Match.com (Volume 6)

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Impasse

15,099 posts

180 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Carthage said:
I'm very, very old. biggrin

To be honest I don't want a relationship, as I think I'm too weird/eccentric which leads to conflict.
Men have very strong views of what they want, how I should be, what I should do. They don't give me any space/time to myself, and they don't give anything back.

(Plus I'm not entirely vanilla, which limits things somewhat. wink )
You're using quite a broad brush to paint that picture. Date the person, the individual. Nothing else matters.
(And old blokes are awesome, btw...)

Carthage

4,250 posts

83 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Impasse said:
You're using quite a broad brush to paint that picture. Date the person, the individual. Nothing else matters.
(And old blokes are awesome, btw...)
Ok, put it this way; would you date a woman 16 years older than you, who was kinky (assuming you were not)?

Impasse

15,099 posts

180 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Depends entirely on the woman. But from your description she sounds like fun. bounce

robsco

6,501 posts

115 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Depends on the level of kink too?

Ki3r

4,762 posts

98 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Back on POF as I'm bored today (and shattered but can't sleep). Got a couple of conversations going on POF, but struggling to keep the conversation going, they just kind of stop replying.
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NRS

13,715 posts

140 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Carthage said:
Impasse said:
But you're not exactly a pensioner are you, so what's the problem? I've dated girls 20 years my junior and had a great time with them. The relationships were never destined to be anything other than short term things, but were fun while they lasted with no animosity once over.
Thinking about it, they were the least stressful of the relationships I've had and the girls certainly had the most honest approach to dating.
I'm very, very old. biggrin
I remember back when there was dinosaurs roaming around PH, and Cartage was old back then too, wink

More seriously, it's best to do what you're happy with (as you know). I joke around a lot about being single, but in reality it's much better than being in a relationship that doesn't work or desperately trying to find one to make you "happy".

Carthage

4,250 posts

83 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Impasse said:
Depends entirely on the woman. But from your description she sounds like fun. bounce
Perve! laugh

That example didn't really make my point, did it? biggrin

Carthage

4,250 posts

83 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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robsco said:
Depends on the level of kink too?
Enough wink

robsco

6,501 posts

115 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Carthage said:
Enough wink
I daren't ask. hehe

Carthage

4,250 posts

83 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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NRS said:
I remember back when there was dinosaurs roaming around PH, and Cartage was old back then too, wink

More seriously, it's best to do what you're happy with (as you know). I joke around a lot about being single, but in reality it's much better than being in a relationship that doesn't work or desperately trying to find one to make you "happy".
I only remember those pesky Romans. smile

I'm in an 'open relationship' at the moment, on my terms.
It would be lovely to meet someone to have fun with, but it's not going to happen.

I plan to buy a herd of cats. smile

Impasse

15,099 posts

180 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Carthage said:
That example didn't really make my point, did it? biggrin
Not really, but I knew what you meant. Good job you're playing to a friendly crowd. biggrin

Justsmile

31 posts

61 months

Saturday 9th August 2014
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Thinking of posting up a profile to a dating site for research and curiosity only just to see where the cut off point is out there..;)

croyde

15,234 posts

169 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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NRS said:
I remember back when there was dinosaurs roaming around PH, and Cartage was old back then too, wink

More seriously, it's best to do what you're happy with (as you know). I joke around a lot about being single, but in reality it's much better than being in a relationship that doesn't work or desperately trying to find one to make you "happy".
I like that philosophy.

Studio117

4,250 posts

130 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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infernos

she had a yellow bumhole

did it anyway

:0

pincher

5,444 posts

156 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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Studio117 said:
infernos

she had a yellow bumhole

did it anyway

:0
Could somebody please translate that into 'normal'?

dai1983

1,685 posts

88 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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Carthage said:
robsco said:
Depends on the level of kink too?
Enough wink
We definitely need more details!

Council Baby

19,724 posts

129 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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pincher said:
Studio117 said:
infernos

she had a yellow bumhole

did it anyway

:0
Could somebody please translate that into 'normal'?
Infernos is a hell hole of a slutty club on Clapham High Street. You can't fail to get action there if you're under 40, buy some shots for them and have a bit of chat.

Capisce?

pincher

5,444 posts

156 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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I knew that I could rely on you to explain thumbup

kowalski655

8,048 posts

82 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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Studio117 said:
infernos

she had a yellow bumhole

did it anyway

:0
Crappy haiku dude!

kowalski655

8,048 posts

82 months

Sunday 10th August 2014
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Carthage said:
I've been asked out by someone 16 years older than me.

laugh

ETA - it's a wonder he's still alive!

Edited by Carthage on Saturday 9th August 16:04
Is that because you have nearly killed him with your kinky ways?smile