Your worst relationship break up
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There were a couple of examples in the recent 'Reasons you broke off your relationship' thread, but I thought it was worth its own thread because it's a different topic and I'm sure there must be some corkers.
I dated a girl in sales, extremely successful, lovely girl, but a bit needy at times, a bit full on and to be honest, I just wasn't feeling it. One of those great in theory ones.
I knew it was going to be hard, but I gritted my teeth, and when I went to her house for the weekend (she lived about an hour away) I sat her down and said 'I'm really sorry', etc and broke it off.
I left immediately, got in my car and drove away thinking 'it can't have been that easy...' In fact I stopped on the motorway at a services for 20 mins as I had visions of her chasing me down the road, and I seriously considered staying with a friend as I knew she'd be waiting for me when I got home. But she wasn't, so I went to bed (was getting late) and went to sleep.
6am the following morning I'm awoken by a hammering on the door. Yup, it couldn't have been that easy...
I let her in and told her I was going to get a shower, mostly to give me chance to wake up and get my act together. I got dressed and went downstairs.
What followed was one of the worst mornings of my life. She refused to leave, she harangued me constantly, she went on and on and on and on. I seriously considered leaving myself! But didn't want to leave her alone in my house.
Ironically, all I kept thinking was 'bloody glad I'm out of this, all she's doing is proving I made the right decision!'
I stuck to my guns and after what must have been over four hours, she eventually agreed to leave but ONLY on the condition that I agreed to meet her one week later. I agreed because she genuinely would not have left otherwise. Needless to say, I didn't meet her a week later...
Anyway, probably fairly mild compared to many, but it didn't feel it at the time.
Also had a coupe of 'I'm pregnant' lies after break ups, but I think that's pretty standard. (Has reminded me of a mate who's ex left a bottle of what was supposedly her urine on his doorstep for him to test to 'prove' she was pregnant even thought she wasn't - presumably had a pregnant, and obliging, friend)
I'm sure others have much better ones.
I dated a girl in sales, extremely successful, lovely girl, but a bit needy at times, a bit full on and to be honest, I just wasn't feeling it. One of those great in theory ones.
I knew it was going to be hard, but I gritted my teeth, and when I went to her house for the weekend (she lived about an hour away) I sat her down and said 'I'm really sorry', etc and broke it off.
I left immediately, got in my car and drove away thinking 'it can't have been that easy...' In fact I stopped on the motorway at a services for 20 mins as I had visions of her chasing me down the road, and I seriously considered staying with a friend as I knew she'd be waiting for me when I got home. But she wasn't, so I went to bed (was getting late) and went to sleep.
6am the following morning I'm awoken by a hammering on the door. Yup, it couldn't have been that easy...
I let her in and told her I was going to get a shower, mostly to give me chance to wake up and get my act together. I got dressed and went downstairs.
What followed was one of the worst mornings of my life. She refused to leave, she harangued me constantly, she went on and on and on and on. I seriously considered leaving myself! But didn't want to leave her alone in my house.
Ironically, all I kept thinking was 'bloody glad I'm out of this, all she's doing is proving I made the right decision!'
I stuck to my guns and after what must have been over four hours, she eventually agreed to leave but ONLY on the condition that I agreed to meet her one week later. I agreed because she genuinely would not have left otherwise. Needless to say, I didn't meet her a week later...
Anyway, probably fairly mild compared to many, but it didn't feel it at the time.
Also had a coupe of 'I'm pregnant' lies after break ups, but I think that's pretty standard. (Has reminded me of a mate who's ex left a bottle of what was supposedly her urine on his doorstep for him to test to 'prove' she was pregnant even thought she wasn't - presumably had a pregnant, and obliging, friend)
I'm sure others have much better ones.
Vandenberg said:
Robbo 27 said:
Came home to a note, everything was gone, including my dog.
Wept for weeks.
1. Can understand that, Mine took my dog down to the vets, told them that it had bitten a child and she wanted it PTS. Wept for weeks.
2. She put a contract out on me to get a good shoeing by an outlaw biker gang.
3. Decided that the tactics she used on me would be just as good on the judge.
Results:
1. Worked a treat, caused me immense pain.
2. After being given 5 mins to justify myself before said shoeing would start, I explained my side resulting in the best weekend of my life.
3. Did not work a treat, Judge tore her numerous new holes, and ordered the sale of the house with full legal costs to me.
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