddenly develop a pair of arms like Arnie in his heyday. This is totally unrealistic, bodybuilders don't just train with weights and somehow end up massive and muscly, they train incredibly hard with weights all the time, forcefeed themselves and some take steroids. Gaining strength and muscle takes a lot of effort.
My bird lifts as hard as she can in the gym, but is still petite and looks like a woman, she just has a bit more strength than the average woman of her size. You wouldn't know she lifts weights to look at her though.
Ah ok, so I can't get muscly by accident then. I suppose that makes sense really.

Yeah same place I go to for Krav has kettle bells, think I will give that a shot.

Animal

5,252 posts

269 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
Ah ok, so I can't get muscly by accident then. I suppose that makes sense really.

Yeah same place I go to for Krav has kettle bells, think I will give that a shot.
Ask your KM teacher - they should be able to recommend a couple of strength and conditioning workouts for you. I'd definitely recommend kettlebells though - and don't be afraid to go heavy!!

IanCormac

1,894 posts

194 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Yeah I can't help the 'my bird' stuff, I didn't even realise I'd written it, but she won't mind being referred to as such! Anyway OP kettlebells are good, you can achieve good results with bodyweight exercises though first, squats, dips, pressups and pullups to start with. They don't need much equipment and will make you strong.
If you can't do full pressups, do them on your knees and work up to proper ones. When you can do those, start putting your feet up on a box. They're a lot tougher and are a good exercise. Same with pullups, you might need to work up to them, but you can start with lat pulldowns at the gym and work your way up til you can do full pullups. Dips you can do on a bench or chair with your feet on the floor, after a while put your feet on a bench and work up to doing them on dip bars with your full bodyweight. Bodyweight squats don't sound much, but if you squat properly by keeping your backside in and your back straight as you go down and concentrating on using your buttocks to lift you, they are a lot tougher. Once you can do them properly, you can start doing them with a kettlebell, or even start doing one legged squats, but keep an eye on your form in a mirror or get someone to do watch you to make sure you don't start doing it wrong.
Once you can do proper unassisted pullups, pressups, dips and proper squats (without pushing your backside out) then you will have a lot more functional strength.
Good luck!

Hoofy

76,408 posts

283 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
Ah ok, so I can't get muscly by accident then.
If it were that easy, everyone participating in the Transformation Thread would look like Arnie. For a start, women don't have testes which is the main source of testosterone hence you will find photos online of very feminine women lifting ridiculous weights I couldn't get off the ground. And then to get any sort of size, you need a serious amount of dedication as someone has suggested above.

Besides, if you did start growing to the limits of where you think it looks nice, you're not legally bound to continue lifting until you look like a prize-winning bodybuilder. biggrin

Stiglet80

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188 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Animal said:
Ask your KM teacher - they should be able to recommend a couple of strength and conditioning workouts for you. I'd definitely recommend kettlebells though - and don't be afraid to go heavy!!
I was trying not to ask my teacher potentially retarded questions hehe I already feel like a delusional fairy amongst a group of SAS assassins. hehe PH already knows I am retarded. tongue out

@ian Thanks for the advice, squats and sit ups I can do a zillion but am pretty sure I would fail to do one single push up or pull up or dip. frown

Hoofy said:
Besides, if you did start growing to the limits of where you think it looks nice, you're not legally bound to continue lifting until you look like a prize-winning bodybuilder. biggrin
I don't want anything to grow eek Rule for females is everything MUST get smaller. Except boobs.



Hoofy

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283 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
I don't want anything to grow eek Rule for females is everything MUST get smaller. Except boobs.
hehe

Press ups will grow the pectorals. Pecs sit under breast tissue. You will look like you've got bigger breasts.

Stiglet80

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4,764 posts

188 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Hoofy said:
hehe

Press ups will grow the pectorals. Pecs sit under breast tissue. You will look like you've got bigger breasts.
thumbup That is just the kind of incentive I need.

Hoofy

76,408 posts

283 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
Hoofy said:
hehe

Press ups will grow the pectorals. Pecs sit under breast tissue. You will look like you've got bigger breasts.
thumbup That is just the kind of incentive I need.
TTIUWP...

SirBlade

544 posts

193 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Stiglet80 said:
I have just started Krav Maga and it has become very apparent that I have absolutely no upper body strength at all. (would have thought lifting large glasses of wine for years would have done the trick!)

So I really want to work on building my upper body strength, problem is I am female and have no desire to look like some ladette toy boy rough type (I am doing Krav for self-defence techniques as it became apparently recently I have none of that either) and when I Google exercises they all talk about building mass, is it possible to build arm strength without building mass and looking muscly? and if so how?
Any short-comings in upper body strength will be highlighted pretty quickly when doing KM.

I took up Calisthenics while training.

There is a very useful book called Convict Conditioning which is pretty much Cala. in a can.

http://www.amazon.co.uk/Convict-Conditioning-Weakn...

Edited by SirBlade on Tuesday 3rd July 19:16

SirBlade

544 posts

193 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Squats and sit ups I can do a zillion but am pretty sure I would fail to do one single push up or pull up or dip

To get started on push ups, stand in front of a door and build up to 30 vertical push ups.
The kneel at a chair and build up to 30 push ups at a 45 degree angle.
Then get on the floor and slowly build up to 30 push ups.

They seem hard, but there is a trick to getting into them.
My trainer (Patrick Cumisky; the only trained guy in the country) in Dublin had us doing 100 as a warm up.
http://www.kravmagaireland.com/

Edited by SirBlade on Tuesday 3rd July 19:18

SirBlade

544 posts

193 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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Squats and sit ups I can do a zillion but am pretty sure I would fail to do one single push up or pull up or dip

To get started on push ups, stand in front of a door and build up to 30 vertical push ups.
Then kneel at a chair and build up to 30 push ups at a 45 degree angle.
Then get on the floor and slowly build up to 30 push ups.

They seem hard, but that is the trick to getting into them, vertical to horizontal incrementally.
My trainer (Patrick Cumisky; the only trained guy in the country) in Dublin had us doing 100 as a warm up.
http://www.kravmagaireland.com/


Edited by SirBlade on Tuesday 3rd July 19:19

LordGrover

33,549 posts

213 months

Tuesday 3rd July 2012
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You just want to get to the same level as the rest of we PHers, for example this chap: click.
Any more is just showing off.