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C. Grimsley

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1,364 posts

196 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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As some of you know I had a ford mondeo up for sale, well today I sold the car and went to meet the new owner in town, on the way there I was driving down a busy road and a couple of lads on the pavement threw a hand full of stones at me as I was passing, no real damage was done but I was annoyed so went back to confront them, they all ran off, I gave chase and grabbed the lad, he wasn't very talkative and was not going to tell me where he lived, I decided to put him in the back of the car and take him to the police, I did so and left my name and address etc.

Now at home I feel I may have let myself into some possible issues if the young lad decides to tell lies.

Did I do the right thing, what would you have done?

Carl

TankRizzo

7,280 posts

194 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I think you did the right thing - however we've seen too many incidents like this end up swinging the other way and the "detainer" getting done for some offence against the "detainee".

Best of luck, hopefully the right course of action will be taken.

Shaw Tarse

31,543 posts

204 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Hopefully you will be ok, but if the child says you kidnapped him & molested him..
(posted wearing my best tinfoil hat)

The Vambo

6,664 posts

142 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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VinceFox

20,566 posts

173 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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s3fella

10,524 posts

188 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Are you serious? How old was this kid?
I fear you're in a st load of trouble, chap. What on earth were you thinking.

Did you citizens arrest him?

C. Grimsley

Original Poster:

1,364 posts

196 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I basically just grabbed him, took him about 800 metres down the round and gave him to the police, they seems ok with it all but I just had a small doubt in the back of my mind it could turn nasty if the lad decided to lie.

This all happened at 4pm, no news as yet I am sure the police would have been straight onto his parents and if there was an issue I would have heard by now?

Just makes you think, what should I have done, ignored the fact?

Carl

Leins

9,479 posts

149 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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You probably scared the bejesus out of him. Probably would have left it at that myself, but a telling off by the cops will do him no harm either. Can't imagine it'll go any further either way, the same as his stone throwing hopefully

itz_baseline

821 posts

222 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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You did everything I would. You'll be fine, chances are hit parents will give him st for it and nothing will come of it...

The Vambo

6,664 posts

142 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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s3fella said:
Are you serious? How old was this kid?
I fear you're in a st load of trouble, chap. What on earth were you thinking.

Did you citizens arrest him?
Relax, he's not going to jail. Might get a nod and wink warning.

kamilb1998

2,220 posts

178 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I reckon you did the right thing there.

Pints

18,444 posts

195 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I commend your actions. I've done similar in my time and don't regret it.
In my day, we'd have been lucky to have got away without a bloody good hiding then and there from the driver of the car (I kid you not!)

31mph

1,308 posts

136 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Blimey, that took balls! - you probably frightened the ste out of him

Most people would just keep going, muttering "the youth of today"

I'm not wearing a hat, but if I were, I'd take it off to you... smile

croyde

22,976 posts

231 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I salute you sir and I just hope that all involved see commonsense. Shame we can't all (or are afraid) to act like that and maybe our streets would be a nicer place.

I was working in a street years ago trying to do a TV piece for a Spanish journo when two maybe 12 year olds kept tinkering and making off with my camera gear. One of them kept taunting me and telling me that " 'e 'ad 'is rights and there's nuffink you can do 'bout it". He even kept pulling his trousers down and sticking his arse in my direction.

The Spanish guys kept looking at me and asking why I didn't do something about it.

Finally with murder in my eyes I picked up a pan bar and was about to shove it where the sun don't shine when the little tikes's mate realised that things had changed and rapidly pulled him away.

Fingers crossed for you pal.

P Nuts

1,209 posts

140 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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putting him in your car probably shook him up enough, how old was he?

deltashad

6,731 posts

198 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Well done, but right now I'd be thinking of all the bad things the little bds parents will be thinking of to drop you in the st.

stealthgrow

202 posts

186 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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I think forcing a kid off the street into the back of your car crosses the line IMO. If i heard some random guy did that to one of my kids i would be extremely pissed. Not that my kids would do anything as stupid as throw stones at passing cars but that's not the point IMO. Im sure your intentions were good OP and based on that i fully understand why you did what you did but its not something i would do. I would be concerned what his parents make of this when he tells them a man put him in the back of his car and took him to the police station. If hes the type of kid to be throwing stones at random car's who knows what the parents will be like. they may try and claim kidnap or abduction.

Edited by stealthgrow on Friday 29th March 21:47

johnthesifu

112 posts

185 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Abduction is what just happened, I can see where your coming from though - I would be really angry if I was in the same position. Lets just hope the kiddy doesn't tell lies or you can get in really really serious trouble.

P Nuts

1,209 posts

140 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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Also why did you leave your name/address etc, why didnt you just leave him at the station? i do see both sides of the arguement though, but i would have thought they would've contacted you by now if it was going to go further. Would you do the same if it happened again though OP?

C. Grimsley

Original Poster:

1,364 posts

196 months

Friday 29th March 2013
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P Nuts said:
Also why did you leave your name/address etc, why didnt you just leave him at the station? i do see both sides of the arguement though, but i would have thought they would've contacted you by now if it was going to go further. Would you do the same if it happened again though OP?
No I don't think I would do the same now as a few people have mentioned a few horror stories which really makes you think.

I suppose its the society we live in these days, you just have to deal with idiots these days, certainly not worth getting into hot water about.

Carl