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Right without the appropriate but un needed "MTFU" i need some advice!
Following a heated row lasting through the night my girlfriend has stormed off with my 2 month old daughter, i know she wont be coming back! The trouble is things have been rough ever since the baby came along, stress leves getting high etc, the only trouble is i cant help but sit here and feel angry, guilty, whatever else i dont really know, anyone got any ideas to help me get through this? And to anyone that says wait for her to come back im 100% shes gone!
Cheers in advance guys and gals
Steve
Following a heated row lasting through the night my girlfriend has stormed off with my 2 month old daughter, i know she wont be coming back! The trouble is things have been rough ever since the baby came along, stress leves getting high etc, the only trouble is i cant help but sit here and feel angry, guilty, whatever else i dont really know, anyone got any ideas to help me get through this? And to anyone that says wait for her to come back im 100% shes gone!
Cheers in advance guys and gals
Steve
I wish it was that simple, we left the baby with my mum and went away for a week, there was constant arguing, my mum has been in contact with her since she left and ive just read the conversation(mothers permission!) some of the things shes said are unreal and pathetic, i dont actually think for the best with her temper its wise for us to be in the same room! Anyhow shes taken my car so at some stage i need to get that back but its stupid niggly things and to be honest its done my head in, thanks for the support! It means a lot, i guess the tension is still high and no one has slept, shes been weird for a while, checking my phone etc
Both 19, i know that might sound young but if after two years she was still here and things were fine i thought i was in for the long haul, it was rough, i firmly believe she is a psycho now! It started off as a bit of messing and then she just snapped, shouting at me that i should in not so many words go for a walk, anyway shes at her mothers, after tonight im worried for her mental health and i mean that seriously but for my two month old daughter
Just woken up! To clarify heres how it went, woke up to feed little madam her bottle, as I always do! She turned over as i was sat on the side of the bed, i put said little madam back in her cot, turn round and ask if she wants a drink, she says only if you put some cyanide in yours, i laughed and she totally flipped, i dont quite know why her dad turned like that, but to be honest her mum was the same, i dont know why she kept going through my phone but seeing as shes been out all day and not even bothered to ring or text my mum to see how her own daughter is i dont think shes that bothered, shes said its the end and ive said ill give her space, im not too sure how i feel though part of me wants to chuck flowers and chocs her way and beg her to come back, part of me is hoping i never see her again!
I definately see this being the end for us now, her best friend just rang me and said she had just left (been there all day) slagging me off, i can now see why her dad acted the way he did, before she got pregnant she slipped getting out of the bath(no really) and bruised her side, apparently i did that to her when i was on crutches, now i was brought up around domestic violence which she knows, to think shes been accusing me of that is unreal, shes text my mum within the last half hour saying she wants her stuff, apparently her and her mother and father are coming round for a chat tomorrow, see how that goes and hopefully will be closure either way!
Well theyve just been round and things went badly but i stayed calm and said my piece calmly, it seems she told her father i hit her, my stepdad had to step in as he went to hit me when they turned up, ive still got my daughter here and it didnt bother her in the slightest, she never spoke a single word to me but went upstairs and when i tried to follow to talk to her on her own her mother stepped in the way, im really annoyed that she didnt bat an eyelid that im keeping the baby here, the week away was her idea and that seemed a little strange, anyhow thanks again for the support guys and gals it means a lot!
I havent got it in me to hit a woman, she told her friend that i had beaten her (bruise was all up her side) now bearing in mind even at the time i was on crutches with all the ligaments ripped in my leg her story is a bit feeble, as soon as her fathers eyes set on me he went mental, ive had threats from her other friends who dont know and curiously enough a boy threatening me!
That is amazing advice and im so grateful for it, i called the health visitor and had a chat with her, she said because of living with my parents and visiting the house shes happy that amy stays with me until things are sorted, she also said shes going to go and see the gf tomorrow at her house and try and find out whats been going on, i also said about her accusing me of hitting her to which she said "judging your character from my visits that sounds like total rubbish"
I bought both cars for me but with my daughter in mind, shes not losing out on anything and neither are projects!
Its a mercedes S320 cdi and a land rover freelander, both cars that will be receiving a car seat! I wouldnt put a car first, i made my bed now i lay in it!
Thanks again guys for the great advice
Its a mercedes S320 cdi and a land rover freelander, both cars that will be receiving a car seat! I wouldnt put a car first, i made my bed now i lay in it!
Thanks again guys for the great advice
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