Wedding Band Thoughts

Wedding Band Thoughts

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WhisperingWasp

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Guys, not a watch topic but I know we do tolerate the odd jewellery question around these parts smile

So I need to get a wedding band. I wear stainless steel watches only (have my grandad's gold Rotary but very rarely wear it). As such, I am looking for a ring that matches ss; silver, platinum, etc.

I do also have my grandad's rose gold wedding ring which in an ideal world I'd love to have sized for me due to the sentimental value but it is just not "me".

As someone who would otherwise not wear any jewellery I don't think I would necessarily appreciate having the best of the best (platinum?) on my finger. I am leaning towards a silver ring to keep things a bit more modest.

Does silver make for a suitable wedding band material? I know it tarnishes but it can also be cleaned... What would you do in my position?

Cheers,
Dan

WhisperingWasp

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I considered titanium but doesn't it have a bit of a greyer tone?

White gold I would consider. I understand it has to be re-plated periodically?

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911sse said:
Platinum
I do like the idea of platinum as hers are platinum and it will be a nice match as such. Just don't know if I'll "appreciate" having platinum over silver if you know what I mean.

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richthebike said:
Platinum.
Is that what you went for I presume?

(You got married last year didn’t you and I know most of your watches are ss)

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Boringvolvodriver said:
Muzzer79 said:
I didn’t care for platinum, so have palladium. No complaints.
Exactly what I was going to say.

First time round had gold but this time went for the more robust palladium and to kind of match the wife’s platinum ring
My best mates both have palladium (I think) but apparently it is currently quite a bit more expensive than platinum so can't see me going down this route. Nice material though.

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r159 said:
Platinum D shape for me and have a titanium one for knocking about.

Was a his and her’s thing.

But depending on size and budget…it’s up to you, but do try different shapes and sizes regardless of material chosen.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 20:47
I think I'm settled on a 4mm "court" shape I think it is called. quite a traditional, rounded shape. Not as keen on the slab-sided/sharp cut ones personally.

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Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?

Cheers.

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richthebike said:
WhisperingWasp said:
richthebike said:
Platinum.
Is that what you went for I presume?

(You got married last year didn’t you and I know most of your watches are ss)
Yes, went platinum.
In 10 months mine is totally battered and wears the damage really nicely.
Goes well with steel.
Polished/mirror finish? I think I like this over a brushed/satin finish. Not 100% though.

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Red9zero said:
WhisperingWasp said:
Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?

Cheers.
We got ours from https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/frontp...
They were about £200 each iirc
I've been browsing that site for the last 10 minutes!

Quite like this https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/matt-s...

Or this in 4mm https://www.flinnandsteel.co.uk/collections/polish...

Did you go polished or brushed?

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r159 said:
WhisperingWasp said:
r159 said:
Platinum D shape for me and have a titanium one for knocking about.

Was a his and her’s thing.

But depending on size and budget…it’s up to you, but do try different shapes and sizes regardless of material chosen.

Edited by r159 on Sunday 15th May 20:47
I think I'm settled on a 4mm "court" shape I think it is called. quite a traditional, rounded shape. Not as keen on the slab-sided/sharp cut ones personally.
I’ve been informed mine is a court 5mm, having just priced one up a st load less expensive now than when we bought it 15 years ago…
5mm court seems to be a nice style I think. I will go 4 or 5mm for sure. Just the material I need to choose. Platinum seems to be the favourite but I do like the SS ones. Although not sure they could ever be re-sized?!

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Grandad’s rose gold against my steel watch for reference. It doesn’t look ridiculous I don’t think but just can’t see myself wearing gold. Think that is my issue more than the clash with a watch.

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markiii said:
WhisperingWasp said:
Grandad’s rose gold against my steel watch for reference. It doesn’t look ridiculous I don’t think but just can’t see myself wearing gold. Think that is my issue more than the clash with a watch.
Get it platinum plated? then it has sentimental value but still works colour wise?
Didn't know that was a thing. Interesting...

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raceboy said:
WhisperingWasp said:
Red9zero said:
We got Sheffield stainless steel rings when we replaced our wedding rings last year.
I actually quite like the idea of a stainless steel one due to my interest in watches. However, the ones I've seen were so cheap (like a fiver or so!) that they didn't seem to fit the bill as a token of the marriage as such. Would you mind sharing a bit more about what you went for?
Cheers.
Was about to suggest Stainless Steel, and would too be interested in a link, although I imagine it's not hard to google wink
I need to source one before the 'not that big a day' next year, I have absolutely zero plans on wearing a ring beyond the end of the honeymoon, so it's just purely a token gesture, I've been half tempted with a Carbon Fibre one. scratchchin
Yeah I googled "Sheffield steel wedding bands" (or something) when Red9 suggested it. The Flinn and Steel place he did indeed use came up as the obvious choice. Lots of nice stuff on there.

Think my options are:
1) Buy a platinum band and stop fannying about
2) Buy a silver band (not much love for this)
3) Go with a stainless steel one as above
4) Get my grandad's band plated

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r159 said:
5) Get a Rose/steel GMT to match ring....
Ha! If only I could pull one off!