Religion/beliefs

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T1547

1,111 posts

136 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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tamore said:
T1547 said:
I’ve long thought I’d really like to be part of a ‘club/church’ that meets every Sunday morning in a beautiful building, sing some nice songs, have some tea/cake, maybe a drop of red wine, meet local people from the community, listen to a philosophical/moral sermon, time for reflection etc but critically, with no sky fairy involved.

There’s a lot to like about religion but I can’t buy into the ‘god’ figure and on the odd occasion I attend church I feel like a phoney.

There must be a gap in the market for this sort of thing!
that's called 'a pub' wink
biggrin I will be a good and regular member of the congregation.

Seriously though, I’d like the moral teachings/discussion of a church, but without the baggage of having to believe in something. The stand up sit down kneel palaver can be left out too..

Vasco

16,546 posts

107 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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You can believe whatever you want to believe, it's largely irrelevant as any faith/religion is nonsense anyway. By all means believe in whatever you wish, join up with others who hold the same beliefs, but never assume that your views are somehow better than others.
In short, it's all a bit of a waste of time and effort - but that's down to you.

Jack.77

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435 posts

46 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Stuart70 said:
I think we are in wholehearted agreement in substance regarding religion, I am more willing to judge adversely as a consequence.
That makes you the better person.

I have no fear of death at all. The two elements that bother me are the pain of dying and the impact my passing would have on my family; they are practical things not existential angst.
That’s fair enough.But what about after the passing, is that really the end of ends of everything we knew about consciously being alive .surely there is more as I have sensed it although can’t channel it to mainstream religion

Silvanus

5,512 posts

25 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Jack.77 said:
Stuart70 said:
I think we are in wholehearted agreement in substance regarding religion, I am more willing to judge adversely as a consequence.
That makes you the better person.

I have no fear of death at all. The two elements that bother me are the pain of dying and the impact my passing would have on my family; they are practical things not existential angst.
That’s fair enough.But what about after the passing, is that really the end of ends of everything we knew about consciously being alive .surely there is more as I have sensed it although can’t channel it to mainstream religion
I'm pretty sure once you're gone you're gone. Do dogs and monkeys or even fish go to the afterlife, what about trees or fungi? Is their a hierarchy, us before neanderthal or are all the long dead trillions of spirits all having a big knees up looking down. Do bad believers go to heaven but good non believers not? Did a god create the heavens and the earth, or the rest of the universe. A bit tongue in cheek I know but it's all a bit far fetched. We are born of the earth and it's where we will end up, part of the continuous carbon cycle.

119

7,186 posts

38 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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People can believe in whatever they like as long as it isn’t forced down my throat.


Skeptisk

7,714 posts

111 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Silvanus said:
Jack.77 said:
Stuart70 said:
I think we are in wholehearted agreement in substance regarding religion, I am more willing to judge adversely as a consequence.
That makes you the better person.

I have no fear of death at all. The two elements that bother me are the pain of dying and the impact my passing would have on my family; they are practical things not existential angst.
That’s fair enough.But what about after the passing, is that really the end of ends of everything we knew about consciously being alive .surely there is more as I have sensed it although can’t channel it to mainstream religion
I'm pretty sure once you're gone you're gone. Do dogs and monkeys or even fish go to the afterlife, what about trees or fungi? Is their a hierarchy, us before neanderthal or are all the long dead trillions of spirits all having a big knees up looking down. Do bad believers go to heaven but good non believers not? Did a god create the heavens and the earth, or the rest of the universe. A bit tongue in cheek I know but it's all a bit far fetched. We are born of the earth and it's where we will end up, part of the continuous carbon cycle.
If you try to take religion seriously you end up with endless questions that can’t be answered eg if we have souls then how and when did they appear? There is an unbroken ancestral history for everyone of us that goes back to the last common ancestor that lived 3 billion or more years ago. Did that ancestor have a soul? If yes then what does it even mean for a non sentient single cell organism to have a soul? Even then if single cells have souls then what happened when multicellular organisms evolved around 750 million years ago? How did it switch from a soul per cell to just one soul?

If only multicellular entities have souls when and why did they appear? It isn’t something that can be explained by evolution.

If souls survive death then they can’t be made of ordinary matter yet they must interact with ordinary matter (to be connected to your body). How does that work? Why haven’t we been able to measure that interaction? I mean we (as a species) have identified and indirectly measured the particles that make up the standard model even those that can’t exist individually (quarks), we have managed to measure gravity waves, etc. Why has there never been any proof of souls?

Your conscious experience is linked indelibly to your body and relies on parts of your brain working together. We can easily switch it off with drugs. How could that consciousness carry on without a body to generate it? If it doesn’t need a body then why do you need a body to generate it when you are alive?

How does the soul have access to your memories when again you need a functioning brain to access them whilst you are alive?

I could probably carry on all morning generating contradictions and questions that show that the concept of the soul (and therefore afterlife) is nonsense.

Believers seem able to ignore such contradictions and believe anyway.

Slowboathome

3,719 posts

46 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,

Bill

53,170 posts

257 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Jack.77 said:
That’s fair enough.But what about after the passing, is that really the end of ends of everything we knew about consciously being alive .surely there is more as I have sensed it although can’t channel it to mainstream religion
Sensed it, or wished for it??

Skeptisk

7,714 posts

111 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?

Silvanus

5,512 posts

25 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?
made up evidence

Baldchap

7,813 posts

94 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Religion has slowed and even destroyed education and scientific research at times and appears to be doing so again in many parts of the world across multiple religions.

It's therefore something I can't get on with.

If the biggest threat to your little club is educated people and scientific research, you clearly know that you're preaching rubbish.

Caddyshack

11,052 posts

208 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Jack.77 said:
Caddyshack said:
You might as well allow yourself a free choice and make up whatever you want to believe as that is pretty much what all religions are.

People tend to have their religion and believe it but look at other religions and not believe a word of it…it’s odd how we find other religions laughable and unbelievable.

I used to be believe until I really thought about it.
There is some truth in that but I am respectful though of others beliefs
I kind of feel that people might be interested or benefit from if I was to set up a new age religion / belief sessions .it would either be seen locally as controversial or uplifting and what some people want
It is important to respect others, I think religions are respected too much though and not challenged which is why we have people blowing themselves up under a firm belief they will be met by virgins in paradise. Do we afford the same level of respect for people who believe the world is flat?

Too many people killed in wars around the world in the name of religion.

TwigtheWonderkid

43,809 posts

152 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Caddyshack said:
It is important to respect others,
No, it's important to tolerate others. If my next door neighbour is convinced there are fairies at the bottom of his garden, I shouldn't be punching him in the face for his beliefs, or making his life unpleasant because of his beliefs. But I am under no obligation to respect him. I'm entitled to think he's crackers, and to politely keep my distance.

Slowboathome

3,719 posts

46 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?
One example: C S Lewis based his Christian faith on the story of Jesus - claimed he was The Son Of God, died and disappeared.

ntiz

2,363 posts

138 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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I'm not particularly religious but I don't see any harm in it if used for comfort or a guide to trying to be a good person.

One of my closest friends is deeply religious, he was in the army before I knew him did several tours to either Iraq or Afghanistan not entirely sure. Then joined the police ending up in armed side of the Met. He very rarely talks about the things he has seen or done. But he has opened up once or twice after a few drinks it was quite eye opening. Kind of things that I imagine change you or make you question life.

I think he needs his religion to help him deal with those experiences and his decisions. He openly jokes about being part of the "god squad" so he's pretty self aware that its has own choice and no one else has to join him. That's a healthy level of faith in mind.

Skeptisk

7,714 posts

111 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Slowboathome said:
Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?
One example: C S Lewis based his Christian faith on the story of Jesus - claimed he was The Son Of God, died and disappeared.
That isn’t evidence. That is hearsay/anecdote.

Silvanus

5,512 posts

25 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?
One example: C S Lewis based his Christian faith on the story of Jesus - claimed he was The Son Of God, died and disappeared.
That isn’t evidence. That is hearsay/anecdote.
There is zero proof anywhere of the existence of any gods. Lack of evidence to prove that god's don't exist doesn't mean they do. I know a couple of intelligent people that believe in god's (different ones), both have said to me I can't prove they don't exist, it's mad


The Rotrex Kid

30,653 posts

162 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Jack.77 said:
That’s fair enough.But what about after the passing, is that really the end
Yes

Jack.77 said:
surely there is more as I have sensed it
No.

The absolute audacity of humans to think that we are so damn important that there is some kind of fantastic afterlife where we get to carry on after our mortal engines give up is hilarious/baffling/bonkers. The flying spaghetti monster has just as much real world relevance and evidence.

You're born, you live, you die, your body rots/gets burnt. The world keeps on spinning and you become a tiny footnote at the bottom of a page. That's it. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Have a great day everyone. Each one you get is a bonus smile

Skeptisk

7,714 posts

111 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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Silvanus said:
Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Skeptisk said:
Slowboathome said:
Seems to me there are two ways of acquiring faith if you don't have a religious background:

1. You look at the evidence and conclude that the probability is that there is some kind of spiritual element at work in the universe. Or, taking it to extremes, you look at the evidence and conclude that holy book 'x' is the word of god with precise instructions on how to live your life. This is the 'rational' approach.

2. You put yourself in a position to have 'spiritual' experiences - meditation, being in nature etc. This is the 'felt sense' approach,
With respect to 1) what evidence are you referring to?
One example: C S Lewis based his Christian faith on the story of Jesus - claimed he was The Son Of God, died and disappeared.
That isn’t evidence. That is hearsay/anecdote.
There is zero proof anywhere of the existence of any gods. Lack of evidence to prove that god's don't exist doesn't mean they do. I know a couple of intelligent people that believe in god's (different ones), both have said to me I can't prove they don't exist, it's mad
The word god is pretty much meaningless as it means something different to each person. If you ask a religious person to describe their god it will just be a (different) list of qualities but nothing concrete. I have heard people say in all seriousness that “god is love”. It is just meaningless words. How would you disprove the existence of something with no concrete qualities? Baffles me.

bmwmike

7,047 posts

110 months

Thursday 19th October 2023
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The Rotrex Kid said:
No.

The absolute audacity of humans to think that we are so damn important that there is some kind of fantastic afterlife where we get to carry on after our mortal engines give up is hilarious/baffling/bonkers. The flying spaghetti monster has just as much real world relevance and evidence.

You're born, you live, you die, your body rots/gets burnt. The world keeps on spinning and you become a tiny footnote at the bottom of a page. That's it. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Have a great day everyone. Each one you get is a bonus smile
Agreed but do like the way Gervais put it on one of his stand up shows. Paraphrasing but you don't exist for 14 odd billion years, then you get to live for a blink of an eye in astronomical terms of if you're lucky maybe 70 years or so, then you die never to live again for the entire age of the universe.

That any of us are even here in the first place to waste our limited time on this website is fantastical in itself.